Men can you explain why SOME men break up with a girl only to obsessively watch her stories etc.?

[Womb Raider]

Hard to break mental attachments and social media tendencies.


That’s why after relationships/situations I stay off sm. I’ll delete them if I have to. You don’t have to be perfect but being able to break your attachment to their sm plays a big part in moving past it. Gotta be able to forward in this world.

 

[Hoodoo Child]

"What's mine is mine, and what's your is also mine"

 

[Elle Driver]

They weirdo bustas.

 

[DapMeUp!]

Never done this.

I have had girls I was speaking to ghost and still watch my stories thoughI don't watch their story.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

No social media gang

 

[TRUEST]

...You breakup with a girl, but you continue E-stalking her. Always the first person to see her Instagram story or Snapchat...

What is that about?

This is apparently a really common thing. I genuinely don't get it. Is it curiosity? Wanting to see if she gets a new man? Wanting to see if she falls off and starts looking less attractive?

What is behind this?

Don’t read too much into it. He’s only reading it because you’re posting it and he seems to be a social media hoe. It’s not just yours he’s watching.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

...You breakup with a girl, but you continue E-stalking her. Always the first person to see her Instagram story or Snapchat...

What is that about?

This is apparently a really common thing. I genuinely don't get it. Is it curiosity? Wanting to see if she gets a new man? Wanting to see if she falls off and starts looking less attractive?

What is behind this?

they hoes...

 

[Dont@Me]

Don’t read too much into it. He’s only reading it because you’re posting it and he seems to be a social media hoe. It’s not just yours he’s watching.

this.

u aint special ho

 

[Jermio]

...You breakup with a girl, but you continue E-stalking her. Always the first person to see her Instagram story or Snapchat...

What is that about?

This is apparently a really common thing. I genuinely don't get it. Is it curiosity? Wanting to see if she gets a new man? Wanting to see if she falls off and starts looking less attractive?

What is behind this?

Curiosity. I look up ugly bytches I haven't spoke to since the 7th grade just to see what the hell became of them.

 

[Dwolf]

Yo shut up bytch

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Control.

It’s men who want to have control that do this. It just, unlike other types of men in the past and present (before social media), they lack the nerve to attempt control physically so they exercise this virtual control instead.

 

[Smokin Rider]

I deleted my Facebook cause I looked at my ex's shyt too much . I couldn't control myself but I knew if I seen a new man I'd fall into depression so I cut it off while I was ahead.

Pretty sure she was doin the same shyt tho because she hmu after I deactived FB askin me if I blocked her

 

[SlimeyLilDude]

To keep up with them just like everybody else on your friend list. Just cause you break up with somebody don't mean you don't want to see them ever again or see what they up to. You could see her on there hoing and be like damn I dodged a bullet or you can see her on her grown woman sht and be like good for her if I made a mistake I know if we get back together I won't make that mistake again.

Also women do the same thing they just do it from fake pages or they homegirl pages because they don't want the nikka to know they watching him