Men friendships last longer because they let everything slide!(Update: Matt504 agrees)

[Wildhundreds]

Men don't have “friends” which is why some of y'all always crying for a “brotherhood” or something of that nature.

Women have had and maintained sisterhoods since highschool, men (I have a big brother) tend to lose contact or have a lack thereof for friends after highschool when everyone starts going their own way.

What most men do have are associations with fellow men but not true friendships, dapping and head nodding each other up isn't signs of a friendship but more of an association.

Some of you would find aspects of a true friendships with fellow men to be gay .

This isn't always true, but I've seen it. One thing I've noticed about the men I've associated with is they don't want to be advised on their relationships or how they live their lives. Shyt could be counter productive and toxic to them and everyone involved. But they hang on "its my life, and I'll live it how I please".. So the bro have to hit the and don't bring it up anymore..

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Men are typically better at character assessment, which is why friendships last longer. Women will befriend another woman just because they both have birthdays in July.

Also our friendships don't require a lot of maintenance. I've got boys who I haven't spoken to in years, but if we link up it's like we've seen each other every day.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I see this changing now and in the future...Men and thats including the young dudes too are becoming petty...can't even joke like that anymore without people getting into their feelings

 

[OVER]

I feel like male friendships last longer because we don't make shyt more than it is. I work with a girl who likes to befriend people at work, give them hugs, tells them she loves them and she don't even gotta know them long before she start that shyt up. Ironically some of them make fun of her behind her back and talk about how annoying she is. I got work place partners and that's all it is workplace. I don't know them nikkas outside the jobs and I don't pretend to care about them personally cause of that we'll probably be cool for a while.

 

[Day_Walker]

A quick example is my girl missed her cousins wedding. She hasn't spoken to her since lol. If my wedding got missed, I would not give a fk.

Na that's crossing the line

 

[GreenGhxst]

If we let things slide it's because the consequences of a fight between males is greater than a fight between females.

A man can kill another man in one punch. Women mostly just get their wigs pulled off.

Stop lol

Most men ain't killing with one punch

Let alone 6 feet and benching 225

I kill with one punch tho, real talk

nikkas gotta chill around me

 

[Matt504]

this is the one.

 

[Wildhundreds]

I see this changing now and in the future...Men and thats including the young dudes too are becoming petty...can't even joke like that anymore without people getting into their feelings

Grown men falling out over white politicians and LGBTQ issues. Sound like bytch behavior to me.. And men will shame you like their female counterparts too. On some "women do it too"..

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

what youre missing is the fact that the men who ridicule men for being simps do it because they know that said road usually leads to heartbreak. so if a friend doesn't adhere, he will eventually end up with his tail between his legs. the embarrassment isnt from being a simp, its from being one, ending up heartbroken and then having to hear "I told you so"

men actually tell their friends when they are fukkin up or making mistakes where as women just dikk ride eachother as if theyre infallible

i just go by what yall post in writing. and yall don't even know each other let alone "friends" lol.
and it usually end up in "youre fukking up the game for the rest of us! no wonder deez hoz heads are big and we cant get a text back "
if i missed it, its because yall hide it.... again assuming it's to avoid ridicule of other men

 

[Day_Walker]

this is what gets me, it's like some of yall live for other mens validation.

"i can't be nice to this girl, i'll be considered a sucka and a simp from other men who also don't get no p*ssy so they don't want "the game" to be even further fukked up for them " #HOH #GMB is a army, better yet a navy

Just like i don't take females on the internet seriously, i suggest you do the same in regards to males. Most of the posters on here are delusional and half of them believe females are our enemies

 

[re'up]

It's crudely laid out here, but the actual dynamics of male/female friendships are very fascinating, and reveal deep differences in our social construct.

I say this generally, but most friendships I observe, across genders, are so egregiously conditional, I would not last. All my relationships, both genders, are more because I like and care about the person, and how just knowing them has helped me, rather than say, who misses the birthday party, or the brunch or whatever. They are certainly less conditional. Part of the deal to me, is letting things go, or not letting them be things at all. I know men whose friendships are pretty unhealthy and involve lots of resentment, debt, messy finances, and so on. Not to mention angry over women.

but I do see with women, this hyper need to enforce rules, it's militant, like a prison gang or a school yard clique, but they don't do anything actually important, (like high stakes, in my definition) but go to weddings or go on trips, but they take it like a blood oath.

I think social media has made people more critical of each other, and more militant, like policing and sanctioning each other. You missed the drinks! You are not invited. You are done. You don't get to pose for pics.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Just like i don't take females on the internet seriously, i suggest you do the same in regards to males. Most of the posters on here are delusional and half of them believe females are our enemies

of the 5 or so people that responding to my post, at least you keep it a little bit real instead of

cuz ngl, in real life most dudes do be nice
rep.

 

[Wildhundreds]

Men fall out over h0es all the time. I've seen it. Nikka be fcking a known h0e. Then one of his boys fck that h0e and don't tell his boy.. Next thing you know them nikkas fell out, over a supposedly h0e he said he didn't have feelings for. This thread is mad disingenuous.

 

[RennisDeynolds]

Here go more gender war bs

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Women talking about validation the irony

notice i said "some men" and then you jumped out of the window with a gender based whataboutism lolol.. all these nikkas aint jesus breh, they aint gonna #die4u. yall dont have to take offense if it dont apply
it just kinda proved my point lol