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Men friendships last longer because they let everything slide!(Update: Matt504 agrees)
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Day_Walker
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I'm married with a daughter so i may have a different perspective to most on here. This red pill bs is very real and i can see it affecting posters on here. Posters need to focus on themselves and stop blaming the opposite sex for not giving them any play. And definitely stop listening to fakkitsof the 5 or so people that responding to my post, at least you keep it a little bit real instead of
cuz ngl, in real life most dudes do be nice
rep.
like Andrew tate.
And this is coming from someone that didn't have a lot of luck in my younger days when it came to woman. I never blamed them and it worked out fine in the end.
Disclaimer: I've been drinking early in the day
Ricky Fontaine
Superstar
What did she say brobro?
Day_Walker
All Star
This is completely wrong. I'm 35 and still have a very small circle from over a decade ago and I know for a fact they would help me out in any situation i ask of them. Maybe your brother doesn't have real friends. Some of my friends are closer than my brother.Men don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.
Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.
What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.
Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay.
These women know little about men! Men definitely have a code of conduct! Respect being the top of the list. anyone who breaches respect will face consequences. Perhaps some men are good @ picking & choosing battles.
Men don't consider the cats they dap and give head nods to friends though.Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.
What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.
Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay.
Bop Gun
Turn Me Loose, We Shall Overcome
For the most part, Women's friend groups, they are all the same person. The same personality, style, "interests", the way they speak, and so on. Low Key, always trying to outdo each other, vying for the spotlight.
Men's friend groups, on the other hand, are like a balance to each other. Different slang, outlooks on life, style of dress, interests, but combine like Captain Planet. I also believe they are forged through the fire, stuck by each other through bad situations/upbringings/environments, or simply similar goals and actively achieving them.
I think this is why Women are so intrigued by the conversations Men have with each other, as well as the differences, like completely confused on how the outgoing Brother can be real close with the quiet Brother. Or the one who can't dress for shyt but thinks he the flyest in the city
I will say Social Media has made more Men superficial and vain. A lot of Brothers today are extremely quick to cut off a so-called friend, not over anything legitimate, but because they feel superior to them, "they holding them back", because they got a new job that pays a Dollar or two more, or simply trying to impress strangers they just met. You don't stunt on your friends, true friends are happy as hell when one of their boys improves.
Men's friend groups, on the other hand, are like a balance to each other. Different slang, outlooks on life, style of dress, interests, but combine like Captain Planet. I also believe they are forged through the fire, stuck by each other through bad situations/upbringings/environments, or simply similar goals and actively achieving them.
I think this is why Women are so intrigued by the conversations Men have with each other, as well as the differences, like completely confused on how the outgoing Brother can be real close with the quiet Brother. Or the one who can't dress for shyt but thinks he the flyest in the city
I will say Social Media has made more Men superficial and vain. A lot of Brothers today are extremely quick to cut off a so-called friend, not over anything legitimate, but because they feel superior to them, "they holding them back", because they got a new job that pays a Dollar or two more, or simply trying to impress strangers they just met. You don't stunt on your friends, true friends are happy as hell when one of their boys improves.
Rev Leon Lonnie Love
damned mine eyes, DAMNED mine eyes!!
When you put it like that
ThatTruth777
Superstar
The mugged part - "runs away" got me
Ineedmoney504
SOHH ICEY...WE EATIN
I worked at Walmart. So I let her use my discount card. I think she had it for months.What did she say brobro?
I ended up moving to another city, and i tried to get a 2nd card, but they ended up canceling the first one all together. I guess she must have went to the store with it. And they had it reported loss or stolen. So I guess she got embarrassed.
She called me talking bout, all the stuff I did for you in your life, you ungrateful and some other shyt.
I was gonna respond with disrespect but u understood it was my brother wife and kids mom and I didn’t wanna ruin that relationship, so i told her she was tripping and that she never really in life had to do anything for me when I was growing up. And I explained to her what happened and told her “we don’t ever have to talk again”.
And since I’ve had 2 kids so she’s made contact to congratulate me and talk about the kids and stuff, but I give her dry responses and shyt. I’m good on the relationship.
Me and my brother never discussed it, I don’t even know if she ever told him
Our relationship never changed.
Which is why I said most men.
Does your singular situation hold as representation for men everywhere?
No, so my opinion still stands
most men don't have friends, just associations with fellow men that sometimes mirrors traits of what a friendship would be like but in actuality it's not a true friendship.
feelosofer
#ninergang
All statistics actually show the opposite. Women's friendships last longer and are deeper.
FR FR, if a broad can match a face n a name thats "their friend."
They be calling each other sisters n shyt when in reality they're drinking buddies at best
If you aint ever met my mother, my seeds, or we laughed cried n bled together you aint my brother
Man shut the fukk up I’m tired of women trying to explain how male camaraderie amongst men work. You are not a man. Most y’all have no honor and you over here trying to talk about camaraderieMen don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.
Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.
What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.
Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay
Man shut the fukk up I’m tired of women trying to explain how male camaraderie amongst men work. You are not a man. Most y’all have no honor and you over here trying to talk about camaraderie
whatever you say sir