Married Women Are ‘Self-Centered’ Says Single Millennial, Reason Goes Viral
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MadScientist
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I’m sure this got her a step closer to happy friendships and a happy marriage.
There was a period where people were grateful for the human relationships they had compared to today where people feel entitled human relationship and feel like they are doing anyone who is in interaction with the, a "favor".
There people are miserable and not good people to be around hence they are alone but their egos are so huge they can no focus on themselves and it is everyone else who is the source of their misery (that they claim to be perfectly fine and happy yet spend time having to tell the world)
the cac mamba
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i hear what she's saying, but don't women usually enjoy doing this kinda shyt? or at least don't find it to be some massive chore
and what would the "energy in return" even be? you want a present for being single? or someone to watch your dog?
people like "doing things" for people with kids, because kids are a huge burden, and a 24/7 job
UnQuantized
Superstar
Women making everyone responsible for their issues and misery part 6,8475,375
feelosofer
#ninergang
She sounds really bitter
Low End Derrick
Veteran
she sounds mentally unstable
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
yall really love missing the point. it's not about prioritizing your family, it's that some of those women only foster friendships when it involves showing up for them (wedding, baby shower, kids birthday) but then don't reciprocate or show up for their girls (can be single, or partnered) - they don't go to their birthday, can't pick up the phone to congratulate them on a promotion, etc. again, this is very real and common. i see perpetrators of this in my mom group admit they've let friendships fall off and feel bad about not knowing how to fix it.
edit: that's not to say there isn't some resentment coming from the chick who made the TT
edit: that's not to say there isn't some resentment coming from the chick who made the TT
StackorStarve
All Star
She’s jealous and lonely
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
This is a non-story lol
Doobie Doo
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Let's keep it real, Aside from Birthdays, all the shyt women deem important enough to celebrate involve a man.
Anniversary, Proposal/Engagement, Wedding, Pregnancy/Baby Shower
What does the average single/childless woman have worth celebrating publicly with her homegirls other than a birthday
dora_da_destroyer
Master Baker
work accomplishments, academic/school accomplishments, new house/apartment, weight loss, hobbies with some form of public showcase, etc and it's about showing up, not necessarily celebrating milestones. some of these women get married and don't show up for friends while only connecting with them when it's time to celebrate something about them/their family. i don't expect you to understand as it's well document how different friendships are between women vs those between men, but a friendship should be two way, you can't continuously ask of others and never give
Doobie Doo
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All of that is shyt you supposed to celebrate with your family. If it ain't the family you started then the family you came from.