Melyssa Ford Playing Dumb about Competing with 25 year old girls for the same pool of Men.

[Ahadi]

Mothers compete with their daughters all the time.

In this generation, all of those women are trying to compete and get the same top percentage of men.

 

[FTBS]

Mel knows damn well men in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond was on her ass heavy when she was knockin herself out .

That said, I dont think Vivica is competing as much as she is insecure and subject to whatever trend is hot. I knew something was off when she messed with that beautiful face (same with Jada).

 

[lib123]

What does pool mean?

There’s 20 year old nikkas that only look for 40+ year old women, milf hunters.

50 year old women that only look for 20 somethings, cougars.

And everything in between.

Mel could be fukking a 60 year old and a 25 year old right now and it ain’t nobody business but hers and theirs.

The pool of men that they want to wife them. Successful men in the 35-55 age range. They’re not doing all this (surgeries, Ozempic, etc) for men they just want to smash.

 

[King Poetic]

Mel knows damn well men in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond was on her ass heavy when she was knockin herself out .

That said, I dont think Vivica is competing as much as she is insecure and subject to whatever trend is hot. I knew something was off when she messed with that beautiful face (same with Jada).

Your right, but i still think she trying to compete when she goes on these shows saying she looking for a man and uses the same word of not settling

Your 60 years old and regardless of your pockets and who u are, settling isn’t something that should come out your mouth

Black women in large numbers keep hiding behind settling to hide the fact your not wanted even by the men u think that wants u

 

[African Peasant]

If Melyssa was bright, she'd already be locked down. 25 years of hoein and nothing to show for it.

Very beauatiful women, hoed for 25 years and end up in a coach next to weirdo Budden and Queenzflip.

Talking bout fumbling the beauty bag

 

[African Peasant]

I don't disagree with her that Vivica might not be competing with 25 year old, but I would say she's probably competing with 40ish women.

Even the 40ish women now are significantly thicker and heavier than they were 20 years ago.

Vivica was popping in a different era where slim sexy was in, ie the 90s n early 2000s.

She wasn't able to lock anyone down so now she's competing in a whole different game, and I'd imagine got the bbl because the players of today are just on the whole, much thicker than they were in her day.

She looks highkey awful but that's imo.

So Melyssa ain't wrong, it's not the 25 year olds because she Vivica understands there's no way she's outdoing young tenders.

But a 50ish breh with options will definitely happily swim in the 40s and a bit under waters. That's what she's trying to float in.

For hookup she's comêting with them 25 yo

For serious stuffs, she's competing with 40 yo

In both cases, she LOST

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I was going to say successful black men who aren’t rappers, or athletes don’t want former video girls as wives. But Robert Smith married a white playmate.

Hoes get wifed all the time. She just didn’t catch someone in time. Some of my friends are married to reformed hoes. We know the men they’ve been with.

 

[Bigen King]

At 50 she needs to get with a 75 year old. That’s the only nikkas who will fawn over her - unless she starts to look like Kelis or Regina Hall or something …

Once a female hits the age of 37 she should really consider her dating options to only men 10 - 20 years older. Females hate to hear that but that’s facts only because most men around 35 - 45 who are single are not trying to deal with the headache, boss mentality, pressure, trauma and p*ssy games from women in that age bracket. They’re the group complaining the most about men yet have the highest standards online.

 

[lib123]

Your right, but i still think she trying to compete when she goes on these shows saying she looking for a man and uses the same word of not settling

Your 60 years old and regardless of your pockets and who u are, settling isn’t something that should come out your mouth

Black women in large numbers keep hiding behind settling to hide the fact your not wanted even by the men u think that wants u

It seems like when they say settling they’re referring to men who are 15+ years older, below average looking and/or financially unstable. Many of those men are probably viable relationship options for them.

 

[King Poetic]

It seems like when they say settling they’re referring to men who are 15+ years older, below average looking and/or financially unstable. Many of those men are probably viable relationship options for them.

