Men friendships last longer because they let everything slide!(Update: Matt504 agrees)

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Men don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.

Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.

What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.

Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay 🤷🏾‍♀️.
This is a generalization (and yes the same could be said about this thread). You're taking your experience and presenting as its the truth for the world when its not.

My best friend I've known preschool. Everyone else in our friend group have been connected since the 4th and 7th grade. From my own experience between men and women who have established friendships over the years, men usually let things slide more than women
 

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This is a generalization (and yes the same could be said about this thread). You're taking your experience and presenting as its the truth for the world when its not.

My best friend I've known preschool. Everyone else in our friend group have been connected since the 4th and 7th grade. From my own experience between men and women who have established friendships over the years, men usually let things slide more than women

Which is why I said most men.

Does your singular situation hold as representation for men everywhere?

No, so my opinion still stands 🤷🏾‍♀️ most men don't have friends, just associations with fellow men that sometimes mirrors traits of what a friendship would be like but in actuality it's not a true friendship.
 

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Men don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.

Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.

What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.

Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay 🤷🏾‍♀️.
Shut up
 

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I worked at Walmart. So I let her use my discount card. I think she had it for months.

I ended up moving to another city, and i tried to get a 2nd card, but they ended up canceling the first one all together. I guess she must have went to the store with it. And they had it reported loss or stolen. So I guess she got embarrassed.

She called me talking bout, all the stuff I did for you in your life, you ungrateful and some other shyt.

I was gonna respond with disrespect but u understood it was my brother wife and kids mom and I didn’t wanna ruin that relationship, so i told her she was tripping and that she never really in life had to do anything for me when I was growing up. And I explained to her what happened and told her “we don’t ever have to talk again”.

And since I’ve had 2 kids so she’s made contact to congratulate me and talk about the kids and stuff, but I give her dry responses and shyt. I’m good on the relationship.

Me and my brother never discussed it, I don’t even know if she ever told him :dead:

Our relationship never changed.

Damn bro over a Walmart discount? That’s petty af lol :mjlol: . How did it even escalate like that?
 

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Women understand their nature and they hate each other. Women are cutthroat towards each other. A lot of competition, egos and toxic femininity.

As men were simple. We don’t need much to be happy. Our friendships are based on roasting each other, hobbies and providing practical value such as teaching men about attracting women, how to make $$$, curating style and swag, navigating through the realities of life etc.

That’s why women befriend men. We’re not extra because we’re not known for being emotional. We’re known to be that calm rock that cannot be removed.
 

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I'm married with a daughter so i may have a different perspective to most on here. This red pill bs is very real and i can see it affecting posters on here. Posters need to focus on themselves and stop blaming the opposite sex for not giving them any play. And definitely stop listening to fakkits
like Andrew tate.

And this is coming from someone that didn't have a lot of luck in my younger days when it came to woman. I never blamed them and it worked out fine in the end.

Disclaimer: I've been drinking early in the day :mjlol: :mjcry:
That’s not red pill and every time y’all try to make it that way you’re told that that’s not red pill. Real red pill is pointing out how people are moving these days and acting accordingly.
 

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Men don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.

Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.

What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.

Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay 🤷🏾‍♀️.
youre wrong

excluding two ppl all of my best friends are from high school and I am now 31 yrs old. one best friend even from elementary school (grade 6)
 
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