Married Women Are ‘Self-Centered’ Says Single Millennial, Reason Goes Viral

[Canon]

crazy 5 o clock shadow going on

 

[MadScientist]

I’m sure this got her a step closer to happy friendships and a happy marriage.

 

[Mike809]

Same thing happens to most men , those type of friendships ( single friends ) instead get replaced by friendship with other married couples.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’m sure this got her a step closer to happy friendships and a happy marriage.

There was a period where people were grateful for the human relationships they had compared to today where people feel entitled human relationship and feel like they are doing anyone who is in interaction with the, a "favor".

There people are miserable and not good people to be around hence they are alone but their egos are so huge they can no focus on themselves and it is everyone else who is the source of their misery (that they claim to be perfectly fine and happy yet spend time having to tell the world)

 

[the cac mamba]

While unmarried women are expected to attend bachelorette and engagement parties, baby showers, and celebrate every milestone, Ashanti doesn’t believe that married friends give the same energy in return.​

i hear what she's saying, but don't women usually enjoy doing this kinda shyt? or at least don't find it to be some massive chore

and what would the "energy in return" even be? you want a present for being single? or someone to watch your dog? people like "doing things" for people with kids, because kids are a huge burden, and a 24/7 job

 

[UnQuantized]

Women making everyone responsible for their issues and misery part 6,8475,375

 

[feelosofer]

She sounds really bitter

 

[Don Snow]

Married women primarily focus on their husbands and family than their friends I never would’ve thought


What’s next you’re going to tell me they spend more time with the family they created over their friends

 

[Low End Derrick]

she sounds mentally unstable

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

yall really love missing the point. it's not about prioritizing your family, it's that some of those women only foster friendships when it involves showing up for them (wedding, baby shower, kids birthday) but then don't reciprocate or show up for their girls (can be single, or partnered) - they don't go to their birthday, can't pick up the phone to congratulate them on a promotion, etc. again, this is very real and common. i see perpetrators of this in my mom group admit they've let friendships fall off and feel bad about not knowing how to fix it.

edit: that's not to say there isn't some resentment coming from the chick who made the TT

 

[StackorStarve]

She’s jealous and lonely

 

[Vandelay]

This is a non-story lol

 

[Doobie Doo]

yall really love missing the point. it's not about prioritizing your family, it's that some of those women only foster friendships when it involves showing up for them (wedding, baby shower, kids birthday) but then don't reciprocate or show up for their girls (can be single, or partnered) - they don't go to their birthday, can't pick up the phone to congratulate them on a promotion, etc. again, this is very real and common. i see perpetrators of this in my mom group admit they've let friendships fall off and feel bad about not knowing how to fix it.

edit: that's not to say there isn't some resentment coming from the chick who made the TT

Let's keep it real, Aside from Birthdays, all the shyt women deem important enough to celebrate involve a man.

Anniversary, Proposal/Engagement, Wedding, Pregnancy/Baby Shower

What does the average single/childless woman have worth celebrating publicly with her homegirls other than a birthday

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

Let's keep it real, Aside from Birthdays, all the shyt women deem important enough to celebrate involve a man.

Anniversary, Proposal/Engagement, Wedding, Pregnancy/Baby Shower

What does the average single/childless woman have worth celebrating publicly with her homegirls other than a birthday

work accomplishments, academic/school accomplishments, new house/apartment, weight loss, hobbies with some form of public showcase, etc and it's about showing up, not necessarily celebrating milestones. some of these women get married and don't show up for friends while only connecting with them when it's time to celebrate something about them/their family. i don't expect you to understand as it's well document how different friendships are between women vs those between men, but a friendship should be two way, you can't continuously ask of others and never give

 

[Doobie Doo]

work accomplishments, academic/school accomplishments, new house/apartment, weight loss, hobbies with some form of public showcase, etc and it's about showing up, not necessarily celebrating milestones. some of these women get married and don't show up for friends while only connecting with them when it's time to celebrate something about them/their family. i don't expect you to understand as it's well document how different friendships are between women vs those between men, but a friendship should be two way, you can't continuously ask of others and never give

All of that is shyt you supposed to celebrate with your family. If it ain't the family you started then the family you came from.