The age limit is what throws the curve into this.
Men of the coli who are 30+ & established,would you date (to marry) a woman who is 30+ & ...?
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You didn't add all that in your original post
Its the way she makes arguments. She fishes for a response, and when she doesn't get it she keeps adding stipulations to her original question to elicit said response. I've peeped this a while ago.
Dwayne_Taylor
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Having a degree and a high paying job does not make a woman a good mother.
I have meet many professional women who make horrible parents.
Living with mom, working minimum wage, and having nothing to build off of at age 30 will though?
Dwayne_Taylor
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Living with mom, working minimum wage, and having nothing to build off of at age 30 will though?
^^^^straw man
point stands
I only date women that are 27 at the oldest. fukk I look like walking around with some dusty broad no one wantedWould you date a woman who is 30+ and works as a retail associate?
What about fast food, and those other little dead end jobs?
*She has no degree
*She lives with her parents
I know that majority of women would say no unless they are in the same position.
Came back to add, state your age, if you have a degree, and if you have a career.
& No, I'm not talking about fcking, I'm talking about dating, looking for a wife and mother of your children.
IF YOU ARE NOT AN ESTABLISHED 30+, WITH A DEGREE & A CAREER, THEN DO NOT ANSER THE QUESTION. THANKS
This thread was inspired by a thread from another site. lsa
Dwayne_Taylor
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Nah, it doesn't. Someones job/ economic status has nothing to do with their ability to raise kids properly.point stands
my mom is igbo too and has told me this nonstop since i been in collegeMy mom stays preaching on that breh. She's always calling American girls disrespectful
She says she has a respectful young lady for me back in Igbo-Ukwu
I asked her if I can see a pic of this young lady
She called me disrespectful
Get Arranged Married Brehs
, talm about arrange marriage like bih 
I guess I'd say no. My wife was doing a bit better than retail, and was 21 when I met her. She was clearly about getting her life together though.
The rest of this hypothetical woman sounds okay besides the age...I understandsome people aren't about careers and money (I gave zero fukks about it until I realized it was start or be broke with nothing). A young hottie you can upgrade is doable, this one, probably not.
The rest of this hypothetical woman sounds okay besides the age...I understandsome people aren't about careers and money (I gave zero fukks about it until I realized it was start or be broke with nothing). A young hottie you can upgrade is doable, this one, probably not.
fukk is wrong with yal fairy tale nikkas
who got a better health insurance policy? PLEASE say the woman at target
who got room for a kid? the one at her mom's house? That room is currently taken
who gonna have money set aside for the kid's education?
fukk she been doing for the past 10 years?
oh wait.... this is not about 50/50 in a healthy household
this is about taking someone strictly for their personality and looks. Ignoring all socioeconomic hurdles that come into play while trying to maintain a family in order to play life on hard mode for no particular reason. Other than love. But you can love while you got money too. Jus saying.yal on some bullshyt
Nope, I wouldn't. And I'm proud to admit that. She obviously has a lack of ambition, and how are you suppose to "build" with someone like that.
And I'm 30, have my bachelors degree, and making about 60k a year.
And I'm 30, have my bachelors degree, and making about 60k a year.
Treblemaka
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Personally if I'm seeking a mate she's got to be self sufficient with a plan. Can't be unequally yolked. That's how a lot of y'all dudes get hurt. Busy chasing her ASSets instead of seeing who she really is.
My wife was making more than me when we first got together.
But "he got that ambition baby look in his eyes..."
She helped me sharpen up my game like a real Queen does for her man. Now I make more than double what I used to. Got some side gigs im working on and I'm helping her establish a side business.
If your wife/gf doesnt help you level up YOU LOST. Period.
My wife was making more than me when we first got together.
But "he got that ambition baby look in his eyes..."
She helped me sharpen up my game like a real Queen does for her man. Now I make more than double what I used to. Got some side gigs im working on and I'm helping her establish a side business.
If your wife/gf doesnt help you level up YOU LOST. Period.
Dwayne_Taylor
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You’re reducing parenting to its financial value. Using this logic only the 1% should have children because only they can get premium health insurance and anyone else is a bad parent. Wealthier families produce fukked up kids and fall apart everyday.
fukk is wrong with yal fairy tale nikkas
who got a better health insurance policy? PLEASE say the woman at target
who got room for a kid? the one at her mom's house? That room is currently taken
who gonna have money set aside for the kid's education?
fukk she been doing for the past 10 years?
oh wait.... this is not about 50/50 in a healthy household
yal on some bullshyt
factnotopinion
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Taking the question at face value, I would not. She is there for a reason and she would need to work on herself before there is even a chance for an us. Her being in that position in life send me many messages to stay away. To me, it is more likely than not that her and I would not share enough values to be compatible.
But op, this is a loaded question with too many variables.. for instance, is she in school trying to better herself, is she intelligent, does she have a thirst for knowledge and self-betterment, does she share my values, is Taco Bells enough for her or is she ambitious? The staying home part is not a deal breaker, it depends on culture, then again....her being in her 30's and still there says a lot about her.
age: 39
degree: Ph.D. in psychology
career: Therapist
But op, this is a loaded question with too many variables.. for instance, is she in school trying to better herself, is she intelligent, does she have a thirst for knowledge and self-betterment, does she share my values, is Taco Bells enough for her or is she ambitious? The staying home part is not a deal breaker, it depends on culture, then again....her being in her 30's and still there says a lot about her.
age: 39
degree: Ph.D. in psychology
career: Therapist