Men In Relationships/Marriages. Do You Pay ALL The Bills?

[Mike Nasty]

She's basically a roommate that doesn't pay rent. That's cool until he wants a new roommate who doesn't pay rent.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Is it me or does the black community have this conversation every week?

The corny thing about this convo is that people act like they ain’t speak about it the last 10 weeks it was bright up.

Anyway in reality relationships work out on agreements. If the chick wants all the bills paid then move on and find a chick who is ok with splitting bills. Yes they do exist

 

[Sbp]

No

 

[The_Sheff]

We split regular bills 50/50. If some shyt pops up i just pay it without involving her.

 

[Mowgli]

being a family man is a thankless job. Not only are their financial expectations but there are also expectations on keeping order and providing direction for the home. To the point where the woman really thinks she is driving the ship not realizing that without Daddy things would be chaos. The woman does not bring the peace in the home and bread winner or not she can't run the household. what men bring to the table is a lot more than a check

 

[Gold]

We split the bills. He pays the big stuff, I pay the small stuff.

Do ya'll share money?

 

[Gold]

My g, the comments.... talking bout "he need to holla at me in my cashap for me to even entertain him and he need to pay all my bills or he aint a real man"

I'm looking at it like bruh these new social media twitter women are really trash and do not give a fukk about us whatsoever. What sane man would want to take on a burden like that?

The joke is I make good money but I like to come off as a bum to keep these types away.

If I find another good woman in the future who actually gives a fukk about me and not just what I can do for her then I might entertain her. For now I'm chilling.

These women are competing with each other on trying to "out-hot-girl-summer" each other.

Nothing in there has anything to do with relationships, nothing at all. Its all about looking cool for in the internet. The sad part is that, the harder they try to outdo each other, the more they sound like prostitutes.

Next thing you know these same women will start saying outlandish shyt like:

"He can even touch me unless he holding a birkin in the other hand "

"He cant ask me to come see him unless he wanna buy me a gwagon "


Of course none of it is real, but i guess in 2020 this is what some of thesr people think is cool

 

[desjardins]

Been in plenty of relationships and never paid more than my half much less ALL the bills.
Millionaires who can spend money and not feel it i get, but i have no idea how normal dudes making 60K or whatever is normal now days get in these situations where they taking care of a whole nother adult just cause they fukking them
It's way too many educated career minded women out here to even consider that shyt personally

 

[Mike Nasty]

Is it me or does the black community have this conversation every week?

The white version is the man being a cuckhold, the black version is he pays all the bills while I go shopping. Neither exist the way they are presented in memes

 

[Peter Popoff]

If she's not contributing nothing to your life besides p*ssy or good looks, she's a prostitute like them LSA bytches. Cold hard facts.

 

[desjardins]

Most women who talk like that dont have careers they truly enjoy or passionate hobbies they can make money doing. Majority of women who say that work at call centers, failed models, walmart, or some job they hate.

Starting to notice this. I've dated lawyers, doctors, professors, my wife makes 6 figures now. All treated me to dates at some point and paid half the bills if we lived together
The chicks I see heaviest on this that I've dated or see online always some make up artist at the mall or home health aide type chicks
No knock if that's your career. But i really think alot of this is about women who do not have good career prospects and are looking for stability on the back of someone elses hard work or hustle. If I'm 35 working at MAC then yea I need a 'provider', I can't afford them trips to Tulum otherwise

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

No not paying all the bills. That's fine if they don't want to be with me, I'll keep my $75k to myself and treat my side pieces from time to time.

 

[lightskin jermaine]

Married and we go half on everything.

 

[HARLEM AL]

Acculturated prostitution for the win......

 

[Ashley Banks]

Do ya'll share money?

Yeah, I don’t really pay attention to that though. Like sometimes I just get my money out before him when we’re out shopping or eating out. it’s really coming from the same place so it doesn’t really matter. That’s just the way we set it up at the beginning of our marriage because he made a lot more than me because I was in school still.