Menz... Can We Have Some Dialogue About Side Chicks -VS- Main Chicks?

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You turn your main chick Into a side chick and a side chick Into a main then cheat on your former side chick with your former main chick and the former side chick gets mad


Reversing the situation and the hoe gets upset when she's getting cheated on
 

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Thanks for your honesty.

Now, why is she a side chick for 6 years, and not your girl?

Well she hasn't been my side chick for 6 years first off. I don't have a main chick at the moment, but whenever I do get one they have to deal with my side chick(if I decide to tell them).

What made her the side chick?

She is 6 years older than me and I'm a college student. So us cuffing each other at the moment is not realistic.

Do you love her?

I guess so

Do you get jealous when she see's other men?

Nope

Who do you love?

NA

If it went down... who do you chose?

Im not married nor engaged so they'll have to kick rocks. My philosophy is "If you want her gone, then provide higher value than her, outperform her"

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Wreckless sexual and mental gymnastics is what it is. Its also a main reason why the Black Family can't get any structure in 2015, because everybody is fckin everybody or anybody, without any expectations for mutual commitments/marriage.
Then these same dudes have the nerve to spit on single mothers as if they are somehow better knowing full well that many of them have multiple children with multiple women.
 

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Lately, I have been noticing some very disturbing "side chick" etiquette. :stopitslime:
Not just from the side chicks, but also from the men with girlfriends/wives they claim to love and care about. :comeon:
Men are having unprotected sex, and children with side chicks. Dudes are going out in public with them, and not really trying to hide their connection to these women. They allow these women to disrespect and beef with their "girlfriends" on the innanets, and in the streets. Dudes out here Telling these "side chicks" they love and care for them. Some even get mad when their "side chicks" date other men. Dudes are spending obscene amounts of money on them, and neglecting their "girlfriends" financially or making them beg for things they shouldn't even have to ask for. :mindblown:

Meanwhile, a lot of these men are not consistently "claiming" their girlfriends, and they carry themselves like they are completely single when their girlfriends aren't around, and humiliate them. :what:
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What is the benefit of being a "main girl"?

What makes yall put one woman in the "main chick" position and another chick in the "side chick" position?

Admit it, sometimes yall really be in love with your side chicks, don't you? :sas1:

How much can you REALLY love your girlfriend if you need that many other women, or one other woman that much?:sas2:

Why have men become so bold with this in 2015?


Explain Yourselves.

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Can't relate to this phenomenon but :popcorn: :manny:


I will say that most of it has got to stem from self-esteem issues on account of the women..particularly the mains since they're putting up with all that shyt.
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men are pretty weak...we'll only do to women what they let us get away with lol
 

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Makes sense, but some side chicks do get info and are not given as many boundaries. Which is disturbing.

Sloppy, arrogant or both :yeshrug:

Can't control the side forever. She should only be getting select info (a first or designated nickname, burner phone #)

I found out that a cut buddy downloaded Google Latitude (RIP :piss:to that devil app) to my phone and was tracking me on the low. I was single, but still :what:

If a simple cut buddy would do some shyt like that, just imagine what a sprung, scorned, motivated side-chick is capable of :wow:

If a chick was looking for me today, she could only hope to catch me slipping on TheColi. No Facebook, no Twitter, and no Snitchagram :camby:
 

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Sloppy, arrogant or both :yeshrug:

Can't control the side forever. She should only be getting select info (a first or designated nickname, burner phone #)

I found out that a cut buddy downloaded Google Latitude (RIP :piss:to that devil app) to my phone and was tracking me on the low. I was single, but still :what:

If a simple cut buddy would do some shyt like that, just imagine what a sprung, scorned, motivated side-chick is capable of :wow:

If a chick was looking for me today, she could only hope to catch me slipping on TheColi. No Facebook, no Twitter, and no Snitchagram :camby:

Again, you have to be sharp. Whenever chick offers to uber me home because I paid for date I'm like na I got or oh shyt there's a car2go I got some errands anyway lol. Don't need her tracking my uber route on her phone finding out where I'm going.
 

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Speaking in food terms, do you go and get a burger without a side of fries? The burger is the main meal, but its the two together that make the meal filling, you can leave stuffed after a burger and fries.:banderas:


You don't see people walking around eating burgers, but you see them walking around killing them fries.:sas2: But ask a man if he wants a good burger or some good fries and they'll choose the burger almost everytime.:sas1:





Thats how most men think, having constancy isn't as good as having all you can eat. They can't separate the two its so engraved in our minds that if you have a burger (a main chick) you got to have fries to go along with that (a side chick)


It doesn't matter tho, yall just gonna friend zone the dudes who don't fall into that category:lolbron:
 
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Again, you have to be sharp. Whenever chick offers to uber me home because I paid for date I'm like na I got or oh shyt there's a car2go I got some errands anyway lol. Don't need her tracking my uber route on her phone finding out where I'm going.

I was still learning. I was like 19-20 when that shyt happened
 

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Then these same dudes have the nerve to spit on single mothers as if they are somehow better knowing full well that many of them have multiple children with multiple women.

Yea its a major problem, that is swept under the rug, but eventually its going to have to be confronted head on, this type of menatlity.
 
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