MEN, if we're going to FIX the Black Community we're going to have to RESCUE a lot of these STRAY Single Mothers.

[Weaver31]

Most people won't like what I have to say but fukk it. You can't save anyone without being in control. If you want men to save the black community, then they will have to control the black community. Call it patriarchy, call it misogyny, but if you want them to save it, they'll have to operate and move like the more "successful" races do. The problems may change but surely they are better than some of the ones the black community is facing now.

The men do need to lead...that's for sure.

I hate how Cynthia G completely trashes black men online but more of us need to lead, provide and protect. She is right on that one.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

That's what the community needs but when young males and females engage in grown up activities like having unprotected sex....consequences can happen like pregnancy and unfavorable consequences can occur like STDs. A good portion outchea are having unprotected sex but not ready or able to deal with the consequences.

Plus when talking about marriage and who is hubby or wifey material...some don't understand how to make sound judgment when choosing. Then some of us men (women too) need to simply be better or try to improve each other. Don't forget a lot of us come from disfunction so we have a lot of unresolved trauma so that impacts our readiness to man and woman up to be a good stable parent. Hell u got folks having kids and not having their basics together...it's best to have our basics together or have a strong support system like good family.

So we have to force ourselves to desire a single mother, but the kid’s father doesn’t have to force himself to suck it up, and take responsibility.

 

[Mass]

If you care about the Black Community at all, you know we have way too many stray single mothers struggling they azz off. Raising these kids to be mostly degenerates and ratchets for most part. Stats show that the most fukked up of us come from single mother homes. We have to acknowledge it and stop acting like it is a epidemic.

We've done enough pointing the fingers and blaming, its time for solutions. There are 2 key actions with have to take:
1. Preventing Single Motherhood
2. Rescuing Current Single Mothers.


How we start is the only discussion.

Controversial topic but I agree.

Essentially you have to restore the black family and restore black family values across the spectrum because it takes a village to raise a child.

 

[Colicat]

We? Negro stay your backside on over there in the Asian and Latina community…

The Black community kindly declines your offer.

 

[JT-Money]

Looks like Asia is the place to be for a single man.

How Many Women Worldwide Are Single Moms?

One in eight women aged 18 to 60 worldwide -- 13% -- are unmarried and have children younger than 15 in their household. However, this figure rises sharply in a number of regions around the world.

news.gallup.com

 

[Mowgli]

If they can't obey they can't be saved.

Support reparations for ADOS

 

[Weaver31]

So we have to force ourselves to desire a single mother, but the kid’s father doesn’t have to force himself to suck it up, and take responsibility.

We should be open to dating single mothers. But if u don't want to...don't do it.

But if u read my past posts in this thread...the deadbeat father needs to step up. Also, women and men need to only have unprotected sex with those they see as hubby or wifey material. We simply need to practice more logical and sound judgment.

 

[Jazzy B.]

So we have to force ourselves to desire a single mother, but the kid’s father doesn’t have to force himself to suck it up, and take responsibility.

You don't.

But the "pro-blacks" and "pro-community" bullshyters like many here claim they are need to stop lying that they care about the "black community" along with "fixing it".

Because they don't

When one of these single mother kids goes out and does something like this in the community



or some bullshyt like this in the community



for no damn reason because they had no male parental figure to straighten them while growing up they'll be the first to complain and have this outrage at the situation.

This isn't excusing making for deadbeats or the actual fathers who should be doing their roles but if they're not there and doing that somebody else has to step in. People are gonna have sacrifice for "the community"

 

[Man On Fire]

If you care about the Black Community at all, you know we have way too many stray single mothers struggling they azz off. Raising these kids to be mostly degenerates and ratchets for most part. Stats show that the most fukked up of us come from single mother homes. We have to acknowledge it and stop acting like it is a epidemic.

We've done enough pointing the fingers and blaming, its time for solutions. There are 2 key actions with have to take:
1. Preventing Single Motherhood
2. Rescuing Current Single Mothers.


How we start is the only discussion.

Listen. There is absolutely nothing wrong with marrying a single mother. But if she not on your level spiritually or consciousness, don’t waste your time.

 

[Coolin']

I'm just gonna keep it 100, I no longer care about other people other than my family, etc. I don't wish bad on anyone but it's too tiring having these debates when you can't account for anyone other than yourself. People make their own decisions, and if they don't care...why should I?

 

[Cat piss martini]

My resources are for my comfort.

 

[BaggerofTea]

I would be a mentor to the future generation. I'm not saving anyone

 

[DonRe]

Preventing singles motherhood should be the goal. Saving them once they’re there, well thats not progress.

Def got a good chuckle when i got to the end of the thread title.

 

[satireprod]

Interesting in theory and at least it's some sort of solution but the problem is while you're saving some other man's baby mama and his kids, new single moms are are being made. It's like trying to plug a leak with your fingers while more leaks are sprouting up; you gotta stop it at the source.

cold truths