Exlurkernegro

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I've seen chicks flat out turn nikkaz down that got they own business and taking care of business and be with a nikka that they make more than but are physically attracted to him. I'm noticing as more women are successful and independent looks factor in with everything else look how important height is to women.

Don't tell the coli this or they'll label you as a swagless incel.
 

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Why else you see a group of grey haired brehs 45+, in the club in the VIP section, trying to mack to broads less than half they are? :mjtf: Even worse, those same older brehs dress up like a Gen Z hypebeast, talking about "being fly" and "having drip" :mjlol:

In many ways, a lot of black folk dont mentally mature past high school.

On the same tip folks make fun of the oldheads who actually dress their age. Especially them oldhead uncs with the K&G fits. They laugh but them be the ones that got it together and living life with their wife.
 

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On the same tip folks make fun of the oldheads who actually dress their age. Especially them oldhead uncs with the K&G fits. They laugh but them be the ones that got it together and living life with their wife.

nah them fits trash. Most men have zero style and thats ok. I just say dudes should dress in what makes them feels good vs what they think folks will like
 
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We are done in terms of marriage in the black community and it started decades ago

remember by the end of 1969/1970 black women was married close to 60% and only 23% of black kids was born out of wedlock

Fast forward to today and only 25% of black women are married compared to 36% of black men and there’s twice as many sisters, so u can’t blame black men for not marring…. Then we go from 23% to close to 75% of black kids born out of wedlock
and as nikkas always do blame others for their poor decisions and then want to shame the blacks who actually have sense to fall into they bullshyt..

Many men have experienced the woman at work, the woman at the bar/club, gym , outside anywhere shaming the brother for not having kids or not wanting to date a woman with 3 kids by 3 different men ..


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I noticed throughout the thread people have ignored this particular issue
Dudes dismiss anything they dont agree with as incel. Just like how folks will cal a dude gay cause they dont agree with him.

they literally proving the arguments they dismissing with their points tol
 

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Dudes dismiss anything they dont agree with as incel. Just like how folks will cal a dude gay cause they dont agree with him.

they literally proving the arguments they dismissing with their points tol
Exactly
You literally see women try to create families with pookies and ray Ray's, but you got dudes in here saying you should improve for women who created children with men who don't got their shyt together :unsure:
 

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I was joking cause you used the wrong term
It's hypergamy lol

To your point though I've been around mostly working/lower class women the majority of my life
Half of them go for men on their squares, but that's when get older and smarter

Definitely didn't mean you. I just noticed "hyperglycemia". I'm going to leave that in:jbhmm::lolbron:

Imma branch off your point real quick too: A lot of dudes would take your post to mean that women only go for men about their business when they hit a certain age, but something brehs on here need to understand is that the young brehs who get the most girls at younger ages still have one of the traits I've mentioned in earlier posts. These dudes are at the top of their social circle relative to the women, or at least give the perception that they are. Usually they are in shape or not sloppy looking, confident, and have some type of paper/status.

The rules are altered but the game stays the same. Even 5 year old girls develop the ability to separate boys in their circle by the clothes they wear and how they act/popularity.

Female nature will never change, so you gotta adapt to society's pressures just like some of yalls male ancestors did.
 

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I've seen chicks flat out turn nikkaz down that got they own business and taking care of business and be with a nikka that they make more than but are physically attracted to him. I'm noticing as more women are successful and independent looks factor in with everything else look how important height is to women.

That's definitely another topic that can be broken down. A lot of variables to that situation. Women who are very high achievers generally look for men who fit both categories though when it comes time to settle down. As long as the man isn't a beta male provider, they usually cut a lot of bullshyt out.

Not everything is cut and dry for sure though:yeshrug:
 

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its a literal incel argument though, chicks wanting “pookie and ray ray” and not the hard worker.

do yall even know what incel mean?

It may be an incel argument, but there's truth to it and this ain't about the pookies or the rayrays. Being conventionally attractive will win over a lot of young women nowadays.
 

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Ummm.. the whole notion about having a partner is better for fortune and promotes growth/looking towards a future is true.


When i was in a relationship, I had something to live for; felt like there was a paternal purpose in my life and I wanted to love/nurture the girl and have a family with her.


Now I'm back to my old ways, spending exorbitantly and drinking/driving drunk every weekend in the godzilla; prolly gonna go out like James Dean/Paul Walker.



It's a shame... but I control my destiny.



And I'm going out with a bang.



If i dies... I dies...








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ive made waaaayyyy more money single then I did in a relationship.

All those hours wasted watching Tv with your girl...going out to dinner...visiting their family...vacations, etc...

Im team #GMB all day long.

IMO getting married is for regular non 6 cert brehs...
...type of cats that are 40lbs overweight, like watching football every sunday and dont have a problem having marital sex with a fat chick a couple of times a month.
 
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