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I think we were dating + engaged for 3 years. Wound up getting married early when she got pregnant.

I wouldn’t recommend doing it that way, we had to make a lot of decisions and our lives changed immediately since we really weren’t prepared…it almost ended up bad :whew:

However, that was over a decade ago and she’s always been my best friend, my road dog and e made sure to plan for the second kid and do what we supposed to do the right way :heh:

I wouldn’t change a thing, we had fun, gone on many trips, countless netflixed and chilled nights…bruh. Y’all nikkas can keep the single life. I enjoy my nightly cuddles fukk what you heard :ufdup: 🥰
 

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We met a decade prior to getting married in college but nothing materialized and moved forward with our lives. Reconnected on Facebook. It moved pretty fast once we made it official. I’m happy with my wife. I won’t front like it’s perfect but it’s not a matter of love and trust. We just a class of perspectives and personalities.
 

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PAUSE..... After 20 years together, how is the sex? How often do you do it? Do you still enjoy it after 20 years with the same person?

Shortly after marriage we ran into some issues sexually (Mismatched libidos). It was the only issue in our marriage. The solution is too long and personal to get into. Yes we still have sex as often as our relatively young kids allow. After 10+ years and if you two really trust each other, sex starts to open up. I can watch porn with her and say, hey I want to try that, and if it's physically feasible, she'll make it happen. People who become swingers tend to enter that lifestyle after about 10+ years of marriage too. We haven't joined that group, but can't say we haven't discussed the topic. Then again, no sexual topic is off limits at this point.
 

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we was dating and got engaged within 6 months married within a year on some kevin samuels shyt (before kevin samuels was a thing)

when you know what you want and are dating with a purpose, shyt is easy to find the one from all the bs out there

one of the best decisions i ever made :blessed:
 

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I can say too after 20 years the sex is still great. We both were/are freaks that are always ready to go at it so I dunno, I guess I got lucky.
I'll say this again though, its not rocket science. Even though people do grow and change, you can find all of the important things out pretty early on when you start dating someone. One thing about being older though, is you should both know what you want and expect right out the gate.

There shouldn't really be any surprises that will cause issues if everyone is being honest.
 

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Met my wife, 6 months into it, I felt like she was the one, she proposed to me 15 months after I felt like she was the one, we've been married going on 15 years now. No kids together because I already had one, and she already had one at the point that we got married.

Don't get married because you're tired of single life. Get married because you found someone that you know you can't live without.
 

MJ Truth

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Met my wife, 6 months into it, I felt like she was the one, she proposed to me 15 months after I felt like she was the one, we've been married going on 15 years now. No kids together because I already had one, and she already had one at the point that we got married.

Don't get married because you're tired of single life. Get married because you found someone that you know you can't live without.
She proposed to you? Or I’m misreading?m

And it’s partially me being tired of the single life, but also if I’m being honest my parents are older and not in the best health, so I want them to at least experience being grandparents as well.
 

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Men don't want to get married.That's some woman shyt,

but if you can see a forever there, go for it


Tell her yes, wait for her to bring it up
 

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I dated my wife for 3 years, got engaged and married at year 4. We are 9 years in with a 3.5yr old and she is currently pregnant.

I actually met her at a dive bar in Brooklyn. We both were talking to other people at the time. The chik I was talking too wanted to keep her options open, so I dipped. Never really asked much about wife's situation at the time. Can't say I really cared because I experienced a a lot before meeting her.

We took a few trips together, they went good. I got along with her roommates, she lived in Park Slope BK, so we constantly went out and had great times. As time went on, I figured why not take the next steps. Got married at 34.

Love the the family unit we got going in here.
 
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