Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[Midrash]

There's nothing wrong with getting married but this just shows you that all the external factors in the world can't make up for intimacy and a great relationship with your wife. If you can't even communicate about sex being subpar with your woman, then it's not a great relationship.

I know a lot of engineering dudes and white collar cats with a ton of money but bored ass wives who a good chunk sleep around on the side because they tried to use money as a replacement for a great relationship with excellent communication. Luckily these dudes are in the minority.

 

[Mr Rager]

Wow this "study" totally legitimizes women cheating

 

[No_bammer_weed]

#2 - No doubt, but why Alimony? Isn't that the whole point of seeking equality? Women don't want to hear that they are not equal when it comes to the workplace, but contradict themselves in the courtroom. Which one is it already?

#4 - I agree with you there, but let's take it back to point #1. Men are being stripped away from their finances for YEARS after a breakup for some BS like Alimony...that is absolute nonsense in 2014 and you know it.

#5 - Again, women are the ones with the advantage over us in deciding on who to sleep with. Men are the initiators and the aggressors. Women are the ones who generally have the upper hand in these initial negotiations WITH the final say. It is a responsibility that they have had since the beginning of time and are now not facing any sort of repercussions for these mistakes that last anywhere between 18-22 years. They get rewarded from the state with that tax credit and of course child support and more often than not...ALIMONY.

How is this NOT a problem?

Alimony is rare in divorce settlements ( <15%) so im not quite sure why you keep emphasizing it as if its common. Alimony is conditional upon the economic relationship of the marriage. If you're caking and you have your woman stay at home and do nothing, then you cant just throw her on the streets. Marriage is considered a lifetime commitment, and if you have some trophy wife sitting on her ass all day and the marriage falls apart with the wife having no means to support herself and conditioned to a lifestyle you've provided...welp, expect to pay.

This isnt gender specific as men are eligible to become beneficiaries of alimony settlements if the terms of the marriage (woman supported the man) lead to such a judgement. At any rate, the person who assumes custody of the kids is going to be looked upon favorably in the eyes of the court. The state rewards the children, and it isnt in the business of acting punitively towards innocent children.

 

[CrimsonTider]

never said they have an advantage.

right, well there are plenty advantages for a man to get married.

 

[Ashley Banks]

shocking

 

[Danny Up]

What the fukk? How you happy and bored? GTFOH.

 

[Turbulent]

right, well there are plenty advantages for a man to get married.

cool

 

[ORDER_66]

these women don't get it breh

im sure every man here has experienced the coldness of a woman who was into you at one point.

they can't fathom it, and all they will tell you is "choose the right owman" blah blah, like they never did that to a man before.

A women's emotion changes like the wind, it doesn't matter how much she "loves you", how many kids you have together, how rich you are, how great your dikk game is.

a woman can tell you right now she loves you so much, no guy has ever treated her this well, you are a angel from above, go to sleep and wake up tomorrow morning and the tingles are gone and she no longer wants anything to do with you

Yep ive seen that happen too often... They hit some sort of midlife crisis, start talked to someone else behind your back oh he's just a friend shyt... you definitely notcie the signs when she starts cheating if you pay close attention. A man can do everything in his power to make a woman happy but once she either consciously seeks out someone else or emotionally entangles someone else in some fantasy shyt. Some women cant be trusted especially if they follow with there feelings. Oh i like him but im feeling someone else bullshyt.

You ever wonder why some women run back to scumbags that fukk them over and we sit back and think man she's stupid. why cause she's using her feelings... her emotions control her...

 

[blackzeus]

It doesn't even make sense though. fukking some other dude isn't going to make you less bored in the bedroom the next time you're with your husband. I mean, not to throw too much logic in the building, but women who want to cheat because they want better sex need to let their husband know that and try to work on it with him from there.

As a guy whose been with a few ( ) married/in a committed relationship women, I agree with your post 100%. Perhaps it's because I'm black, but in my experience it's really a bedroom thing IMHO, nothing more nothing less. A woman who is with a man who she's been with for a while who respects her and treats her right won't leave him on principle, no matter how good you f*ck, no matter how many times she cums. In general women are pretty steady in terms of just sticking with one guy. But if he can't do it in the bedroom, she needs to have those urges fulfilled, just the same as a married man who has a 220 lb wife with 3 kids who doesn't stay in shape anymore. It's not a question of love, it's just the fulfillment of a certain part of the animal side of us as humans. Personally, I say it's 2014, people need to be real. If you don't want your girl to cheat, work on your D-game, hit the gym, hit the track, etc. Ladies, if you don't want your man to cheat, work on your P-game, hit the gym, hit the track, etc. Otherwise you're forcing your better half between a rock and a hard place.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yep ive seen that happen too often... They hit some sort of midlife crisis, start talked to someone else behind your back oh he's just a friend shyt... you definitely notcie the signs when she starts cheating if you pay close attention. A man can do everything in his power to make a woman happy but once she either consciously seeks out someone else or emotionally entangles someone else in some fantasy shyt. Some women cant be trusted especially if they follow with there feelings. Oh i like him but im feeling someone else bullshyt.

You ever wonder why some women run back to scumbags that fukk them over and we sit back and think man she's stupid. why cause she's using her feelings... her emotions control her...

yup women think with emotions not logic, thats why she loves loser type men she cant control they take her to that excitement that mysterious will he cheat on me again, will he hit me again :lupe;

the 2 places for infidelity, reconnecing with a ex or a guy who beat it up on facebook or at work.

And yep you can notice the signs, but many men will be like "is everything ok" and she'll smile and kiss you suck your dikk to calm your fears.

a man can do everything be faithful, be the first dude who treated her right, take her and 3 b*stard children in out of the homeless abusive women shelter and in teh end it means nothing.

Once a woman is gone she's gone, because they check out way in advance whether its weeks, months or even years, when thats why when they finally drop them thangs on you they can go from talking to you every day for years to suddenly not at all, because they already moved on and overlapped you.

That's why when a women gets distant, needs space, you feel like something is wrong get out first. Always let your women know there is the door and your not afraid if she uses it or walks out.

 

[Deezy314619]

My homeboy in STL said he hit a Canadian nikka'z wife
she stayed wit her man cause he ballin doe... but man find you a good one and pray y'all

 

[Atlrocafella]

The Church of @Emperor_ReinScarf is not to be taken lightly.

 

[blackzeus]

https://www.ashleymadison.com/

I can't believe this site I'm bout to on the low

 

[He Who Posts Well]

maybe it's because i'm young but this shyt went right over my head, fukk it mean

You must be new here. Save it on your computer and revisit it in a month or so. It's an inside joke on the coli.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Introduction and summary: Submissive homemaker

Manager of the home, under the oversight of her husband. (The wife is the manager of the home, but the husband is the manager of the wife.)Primary role revolves around the daily care of children, meal preparation and keeping the house clean and in order.She is free to take on additional roles and responsibilities by getting a job. Such a job is optional, whereas for the husband, it is mandatory. Her optional choice to take on a job does not suddenly obligate the husband to take on part of the wife's role of child care or keeping house.

"encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5"get married, bear children, keep house" 1 Timothy 5:14"But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1 Timothy 2:15

LMAO this nikka is brave