Men In Relationships/Marriages. Do You Pay ALL The Bills?

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There was a post in a facebook travel group about who's paying on a vacation. So many sucker ass men jumping in there talking about "any woman going on vacation with me isn't touching her purse" and a bunch of women talking about they ain't even going on vacation with no man if she has to pay for anything smh.

My post basically said that we're both getting to enjoy the location and sites so why the fukk would I be the only one paying. Some responded that I must not want any p*ssy on vacation. I responded that she'll be missing out on this dikk. Sex ain't a one-sided affair despite the way women try to portray that shyt.

I wish a woman would try to pull that shyt. I'd find a rando while on vacation and fukk her right there in the room I'm sharing with the woman I'm on the trip with. :ufdup:
 

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That's not how this works breh, they need to get the jobs and equal pay... buh buh they also need a man who makes more than them and will pay all the bills... buh they are also an independent women that can pay their own bills... buh don't ask them to do that though because that will make you less of a man and as a man you should the provider... plus her money is hers but your money is hers also :tu:

Makes perfect sense :wow:
 

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This is a broke chick’s fantasy. Very few women are not contributing financially to the household, especially the ones working full time.
 

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Y’all really have to stop this foolishness.

Whether I’m with a woman or NOT I’m paying all the bills because that’s what a RESPONSIBLE ADULT and man DOES!!!

Furthermore no woman who is not my wife living with me so I’ve NEVER had that problem.

Stop moving in or letting these females move in with you because you’re not disciplined and need in house p*ssy.

I promise you won’t have these problems.

:yeshrug:
 

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That ig page though:gucci:
Got KD calling Ben Baller a simp :mjlol:

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Been with my girl three years. She's 33, I'm 34. Planning for marriage and first kid next year.

Right now, any bill she had before me, she pays, so that would be her car note, car insurance, phone bill, student loans, car repairs, miscellaneous BS. She's a nurse at almost 100k.

I cover all my monthly expenses of course and the shyt we share so that'll be rent/mortgage, utilities, etc. All the household shyt.

When we have kids, I'll cover everything and I'll push for her be a SAHM, although she says she wants to still work 10-15hrs a week. :yeshrug:

She's frugal, so she'll most likely stack any left over bread. No issue with that from me.

I'm of the belief that arguing with women about money and bills are a waste of mental energy, as it just communicates to the woman that you don't have the ability to provide.

Instead, I'd just rather just be that nikka, secure the bag, run it up and keep shyt with my woman seamless stress free and handled.

For example, our combined monthly expenses are 4-5k and I'm on track to making about that a week in 2021. Every year, I aim to increase my income by at least 50% and she's looking to be capped at 100k - - it's asinine to ask my girl to split the bills.

Now, is this fair? Hell no - - but that's the burden of man. We need to do more, be more, take care of our families, and take more responsibility.

I never understood how you could call yourself a man and be in dire fukkin straits if your girl couldn't come up with half the rent or some shyt. On date night and be like "babe I got it last week, ur turn." Nikka, I'd be fukkin embarrassed.

Please note - - all this is for a quality black accomplished woman, not ungrateful slatterns. :troll:
 
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Husband pays mortgage, utilities, his car payment, our car insurance. I pay for groceries, clothes, my car payment and most travel expenses. I also pay for my business expenses. We split housework and of course we parent together. Works for us. Every couple has to find what works for them.

sounds like that nikkas getting the raw deal :wow:

most travel expenses, where you going during covid beloved? :mjlol:
 

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Got KD calling Ben Baller a simp :mjlol:

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My Nikka benbballer I payed all the bills with my bm until I found out she cheated on me and was a hoe and lied about her pass it was 50/50 until I seemed reduced. Became a get out vibe under that roof :whew:
 
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