Melissa Ford: nothing worse than being well known and broke

[marcuz]

I knew the white women exalting was coming. Its true what some have said, 9 times out of 10 the Black men who accuse Black feminists of this and that are actually projecting their own views onto them.

why do you black women bring up white women, then get mad at the response? white chicks fukk with a lotta nikkas too, some get burned and end up w/a confused half breed; but most protect themselves and use BC or ask the guy to wear a rubber.

There are plenty of examples of this happening. The difference is that the males don't live in a community where not taking care of that child, under whatever situation it was created in, is looked at like " thats normal an expected"

oh, you mean a patriarchy?

A couple is the key word here. You see far, far, faaaaaaaar more non-Black women walking around with little mixed raced babies with no father in sight. If the result is the same even with different races of women, who are you really kidding acting like its Black women's choices? Black men simply aren't being taught sexual responsibility, neither the good nor the so called thugs. You, who claim to be above the thugs you claim to hate, view fatherhood in the exact same way as the thugs--optional, and not primarily your responsibility. Why do you think that is?

fatherhood is optional? find that quote from me and i'll permaban myself. it's the women who are procreating w/these men that view fathers as optional. you keep trying to push the blame on guys like me (men who do not have children or take care of their kids) when you need to take that rage and anger to the women who enable those men, because they like the sex, or the lifestyle, or whatever stupid reason they have at the time.

 

[MikelArteta]

The reason these older women like Sanna, Melyssa, Kenya Moore, tyra banks, tracy ellis ross, taraji henson and some others are not being chosen is because alot of dudes right off the bat think these women mindset is i'm the BOSS, I'M THE MAN, I DON'T NEED A MAN OR I'M A TOP NOTCH WOMAN WHO NEEDS TO BE WINE AND DINE AND YOUR JUST A GARBAGE MAN OR CONSTRUCTION WORKER WHO MAKES $40 TO $60,000 A YEAR SO U NOT ON MY LEVEL... AND THIS GOES ON WITH WOMEN IN OUR NEIGHBORHOODS WHO MOST OF THE TIME IS MAKING THE SAME OR LESS MONEY BUT THEY CONTINUE TO HAVE THIS FANTASY OF A CERTAIN TYPE OF MAN IN THERE LIVES AND END UP BEING BY THEM SAME DUDES.

I wish her luck but if she doesn't change her mindset and kick back to reality she's going to have a hard time

hypergamy 101


and you know what men? save your money get a passport and travel the world where women are hotter, have less of attitude and for 10 dollars usd will give you a night to remember

 

[PartyHeart]

No offense but every time I see you post it's always on some black men are always at fault type thing, no matter what it is

Not really, it is mostly coli males who try to say Black women are always at fault for everything. I come in and try to point out how it isn't, which often leads to me pointing out some accountability on Black men's part. If we were talking about the issues truthfully and wholly, I'd be getting into both genders issues, but the coli is not a place where men's issues are ever really addressed so I find myself only talking about those because they would be neglected otherwise.

Arent you the chick that said her father told her to not date black guys?

No. My father is a Black man.

 

[Gifted one]

Not really, it is mostly coli males who try to say Black women are always at fault for everything. I come in and try to point out how it isn't, which often leads to me pointing out some accountability on Black men's part. If we were talking about the issues truthfully and wholly, I'd be getting into both genders issues, but the coli is not a place where men's issues are ever really addressed so I find myself only talking about those because they would be neglected otherwise.



No. My father is a Black man.

It's just every thread I see you in it's always you arguing belittling your own people, I mean don't you ever get tired of that? Look just admit that women fukk up choosing men because of their status which may in turn hurt them in the end, both black men and black women have flaws, address both issues instead of acting like one is at fault while the other is scott free

 

[PartyHeart]

oh, you mean a patriarchy?

Patriarchy is where men are held accountable for nothing? You are confused.

fatherhood is optional? find that quote from me and i'll permaban myself. it's the women who are procreating w/these men that view fathers as optional. you keep trying to push the blame on guys like me (men who do not have children or take care of their kids) when you need to take that rage and anger to the women who enable those men, because they like the sex, or the lifestyle, or whatever stupid reason they have at the time.

Stop trying to make my position into yours. I don't go on and on railing about single mothers, thats you. It is you that ultimately has an intense hatred for this issue (I think I know why and it has nothing to do with community building). The only time I come in and say anything is when you try to put all the weight of that hatred and blame onto Black women.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

 

[Will Ross]

Patriarchy is where men are held accountable for nothing? You are confused.




Stop trying to make my position into yours. I don't go on and on railing about single mothers, thats you. It is you that ultimately has an intense hatred for this issue (I think I know why and it has nothing to do with community building). The only time I come in and say anything is when you try to put all the weight of that hatred and blame onto Black women.

How are the men not being held accountable? If a man does snot pay child support he goes to jail

 

[PartyHeart]

It's just every thread I see you in it's always you arguing belittling your own people, I mean don't you ever get tired of that? Look just admit that women fukk up choosing men because of their status which may in turn hurt them in the end, both black men and black women have flaws, address both issues instead of acting like one is at fault while the other is scott free

@marcuz he's talking to you

Seriously, you need to be addressing this to him and possibly yourself if you think like him, because he's the one that thinks Black men shouldn't be expected to be responsible for the children they create just because they only were looking for sex and nothing more but Black women should.

 

[Gifted one]

@marcuz he's talking to you

Seriously, you need to be addressing this to him and possibly yourself if you think like him, because he's the one that thinks Black men shouldn't be expected to be responsible for the children they create just because they only were looking for sex and nothing more but Black women should.

I'm definitely talking about you, but you're deflecting, I've seen Marcuz bring up the faults black men have, but in order to bring up each other's flaws we have to address our own first, something I never see you do

 

[PartyHeart]

I'm definitely talking about you, but you're deflecting, I've seen Marcuz bring up the faults black men have, but in order to bring up each other's flaws we have to address our own first, something I never see you do

What am I deflecting?

If you expect me to say that Black women are to blame for having children out of wedlock and Black men aren't (or more to blame or however you want to slice it), you're never going to hear it, because its not true

And please quote any posts of marcuz where he says Black men are ever at fault for anything, I need receipts.

 

[Gifted one]

What am I deflecting?

If you expect me to say that Black women are to blame for having children out of wedlock and Black men aren't (or more to blame or however you want to slice it), you're never going to hear it, because its not true

And please quote any posts of marcuz where he says Black men are ever at fault for anything, I need receipts.

Went way over your head

 

[King Poetic]

when has she said this.
and do you actually know all the guys she's dated
i mean we can assume this, but do you know this as an absolute fact?

when has she said this.
and do you actually know all the guys she's dated
i mean we can assume this, but do you know this as an absolute fact?

u must havent read the part before the one u highlighted.. i said alot of men THINK

 

[PartyHeart]

Went way over your head

Uh huh. Tell me what I am deflecting

Edit: I just realized you are one of his disciples and thinks the same way he does

 

[marcuz]

And please quote any posts of marcuz where he says Black men are ever at fault for anything, I need receipts.

you selectively read what you want to read then

 

[Gifted one]

Uh huh. Tell me what I am deflecting

You already have everything made up in your mind, you're no different than the people at FOX news, no need in me having to drop down to your level of thinking, best wishes to you though