Men Are Now More Likely to Be Single Than Women. It's Not a Good Sign

[MaxPain]

destirsble men dont care what women want breh. An older chick can want a serious relationship all she wants but what does it mean to me if she doesnt have the tools to provide me what i seek in a relationship? Without those tools she just provides me sex and maybe some high level friendship. Neither are incentives for me to want to marry her. “Older women” who are wife material are married breh lol. They dont make it to being older and unmarried.

Im saving this lol

no such thing as a “wife material” older woman.

Just an old bytch looking to play house bc her looks fell off & she’s tired of paying all the bills by herself

 

[MaxPain]

Exactly
You literally see women try to create families with pookies and ray Ray's, but you got dudes in here saying you should improve for women who created children with men who don't got their shyt together

 

[Bossino]

Nobody asked to be here. Probably a lot of people subconsciously don't want to be

shyt I know I don't really, all the things I thought I was working towards as I've approached them were mirages, not a great point in owning a whole ass house if you're not going to have a family, moreover, houses are expenses AF anywhere worth living, I could go on but I'm here to make my parents feel like their efforts weren't a waste, but I honestly think to some degree they were. They were well off in their native country but came here anyway. It is what it is.

 

[Bossino]

I do my best to duck these birds out here. I got my shyt together and had plenty of Women in my twenties..broken PLENTY hearts and got my heart broken here and there. The game is the game. Ball is 100% in my court now and nowadays Women got the game all the way fukked up but I can’t even blame them because it’s the pedestal society puts them on. The entitlement is OD though.

It’s funny though because women have no idea what to do when you don’t give them the attention they desire. Getting blocked, starting rumors, insinuating shyt. It’s hilarious.

The amount of times I've been called gay for not feeding into a woman making a pass on me while at work, or out and about in my personal life is crazy. I feel the bolded, I'm just tryna better my physical, mental, and emotional capabilities

 

[Bossino]

Truth be told it's hard for the average guy in this generation. Some gaslighting in this thread which is to be expected.

It's not limited to the thread, these large swaths of men abandoning college, dropping out of society effectively were gaslighted by society, so instead of throwing a fit, they just grab their ball and go home.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

The average female has more $$$ than the average guy

They don’t keep it for long cause they are horrible with money.

 

[semicko82]

They don’t keep it for long cause they are horrible with money.

ouch

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Yep!

I believe that there could be a lot more marriages and loving relationship within our community, if women really adjusted their mindsets.

But, at the end of the day, women want what they want and get what they get, good or bad. As for those men who struggle, either they become incels or they date out!

or get a woman from the immigration office that just came from another country or go to another country. Average men are doing themselves a favor by not dealing with American women.

 

[Bossino]

The laws played a massive role. It was illegal in this country to live together without being married in many states. It's a lot easier to be a single mother living off the system with aid than it is to be living with a nickel and dime man and you are nickel and diming as well. Now things have changed for many BM due to warehouse jobs which means BM earns a livable wage so maybe there is room for change but why would BW want to do this? Go to LSA, do you really think they want to do this? Think about this, when you were posting ADOS shyt, you had about 6-8 women dapping you religiously? Correct? Now, you post this, and the only one to dap you is @HarlemHottie, a married woman who has the life 99% of them WANT. Come on son, be realistic. You sound like me with the pro-black shyt back in the days. No one wants to do it on one side. Some people rather burn it down than fix it. Many in fact.

I am no longer pro-black. I am pro-Black professionals and my nikkas and sistas who want to build a legacy but Black folks are done dawg. They done. You can ADOS this and ADOS that but many have quit on us. It is what it is. I learned that the right thing is the wrong answer for many people. The Color Purple mindset and the BM is the devil mindset is locked and loaded in BW to the point, they see us as ones with limited use. Like a fukking battery. It is what it is.

BW don't need a man in 2021 for survival. They needed one in 1940 for survival. BW might not thrive in 2021 but they will survive. BM are the ones who are barely surviving. This ain't their problem bro, this is our problem.

I'm here too essentially. shyt's been a dub for a hot min, only place black people have a shot on this planet is Africa and China dims that light with every passing minute.

 

[Commish]

or get a woman from the immigration office that just came from another country or go to another country. Average men are doing themselves a favor by not dealing with American women.

A man gotta do what he gotta do! I hear ya!

 

[Bossino]

Men got copious amount a porn to not have the urge to chase women and women get the attention and validation by some simp because the


Well it comes down to what you would rather deal with if you with a young chick chances are she's on social media heavy showing them cakes and getting validation from all types of men and developing bodies. Dealing with older chicks it's alot of baggage to unvail and but at the same time they are more serious in wanting relationships moreso then younger chicks.

Man I'm at the point where porn > average woman by a lot.

I can get porn anytime, can't get an average woman anytime, got to be at the right area, and run the right game
Porn allows a nut day or night, average woman may be "busy", not in the mood, on her period
Porn requires no effort, average woman wants me to spend time even though I just want sex, because she's not a viable long term partner
Porn is free, average woman will want to do things, get things and go places = $$$

Issa clean sweep. I could argue prostitute > average woman if the name of the game is sex.

As far as dating it's take the H out Hova cuz it's been ova. Different morals, priorities, and principles in these women

 

[Bossino]

destirsble men dont care what women want breh. An older chick can want a serious relationship all she wants but what does it mean to me if she doesnt have the tools to provide me what i seek in a relationship? Without those tools she just provides me sex and maybe some high level friendship. Neither are incentives for me to want to marry her. “Older women” who are wife material are married breh lol. They dont make it to being older and unmarried.

When you say this aloud you can see 30+ single women get angry, because the truth is damning to them. They start making all kinds of excuses as to why you're wrong but that's the short and the long.

 

[Bossino]

I noticed throughout the thread people have ignored this particular issue

People ignore the root of the issue Black women have effectively ran Black America for the last 50 years and they ran the shyt into the ground, but instead of saying they need to do better, or hold them accountable for procreative choices we try to figure out how to blame the guys. It's like this off and on line

 

[the bossman]

Man I'm at the point where porn > average woman by a lot.

I can get porn anytime, can't get an average woman anytime, got to be at the right area, and run the right game
Porn allows a nut day or night, average woman may be "busy", not in the mood, on her period
Porn requires no effort, average woman wants me to spend time even though I just want sex, because she's not a viable long term partner
Porn is free, average woman will want to do things, get things and go places = $$$

Issa clean sweep. I could argue prostitute > average woman if the name of the game is sex.

As far as dating it's take the H out Hova cuz it's been ova. Different morals, priorities, and principles in these women

Cot damn some yall nikkas sound so defeated

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Rather get p*ssy than play the boyfriend role