Your Right

But when you are 2025 and not 1995 vivica fox or any of these older women pass their prime and p*ssy been beat up by every celebrity who didn’t want you then and regardless of your financial situation why would a rich man settle for you?

Or even a pretty ricky

 

[MikelArteta]

If Melyssa was bright, she'd already be locked down. 25 years of hoein and nothing to show for it.

She got that GoFundMe from simps

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

It seems like when they say settling they’re referring to men who are 15+ years older, below average looking and/or financially unstable. Many of those men are probably viable relationship options for them.

Unless she’s also below average looking, how is she supposed to be turned on by a man she’s not attracted to, and expected to remain faithful for the rest of her life? Why do y’all think women don’t need physical attraction, or unattractive men are the best partners??? The men are pursuing them because they find them attractive, yet if she rejects him for not being attractive, she deserves to be alone?

And how is a financially unstable person a good prospect for a relationship regardless of gender? Do you know how many men ruined their lives by being with a financially irresponsible woman?

Why do y’all act like relationships don’t need attraction and chemistry? You expect a woman to take a man she’s not attracted to, and on top of that, go 50/50 on dates and living expenses. Why would she PAY to be with someone she has to force herself to be intimate with?

 

[Gloxina]

Unless she’s also below average looking, how is she supposed to be turned on by a man she’s not attracted to, and expected to remain faithful for the rest of her life? Why do y’all think women don’t need physical attraction, or unattractive men are the best partners??? The men are pursuing them because they find them attractive, yet if she rejects him for not being attractive, she deserves to be alone?

And how is a financially unstable person a good prospect for a relationship regardless of gender? Do you know how many men ruined their lives by being with a financially irresponsible woman?

Why do y’all act like relationships don’t need attraction and chemistry? You expect a woman to take a man she’s not attracted to, and on top of that, go 50/50 on dates and living expenses. Why would she PAY to be with someone she has to force herself to be intimate with?

Right.


Everyone’s operating in extremes with these convos.

She was always pretty and stayed on top of her fitness; minus the bird behavior she would have NO issue finding a successful man 5-15yrs older than her. Like I said, I know women older than her who have or are marrying highly educated/successful brehs this year. It can be done if you yourself are a certain caliber of woman.

Hell, Nia Long is older than her and (minus the attitude) could probably lock down a new guy faster simply because she carries herself better.

Mel’s issue is being in entertainment.
Younger girls up on game will trade looks/youth for an older man’s money.

Younger girls in the normal world ain’t operating like that. A 25YO accountant ain’t bringing home a divorced 44YO comptroller to meet mom and dad (Now maybe the fam would be open to it if the 44YO is the millionaire CEO, and they will still give him the side eye).

But a 25YO IG model is DEF considering some 40YO millionaire entertainer, and that millionaire is definitely only considering women under 30.

Mel is in the entertainment realm, so she’s got it worse than regular women in that regard.

Could’ve married a non-famous successful man like some of the other women. Some entertainment exec. Easily.

Not hating, just stating that it’s doable if you’re realistic.

 

[lib123]

Unless she’s also below average looking, how is she supposed to be turned on by a man she’s not attracted to, and expected to remain faithful for the rest of her life? Why do y’all think women don’t need physical attraction, or unattractive men are the best partners??? The men are pursuing them because they find them attractive, yet if she rejects him for not being attractive, she deserves to be alone?

And how is a financially unstable person a good prospect for a relationship regardless of gender? Do you know how many men ruined their lives by being with a financially irresponsible woman?

Why do y’all act like relationships don’t need attraction and chemistry? You expect a woman to take a man she’s not attracted to, and on top of that, go 50/50 on dates and living expenses. Why would she PAY to be with someone she has to force herself to be intimate with?

Why are you jumping to conclusions? I never said they should find their options attractive or not. I was listing their options that they view as settling. The reality is those are the options many older women are limited to.

 

[V Skyye]

Melissa Ford is an old bird. But the fact that young men even care about her options proves that she has options. It’s just not the options that she wants.

Also, Laroyce from Chicago PD is a bit younger than her and stays with IG models. He’s a terrible choice if she was actually looking to settle down.