Melyssa Ford Playing Dumb about Competing with 25 year old girls for the same pool of Men.

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Why are you jumping to conclusions? I never said they should find their options attractive or not. I was listing their options that they view as settling. The reality is those are the options many older women are limited to.

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Melissa Ford is an old bird. But the fact that young men even care about her options proves that she has options. It’s just not the options that she wants.

Also, Laroyce from Chicago PD is a bit younger than her and stays with IG models. He’s a terrible choice if she was actually looking to settle down.
Wait is she trying to date him?! He more than a little younger.

See, that makes no sense to me. This isn’t a Gabby Union/DWade situation lol
 

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Melissa Ford is an old bird. But the fact that young men even care about her options proves that she has options. It’s just not the options that she wants.

Also, Laroyce from Chicago PD is a bit younger than her and stays with IG models. He’s a terrible choice if she was actually looking to settle down.

Which IG models has he been with?
 

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Mel admitted on her own pod that she dissed at least three nikkas who tried to wife.

She fukked a mid gang nikka before she became who she did and she said she saw the ring in dresser and she immediately left and flew to LA to start her Thot career.
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It's wild because being a middle manager at a bank is more respectable than being a bird on Joe Buddens podcast
 

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I was going to say successful black men who aren’t rappers, or athletes don’t want former video girls as wives. But Robert Smith married a white playmate.

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Hoes get wifed all the time. She just didn’t catch someone in time. Some of my friends are married to reformed hoes. We know the men they’ve been with.
Pretty much. The smart ones know when it's time to get outta of them game and stop fishing for a better deal. The arrogant ones are the ones you see out here on the back end complaining about the current market. I remember Mel said she had multiple opportunities where dudes tried to wife her and she cut bait. Some people just aren't meant for that life and that's cool. Dudes just gotta peep it and treat them as such
 

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The game changes for everyone.

I’m younger than her and I wouldn’t be thinking about the same men that a 25YO might be dating lol



This is the issue with only getting by on your looks.


I know Black women who are older than her who found love/marriage with accomplished Black men AFTER 45.
Those women aren’t birds, tho.
They are accomplished and moving in circles where you meet brehs with advanced degrees, successful businesses, etc. Yes, of course they are fit and attractive, but their own intelligence and status has them moving in circles where they are meeting and locking down successful brehs.


If she had moved away from modeling she’d have a better image.

The issue that many women seem to overlook and I recall someone, a woman on here mind you, getting mad at me for even saying this is that:
Personality matters. How you treat your man matters. Values matter.

Simple as that. A lot of women do not understand this. It is the great equalizer and can make a world of difference for many men. So even in those lofty circles, personality will set you apart from other women. Not understanding this or refusing to adhere to this keeps women single, no matter how hard they want to be married. Even if they marry down, it blows up in their face because who you are inside will determine who will truly be around and attract and who will be in your life. Too many people think they can trick a man into marriage not realizing that a man that can be tricked like that is someone easily fooled or weak-willed who will become that woman's worst nightmare down the line.
 

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The issue that many women seem to overlook and I recall someone, a woman on here mind you, getting mad at me for even saying this is that:
Personality matters. How you treat your man matters. Values matter.

Simple as that. A lot of women do not understand this. It is the great equalizer and can make a world of difference for many men. So even in those lofty circles, personality will set you apart from other women. Not understanding this or refusing to adhere to this keeps women single, no matter how hard they want to be married. Even if they marry down, it blows up in their face because who you are inside will determine who will truly be around and attract and who will be in your life. Too many people think they can trick a man into marriage not realizing that a man that can be tricked like that is someone easily fooled or weak-willed who will become that woman's worst nightmare down the line.
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Let’s rewind for a second

Because nobody brings up the fact that when 50 was with vivica he was 27 and she was 40… every headline “ go girl go vivica”

There was nothing about competing then

And how about also when Vivica was 46 she was engaged to a dude who was 27 and that fail

The problem with Vivica isn’t her age of 60,,, the bytch attitude might be shytty .. she probably all about her , thats why nobody looking for her or haven’t took her off the market

Taraji p henson who was 50 years old was with a ex nfl player who was 37 and that fail..

These women fail because it’s their own fault and choices period

Then they hide behind SETTLING
 

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You can't be too cool for school forever. Did she think she was always gonna be 22 or something?
 

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Let’s rewind for a second

Because nobody brings up the fact that when 50 was with vivica he was 27 and she was 40… every headline “ go girl go vivica”

There was nothing about competing then

And how about also when Vivica was 46 she was engaged to a dude who was 27 and that fail

The problem with Vivica isn’t her age of 60,,, the bytch attitude might be shytty .. she probably all about her , thats why nobody looking for her or haven’t took her off the market

Taraji p henson who was 50 years old was with a ex nfl player who was 37 and that fail..

These women fail because it’s their own fault and choices period

Then they hide behind SETTLING

VALID, VALID POINTS



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