Menz... Can We Have Some Dialogue About Side Chicks -VS- Main Chicks?

[Turbulent]

Lately, I have been noticing some very disturbing "side chick" etiquette.
Not just from the side chicks, but also from the men with girlfriends/wives they claim to love and care about.
Men are having unprotected sex, and children with side chicks. Dudes are going out in public with them, and not really trying to hide their connection to these women. They allow these women to disrespect and beef with their "girlfriends" on the innanets, and in the streets. Dudes out here Telling these "side chicks" they love and care for them. Some even get mad when their "side chicks" date other men. Dudes are spending obscene amounts of money on them, and neglecting their "girlfriends" financially or making them beg for things they shouldn't even have to ask for.

Meanwhile, a lot of these men are not consistently "claiming" their girlfriends, and they carry themselves like they are completely single when their girlfriends aren't around, and humiliate them.
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What is the benefit of being a "main girl"?

What makes yall put one woman in the "main chick" position and another chick in the "side chick" position?

Admit it, sometimes yall really be in love with your side chicks, don't you?

How much can you REALLY love your girlfriend if you need that many other women, or one other woman that much?

Why have men become so bold with this in 2015?


Explain Yourselves.

well...maybe the sidechick was in fact the main chick and the other one is just delusional

 

[Turbulent]

Obviously.

BUT... I am asking why do MEN do this.

And please, no... "because women let them". type of answers.

It's obviously because women let them.

I am asking what is the real difference between a side chick and a main chick in 2015 and what are the perks? What makes a man want one woman to be a side chick and another the main? Do men understand the need to put the main chick on a pedestal?

 

[Kenny West]

my homie I work with got two gfs. They know about each other but let him cook. Even tho they both expecting him to break up with the other one any day now. He says it's like a fulll time job, nikka stays on the phone.

Despite that he still misses the field. the hunter life is hard to shake

As for why dudes do it, you'll never get as much p*ssy thrown at you as you did when in a relationship. shyts funny like that

Sloppy, arrogant or both

Can't control the side forever. She should only be getting select info (a first or designated nickname, burner phone #)

I found out that a cut buddy downloaded Google Latitude (RIP to that devil app) to my phone and was tracking me on the low. I was single, but still

If a simple cut buddy would do some shyt like that, just imagine what a sprung, scorned, motivated side-chick is capable of

If a chick was looking for me today, she could only hope to catch me slipping on TheColi. No Facebook, no Twitter, and no Snitchagram

So that's what that app is called.

I was messing with a chick who's bf was in the military and had this installed on her dude phone. She was tracking dude from her ipad. Sad thing is she cheats on him with no fukks given

 

[CinnaSlim]

It probably started as a kind of whore-madonna complex but nowadays, it's mostly about wanting more and not being self-disciplined.

 

[Turbulent]

like others have said, not every guy is meant to have a side. it's not for everyone. everyone wants to be that dude cause it seems cool. but no one wants to actually adhere to the principles. people are trying to cheat the game. disrespect the game, thinking they're above the game and found the loopholes that will somehow make them get ahead. thinking the rules don't apply to them. and then they wonder why they end up fukked up in the game. both males and females.

 

[InDePickWest]

#Blacklove

 

[ndthentherewasx]

I want it all. Simple as that. Fulfillment.

Being alone hurts

and spending all your time on one person is just


But only dumbasses like my pops would make a side bytch more than she worth

Turn hoes into moms and housewives brehs

 

[dark_magic]

Lately, I have been noticing some very disturbing "side chick" etiquette.
Not just from the side chicks, but also from the men with girlfriends/wives they claim to love and care about.
Men are having unprotected sex, and children with side chicks. Dudes are going out in public with them, and not really trying to hide their connection to these women. They allow these women to disrespect and beef with their "girlfriends" on the innanets, and in the streets. Dudes out here Telling these "side chicks" they love and care for them. Some even get mad when their "side chicks" date other men. Dudes are spending obscene amounts of money on them, and neglecting their "girlfriends" financially or making them beg for things they shouldn't even have to ask for.

Meanwhile, a lot of these men are not consistently "claiming" their girlfriends, and they carry themselves like they are completely single when their girlfriends aren't around, and humiliate them.
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What is the benefit of being a "main girl"?

What makes yall put one woman in the "main chick" position and another chick in the "side chick" position?

Admit it, sometimes yall really be in love with your side chicks, don't you?

How much can you REALLY love your girlfriend if you need that many other women, or one other woman that much?

Why have men become so bold with this in 2015?


Explain Yourselves.

Gene dispersal. Polygyny.

Humans are slightly polygamous as a species as well.

 

[bcrusaderw]

@Rainman Oh no you negged me! My life is over!

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

@Rainman Oh no you negged me! My life is over!

You're on sight status once Im off 30's.

 

[bcrusaderw]

You're on sight status once Im off 30's.

What the hell is off 30s? Where's my neg? I missed it!

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

What the hell is off 30s? Where's my neg? I missed it!

I gotta wait to neg at least 30 other people, don't worry I haven't forgot about you.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I gotta wait to neg at least 30 other people, don't worry I haven't forgot about you.

Well thanks, boo. I'll be waiting. ;)

 

[Art Barr]

this ol cheater talk defeatist based ass thread.
admit you got, no G.
fake a relationship for a nut.
then, demean the woman you share a bed at night with.
plus, use her committed female pheromone to get p*ssy.


Art Barr

 

[OPTiMO]

for all the dudes who complain about women here, it's ironic that they all got these side chicks.

maybe you'll have a better relationship with your woman if you aren't getting some strange on the side.