Wreckless sexual and mental gymnastics is what it is. Its also a main reason why the Black Family can't get any structure in 2015, because everybody is fckin everybody or anybody, without any expectations for mutual commitments/marriage.
Menz... Can We Have Some Dialogue About Side Chicks -VS- Main Chicks?
- Thread starter A Woman's Opinion
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Only guys that have money, fat wives or big dikks are allowed to cheat.Unless you get with good guys
If you want a man that isn't selfish, get with a man that isn't selfish. Problem is people want to have their cake and eat it too (absolutely hate that saying but it fits). Every guy can't have a side and main. It's a small sample of the male population that would be in position to have this. Plenty of other guys are willing and able to be monogamous and they are either in happy relationships with good girls, alone because so called good girls weren't interested, or chasing some tramp.
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
Never indulged personally
But the side chick is the male equivalent to the friendzone
But the side chick is the male equivalent to the friendzone
Scandal is NOT based off of Condoleeza Rice (could you spell her name right it's ONE google search away).Donald Sterling, Bill Clinton, and George Bush(Condelezza Rice was his side bytch, its what Scandal is based off of) got em too. Everybody needs a wifey and a mistress. Its just the way men are. My side chick is 6 years older than me. It is what it is
Main: Fine china displayed in a nice Jonathan Charles mahogany cabinet, tailored suit, garage kept vintage ferrari california spider, house in the suburbs with picket fence and neat lawn, Note 4 or Iphone 6
Side: Disposable dixie ultra strength plates, play clothes, bikni top jeep wrangler, trap house, burner trac phone
A side needs to know and accept that role and she's not to be trusted with ANY personal info. She doesn't really even have to know your real name, she just calls you ******
Not every guy has a side
Side: Disposable dixie ultra strength plates, play clothes, bikni top jeep wrangler, trap house, burner trac phone
A side needs to know and accept that role and she's not to be trusted with ANY personal info. She doesn't really even have to know your real name, she just calls you ******Not every guy has a side
Real nikka would keep the sidechick in her place.
Main chick is just that. Your main thing. Female you wanna go home too and wake up too. Female you wanna fukk on the regular.
Your sidechick is just some strange for every now and then. You don't get attached to the sidechick. You don't date the sidechick. If anything the sidechick should be replaced every week or so. Most of my sidechicks are just exes who still wanna fukk.
Problem is most of these nikkas wit "Sidechicks" don't actually have sidechicks. They have multiple girlfriends. End of the day the females areplaying them. And they're stretching themselves too thin tryna keep up. Basically playing themselves too.
I've tried it. having multiple girlfriends is like a fulltime job.
Main chick is just that. Your main thing. Female you wanna go home too and wake up too. Female you wanna fukk on the regular.
Your sidechick is just some strange for every now and then. You don't get attached to the sidechick. You don't date the sidechick. If anything the sidechick should be replaced every week or so. Most of my sidechicks are just exes who still wanna fukk.
Problem is most of these nikkas wit "Sidechicks" don't actually have sidechicks. They have multiple girlfriends. End of the day the females areplaying them. And they're stretching themselves too thin tryna keep up. Basically playing themselves too.
I've tried it. having multiple girlfriends is like a fulltime job.
What I'm hearing is that many of you lack integrity and are also hypocrites. If you found out your "main" was cheating on you you'd be pissed. If you don't believe in monogamy don't get into a relationship. It really is that simple.
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
Main: Fine china displayed in a nice cabinet, tailored suit, garage kept vintage ferrari california spider, house in the suburbs with picket fence and neat lawn, Note 4 or Iphone 6
Side: Disposable dixie ultra strength plates, play clothes, bikni top jeep wrangler, trap house, burner trac phone
Not every guy has a side
Makes sense, but some side chicks do get info and are not given as many boundaries. Which is disturbing.
Diversity in women is the advantage...
Lately, I have been noticing some very disturbing "side chick" etiquette.
Not just from the side chicks, but also from the men with girlfriends/wives they claim to love and care about.
Men are having unprotected sex, and children with side chicks. Dudes are going out in public with them, and not really trying to hide their connection to these women. They allow these women to disrespect and beef with their "girlfriends" on the innanets, and in the streets. Dudes out here Telling these "side chicks" they love and care for them. Some even get mad when their "side chicks" date other men. Dudes are spending obscene amounts of money on them, and neglecting their "girlfriends" financially or making them beg for things they shouldn't even have to ask for.
Meanwhile, a lot of these men are not consistently "claiming" their girlfriends, and they carry themselves like they are completely single when their girlfriends aren't around, and humiliate them.
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What is the benefit of being a "main girl"?
What makes yall put one woman in the "main chick" position and another chick in the "side chick" position?
Admit it, sometimes yall really be in love with your side chicks, don't you?
How much can you REALLY love your girlfriend if you need that many other women, or one other woman that much?
Why have men become so bold with this in 2015?
Explain Yourselves.
Maybe the man is being greedy... if both aren't cool w sharing then.. side chick is necessary.
Sometimes you like a girl enough to wanna fukk her a bunch of times, and maybe even chill with ber.... but you know shes not wify material.
Occasionally, the side chick thinks she will move into wife position when main is put in the bushes.... lol, this rarely happens , as ive had the same 3 or 4 side chicks off n on , thru normal relationships. One girl has been down for 8 years...
Some side chicks are given this privilege.
Those are down ass women who fooled themselves into thinking whatever you have is satisfying enough for them plus you know they'd never blow up ur spot..
In turn they are blessed with madd shyt, from knowing names, maybe even gifts on holidays, and even emotional shyt and affection.
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
Side chicks that you leave your main to be with being mad when you use your ex main chick as your new side chick.
Huh?
Main: Fine china displayed in a nice Jonathan Charles mahogany cabinet, tailored suit, garage kept vintage ferrari california spider, house in the suburbs with picket fence and neat lawn, Note 4 or Iphone 6
Side: Disposable dixie ultra strength plates, play clothes, bikni top jeep wrangler, trap house, burner trac phone
Not every guy has a side
Hahaha side chick has no idea where I live. Told her my house is being renovated and I'm staying with different friends and fam
Chicks be having that need to believe, it's so easily exploited. Chick has even joked that I come off like a bohemian homeless roamer.. .
ChocolateGiddyUp
Superstar
The problem is some of y'all are mistaking a Mistress for a side chick
Side Chicks - they know they only there to get fukked N that's it...well talk next time i wanna fukk again...they can have a bf...they know your situation N don't care...its purely physical with y'all
Mistress - is GF #2 that bytch is your responsibility... You fukk her erry time you see her like the side chick...but you spend time with her...she cooks for you... You throw out her garbage...she's not allowed to talk to other nikkas...you take her out...emotionally invested but for whatever reason she's not your Main
Side Chicks - they know they only there to get fukked N that's it...well talk next time i wanna fukk again...they can have a bf...they know your situation N don't care...its purely physical with y'all
Mistress - is GF #2 that bytch is your responsibility... You fukk her erry time you see her like the side chick...but you spend time with her...she cooks for you... You throw out her garbage...she's not allowed to talk to other nikkas...you take her out...emotionally invested but for whatever reason she's not your Main