What's there to explain? A good side chick that is equivalent to a good main chick ftw, reason is because she is everything a nikka would want without the baggage..there's no requirements, a nikka can do him 100%Care to explain this logic?
I'll take a good side chick over a main anyday besides most nikkas hate the entitlement like myself 
actually, I think it comes down to self esteem issues with the men out here. they love their main chics, so instead of breaking it off with them and being free to fukk as many ho's as they want. they choose to do it on the low so they can hold on to the woman they love yet still enjoy the thrills of being single. these are the same guys who will be ready to commit that if their main chic bounced on em. guys who catch feelings for side bytches are basically just straight p*ssy. that's the sign of a man who has no confidence in himself. their biggest fear is another dude comin through and crushin his bytches walls better than he ever could. how you gonna catch feelings over a SIDE bytch....shyt don't make any sense. some of these dudes out here play the part of being the player but behind closed doors they'll be cuddled up with their side bytches lookin like some powder puffs. if you can't have a side bytch without getting caught up in your feelings you're just not built for this shyt.Can't relate to this phenomenon but
I will say that most of it has got to stem from self-esteem issues on account of the women..particularly the mains since they're putting up with all that shyt.
Yeah like @Legend says...there has got to be some precedent set where the idea of a real relationship is being implied by dudes to the side chick...shyt makes sense...
There is a science to this and I will share my perspective
A side chick has to be carefully selected. Especially if you love your woman and fear losing her. You cant be out here just smashing random thots. It's messy and can lead you all sorts of nastiness like STD's, pregnancies and being outed as a cheating piece of shyt.
The ideal side chick is a working woman who is focused on her career, and just needs some dikk and brief companionship to relieve stress. You can hit her up whenever, walk up in her spot like whatever and fukk her largely whenever you feel like it. This type of woman usually goes for emotionally unavailable men and is often a rebound chick. She may actually be a good woman with 1 major flaw that makes her unwifeable to most men. The older you get the more of these women become available to you. She may also give you the freedom to indulge in your various vices and be more accepting of your flaws then wifey. So you two may indulge in narcotics and other forms of degeneracy. This makes her an ideal side chick because as a reflection of your own flaws she can never be eligible to upgrade to wifey status. Wifey helps us be better men
The side chick relationship should be a like a relationship you have with a chick that your friends with and fukk. Maybe you do lunch from time to time or catch a flick together but fukking should be the backdrop to these interactions either before or after whatever brief and Cheap activity you engage in. If you aren't getting laid when yourE with your side chick she's moving you into the relationship bag and you are in danger. Get a new side chick.
If your side chick is alone on the holiday, sneak away from your family to pipe her maybe the day after the holiday if you can. The holidays are when men lose alot of their side chicks because she's at home lonely thinking about you with your main chick. Then again if she's trippin on you being with your woman on the holidays she's in the early or late stages of losing her mind by stepping out of her position . Get a new side chick
Get your side chick tested for STD's so you can fukk her raw or give her oral. For you losers that like to eat twat. Ideally you dont eat your side chick p*ssy ever.
Use code words when communicating by phone with your side chick. She should know when to call and when not to and safe language to use to avoid incriminating you. If you can get a 2nd phone do that.
Tell your side chick you have a girl because even if a woman is a slut that has told you she doesn't want a relationship her emotions may betray her if she's surprised by the revelation that she can't have you and may set a plot in motion to sabotage your real relationship.
If you are going to not tell your side piece you have a woman find a side chick with low self esteem, who is innocent or naive and wont do shyt but cry and be depressed if she finds out you have a woman. shyt she may even just succumb to her weakness and acceot being the other woman until her friends convince her to get a backbone. If you can get money out of her in the process do that.
Don't bring your side chick to your house for sex. This is why it's important to tell your side chick she is the side chick. Don't shyt where you eat. A suspicious woman that you live with will make sherlock homes look like a rookie cop. So fukk her at her house or a hotel and pay with cash using a fake name.
Good luck
Lately, I have been noticing some very disturbing "side chick" etiquette.
Not just from the side chicks, but also from the men with girlfriends/wives they claim to love and care about.
Men are having unprotected sex, and children with side chicks. Dudes are going out in public with them, and not really trying to hide their connection to these women. They allow these women to disrespect and beef with their "girlfriends" on the innanets, and in the streets. Dudes out here Telling these "side chicks" they love and care for them. Some even get mad when their "side chicks" date other men. Dudes are spending obscene amounts of money on them, and neglecting their "girlfriends" financially or making them beg for things they shouldn't even have to ask for.
Meanwhile, a lot of these men are not consistently "claiming" their girlfriends, and they carry themselves like they are completely single when their girlfriends aren't around, and humiliate them.
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What is the benefit of being a "main girl"?
What makes yall put one woman in the "main chick" position and another chick in the "side chick" position?
Admit it, sometimes yall really be in love with your side chicks, don't you?
How much can you REALLY love your girlfriend if you need that many other women, or one other woman that much?
Why have men become so bold with this in 2015?
Explain Yourselves.
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Hahaha side chick has no idea where I live. Told her my house is being renovated and I'm staying with different friends and fam
That "I'm living at multiple locations" hook.
Shawty don't never say stupid shyt like "can I come over?"
And how, may I ask, did you come to all of these wild and flagrant err... "conclusions"?
Let me guess..you "just happen to know" a shyt ton of males who are all in relationships..
..but all just happen to also have a "side chick"
..who they all, coincidentally, are having unprotected sex with
..and, even more coincidentally, they've all had babies by them
..and it just so happens that you automatically know that it's their "side chick" they're with when you always 'just so happen' to run into alllllll these guys in your broad field of study, out in public, right?
..Because you just automatically know, in each and every instance, that it couldn't possibly be a sister or cousin or friend
..And you've even asked all of these men, "hey, do you get mad if your side chick messes with other guys?" And they all answered yes, huh..
You started off this waste of keystrokes of a thread with "Lately I've been noticing some distiurbing side chick ettiquette.." ..so you're basically saying you've "observed" this
How do you "observe" side chick behavior
(and I want you to really think about that question bfefore you answer. DO NOT say what I know will come to mind first
You don't call her a side chick wtf. You call her by her name and you call her when you wanna fukk.
I'm tested on a regular basis.Code cracked.And how, may I ask, did you come to all of these wild and flagrant err... "conclusions"?
Let me guess..you "just happen to know" a shyt ton of males who are all in relationships..
..but all just happen to also have a "side chick"
..who they all, coincidentally, are having unprotected sex with
..and, even more coincidentally, they've all had babies by them
..and it just so happens that you automatically know that it's their "side chick" they're with when you always 'just so happen' to run into alllllll these guys in your broad field of study, out in public, right?
..Because you just automatically know, in each and every instance, that it couldn't possibly be a sister or cousin or friend
..And you've even asked all of these men, "hey, do you get mad if your side chick messes with other guys?" And they all answered yes, huh..
You started off this waste of keystrokes of a thread with "Lately I've been noticing some distiurbing side chick ettiquette.." ..so you're basically saying you've "observed" this
How do you "observe" side chick behavior
(and I want you to really think about that question bfefore you answer. DO NOT say what I know will come to mind first
Code cracked.
She's the side chick
