Men of the Coli, How Would You Feel If Your Wife/Gf Wanted To Get Plastic Surgery?

[Chelsea Bridge]

Sometimes I want to get lipo on my stomach so I can finally get rid of these love handles. Been trying to get rid of the darn things for years.

It's not the idea that a guy wouldn't like it that stops me. It's my need to accomplish my goals on my own and knowing I did it myself without any assistance. But this dieting is not fun. I hate it

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It's not like I said I would force her to do it or leave her if she didn't.

It's you calling her ugly that's the problem.

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

It's you calling her ugly that's the problem.

I love her and feel her pain. But sometimes you gotta be real about shyt.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I love her and feel her pain. But sometimes you gotta be real about shyt.

Mmmhmm does she know you think she's ugly as hell?

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

Mmmhmm does she know you think she's ugly as hell?

Neither one of us are physically attracted to each other so I'm sure she does and feel the same way. I'm no Prince Charming but I'm NOOOO where near as ugly as she is. We laugh about this shyt sometimes. I haven't told her that I think I look better than her of course. Even as humble as she is she still wouldn't take it well.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Neither one of us are physically attracted to each other so I'm sure she does and feel the same way. I'm no Prince Charming but I'm NOOOO where near as ugly as she is. We laugh about this shyt sometimes. I haven't told her that I think I look better than her of course. Even as humble as she is she still wouldn't take it well.

Smh... This is so sad, lol.

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

Smh... This is so sad, lol.

What's sad about it? At least we don't lie to each other.

 

[Eternally Jaded]

Depends. My first reaction is to fight it.

Am I still making it clear that I fiend for her and find her attractive?

Is it solely about her?

Or does she feel she's not getting the attention she used to from the greater overall public?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

What's sad about it? At least we don't lie to each other.

If you both feel that way why are you together? Is it because you don't want to be alone?

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

If you both feel that way why are you together? Is it because you don't want to be alone?

Because there is more to relationships than looks, looks obviously aren't a factor in our relationship at all. I never said we hated each other or anything but if she told me she wanted to go under the knife it is what it is.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Because there is more to relationships than looks, looks obviously aren't a factor in our relationship at all. I never said we hated each other or anything but if she told me she wanted to go under the knife it is what it is.

Yeah but not being physically attracted to the person you're with is odd. You might as well just be friends

 

[MammaSaidKnockYouOut]

Yeah but not being physically attracted to the person you're with is odd. You might as well just be friends

If that was true people like Whoopee Goldberg would have nothing but friends.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

If that was true people like Whoopee Goldberg would have nothing but friends.

Attraction is subjective though and you're right there is more to a relationship then just physical attraction but I don't think I've ever heard someone say their significant other is ugly as hell and they're not physically attracted to them.


That's just weird and I just can't understand how someone can be in a relationship thinking that way about the other person. It just sounds like a relationship of convenience

 

[humble Hermit]

My woman lost over a hundred lbs in the last 3 years. From 280 to the 160 @ 5'10. She's pregnant now. If she wanted to get a non invasive surgery, after the baby arrives I wouldn't be mad. Even if she wanted to get her boobs done. She doesn't want to though and believes she can work it out. Either way id support her decision because she supports me and we understand each other. If she ever gets anything done, it would be just to please me, im sure of it and I wouldnt be mad.

Its like when I went to the dentist and was about to get invisalign but they pretty much told me I had great teeth but I wanted my shyt to be perfect(they were still willing to go through for the $$$$$). I just wanted to upgrade myself because I could/can.

 

[Diondon]

I know a breh whose wife died on the operating table getting liposuction
They had a ton of kids too
So if it's something strictly cosmetic that can simply be fixed by getting her butt in the gym, no I wouldn't be cool with it.