Melyssa Ford Playing Dumb about Competing with 25 year old girls for the same pool of Men.

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Wait is she trying to date him?! He more than a little younger.

See, that makes no sense to me. This isn’t a Gabby Union/DWade situation lol
I thought somebody said they were dating on this thread. If so, I don’t blame either one of them. They’re both sexy. But only for short term.

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As a person who has zero problems with plastic surgery, Vivica looks horrible.

Whomever did her surgery should have their license taken away.

She's too old to be worried about the attention of men but she'd do better at least going the Nicole Murphy route.

If she took better care of her health should would look so much better.
It's not an age thing ma , it's a mind thing . Her mind is stuck on bs , when she looks in the mirror a warped image or perception is displayed in her mind . She messed her face up with surgery & will ruin her body . No one around her is telling her the truth or she's not listening. She's clearly a hard headed woman that needs guidance
 

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basically she wants a morris chestnut nikka that 'wants' to date in his age bracket.....

the problem being that nikka can and will date/marry younger....

why?

because why not? if you can


Not every grown man is out here on that type of time. Some men actually have mamas and peers they would be ashamed to bring a 20 year old around:martin:


Y'all need to stop acting lik every grown black man is out here like Diddy on his forever young shyt.


I honestly don't think a 60 year old woman is competing with no damn 25 year olds:gucci:


I just think most of these women,especially from this era entire identity is based around their looks. They are having a horrible time accepting aging out to the point nobody cares about or even mentions your looks. They have no idea what to do with themselves once they aren't beautiful anymore. There's going to be a lot of broken mirrors out there.


Joe probably talking about the Drayas and Burnice Burgos,and Melissa Fords of the world. Your talking about women fine to the point they might as well still be 25. Vivicia is under no illusion she is any of those women and can compete with 25 year olds when she looks in a mirror ,with all due respect:comeon:
 

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In the clip they were telling her the same pool of men that she wants is also being pursued by 25 year old girls.


But then they said Vivicia is competing as if Vivicia is blind:mjlol:


Women can look in the mirror and know if they can compete with 25 year olds physically or not. Those women who can probably do. I just don't believe Vivica looked in the mirror,and said "a bbl will put me over the top again:mjgrin:"



She knows damn well what level of washed she is at this point in time. she might not know just how washed. But she knows she ain't competing with 25 year olds lol
 

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It's not an age thing ma , it's a mind thing . Her mind is stuck on bs , when she looks in the mirror a warped image or perception is displayed in her mind . She messed her face up with surgery & will ruin her body . No one around her is telling her the truth or she's not listening. She's clearly a hard headed woman that needs guidance
It is a age thing. By that age you should know the attention of males isn't something worth chasing.
 

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But then they said Vivicia is competing as if Vivicia is blind:mjlol:


Women can look in the mirror and know if they can compete with 25 year olds physically or not. Those women who can probably do. I just don't believe Vivica looked in the mirror,and said "a bbl will put me over the top again:mjgrin:"



She knows damn well what level of washed she is at this point in time. she might not know just how washed. But she knows she ain't competing with 25 year olds lol

Lol I think she thinks it could increase her odds with men 45+
 

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I met a women like Melissa Ford who was extremely intelligent as far her education but the men she was attracted too didn’t meet her exceptionally high standards and she refused to date older men cause although they might met her mentally the attraction wasn’t there so they just end up on this hamster wheel of dating the wrong men and passing on the men that they should be with..


Thats how you end up 55-60 single no kids and crying on ur pillow every night....:yeshrug:
 

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As a man who grew up with a 80% female immediate family, they take aging out hard

It's ridiculous because women who age with grace can't lose but :yeshrug:

The issue that many women seem to overlook and I recall someone, a woman on here mind you, getting mad at me for even saying this is that:
Personality matters. How you treat your man matters. Values matter.

Simple as that. A lot of women do not understand this. It is the great equalizer and can make a world of difference for many men. So even in those lofty circles, personality will set you apart from other women. Not understanding this or refusing to adhere to this keeps women single, no matter how hard they want to be married. Even if they marry down, it blows up in their face because who you are inside will determine who will truly be around and attract and who will be in your life. Too many people think they can trick a man into marriage not realizing that a man that can be tricked like that is someone easily fooled or weak-willed who will become that woman's worst nightmare down the line.



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These old broads can't compete and it makes them sick. I remember when a bytch turned 18 she was up for grabs. Now it's taboo and all that other feminine language. They mad at Leonardo for only smashing girls that's 24 and will say he's taking advantage. At what age do these hoe's hold themselves accountable??
 
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The funny part is you wouldn’t be caping like this for a low income middle aged man complaining about not finding his dating options physically attractive and not being willing to “settle”.

How is a middle aged low income man a viable partner? An attractive woman isn’t trying to compete to go 50/50 on watered down drinks, and an appetizer from Applebees. If you made it to middle age and still have no money, you have bigger problems than women.
 

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How is a middle aged low income man a viable partner? An attractive woman isn’t trying to compete to go 50/50 on watered down drinks, and an appetizer from Applebees. If you made it to middle age and still have no money, you have bigger problems than women.

That’s your opinion. On the flip side, a man could say how is a woman beyond a certain age a viable partner? My point is both have limited options but you would only be making excuses for why many of the older woman’s options would be considered settling.
 
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That’s your opinion. On the flip side a man could say who is a woman beyond a certain age a viable partner. My point is both have limited options but you would only be making excuses for why many of the older woman’s options would be considered settling.
There is no excuse to be middle aged and low income.
 
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