Men friendships last longer because they let everything slide!(Update: Matt504 agrees)

[cauliflower]

This is the most false chart ever.

 

[Wild self]

 

[cauliflower]

she mad because she thought she was fukkin a man's friend who she was "with" to get back at him.


little does she know everybody knew she was community property and couldn't give a fukk if she get ran thru like a turnstile

Very unlikely 20,000+ people agree only because they fukked friends and were upset that they didn't care.

 

[cauliflower]

Men are typically better at character assessment, which is why friendships last longer. Women will befriend another woman just because they both have birthdays in July.

Also our friendships don't require a lot of maintenance. I've got boys who I haven't spoken to in years, but if we link up it's like we've seen each other every day.

That ain't true.

 

[Unbothered]

youre wrong

excluding two ppl all of my best friends are from high school and I am now 31 yrs old. one best friend even from elementary school (grade 6)

Which is why I said most men.

Does your singular situation hold as representation for men everywhere?

No, so my opinion still stands most men don't have friends, just associations with fellow men that sometimes mirrors traits of what a friendship would be like but in actuality it's not a true friendship.

You guys should probably read through the thread .

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

Which is why I said most men.

Does your singular situation hold as representation for men everywhere?

No, so my opinion still stands most men don't have friends, just associations with fellow men that sometimes mirrors traits of what a friendship would be like but in actuality it's not a true friendship.

Ok, you could've just @ me to this post instead of making it in bold. I never saw this post so I don't understand your need to be rude.

2nd how can you say "my opinion still stands" and then say "most men". You phrase your your actual opinion as a fact. If you would've said "so my opinion still stands, most men in my circle/experience...."

 

[Paper Boi]

Very unlikely 20,000+ people agree only because they fukked friends and were upset that they didn't care.

please go back to LSA

your opinion isn't needed here

 

[FluffyEyes]

Women understand their nature and they hate each other. Women are cutthroat towards each other. A lot of competition, egos and toxic femininity.

As men were simple. We don’t need much to be happy. Our friendships are based on roasting each other, hobbies and providing practical value such as teaching men about attracting women, how to make $$$, curating style and swag, navigating through the realities of life etc.

That’s why women befriend men. We’re not extra because we’re not known for being emotional. We’re known to be that calm rock that cannot be removed.

This is a crock of shyt I'm cracking up at this thread rn. I'm also laughing at ya'll being mad at that poster for generalizing male friendships meanwhile all y'all do is generalize women day in and day out.

 

[FluffyEyes]

As far as the initial tweets: I'm not gone say they're completely right, but they aren't completely wrong either

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

This is a crock of shyt I'm cracking up at this thread rn. I'm also laughing at ya'll being mad at that poster for generalizing male friendships meanwhile all y'all do is generalize women day in and day out.

they want it to be 1 way ...

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Bruh her and that other chick ms goodbar have the most TERRIBLE takes on these topics. This chick swear she the man whisperer but don’t know shyt

 

[FluffyEyes]

they want it to be 1 way ...

What's good for the goose is good for the gander. If everyone is always generalizing why does it make a difference today??

I've experienced great friendships with women, seen bad friendships btwn women and same btwn men. Everyone wants everything to be so black and white and life just doesn't work like that.

 

[Wild self]

It's crudely laid out here, but the actual dynamics of male/female friendships are very fascinating, and reveal deep differences in our social construct.

I say this generally, but most friendships I observe, across genders, are so egregiously conditional, I would not last. All my relationships, both genders, are more because I like and care about the person, and how just knowing them has helped me, rather than say, who misses the birthday party, or the brunch or whatever. They are certainly less conditional. Part of the deal to me, is letting things go, or not letting them be things at all. I know men whose friendships are pretty unhealthy and involve lots of resentment, debt, messy finances, and so on. Not to mention angry over women.

but I do see with women, this hyper need to enforce rules, it's militant, like a prison gang or a school yard clique, but they don't do anything actually important, (like high stakes, in my definition) but go to weddings or go on trips, but they take it like a blood oath.

I think social media has made people more critical of each other, and more militant, like policing and sanctioning each other. You missed the drinks! You are not invited. You are done. You don't get to pose for pics.

Aka the HIVEMIND secret society. They the ones that have all the clout in the IG era.

 

[DrexlersFade]

@Jamie Sommers is
H.O.L.T.

 

[DJSmooth]

I guess I don't even be asking my male friends personal business anymore. That's between them and God.

You can go out to eat with your gf homegirls and your gf after the event will tell you. "You saw Jessia wasn't drinking that's because she's on antibiotics because she cheated on her nikka with his bestfirend. He beat her and but they still living together because he broke."

You be like what?