This is reason i stopped dating women who don't have their own hobbies. This about lil dikk energy or video game addiction. It's about her having nothing going unless you devote all your free time and attention on her. I'm never going to put video games first. I'm gonna be like no i don't want to go out i want to stay in and play games. but there are times when i'm not doing shyt and i'll play games. If i didn't have the games i'd read a book instead. same thing imo. nobody hates on books though.