Menz... Can We Have Some Dialogue About Side Chicks -VS- Main Chicks?
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nikka that's why you lonely
No woman will ever admit to being a cheater or a side chick. It's always y'all friend, cousin, sister, mama. Every woman is innocent out her mouth then you get around women where you feel your secrets are safe and the truth comes out.Nope.
I have a boyfriend, and to my knowledge he doesn't have a side chick.
I do have friends who are/have been side chicks, and two girls from my neighborhood are beefing about a guy and both girls seem to think the other girl is the side chick.
I have seen this a lot since high school and in college.
Which is why I am asking for insight from men on what a side chick is -vs- a main chick, and what makes them put certain women in certain positions.
Why this discussion would be offensive to anyone is beyond me.
Unless...
*it didn't count though when i cheated on him because he called me out my name*
Yall quick to throw your people under the bus though huh?
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
No woman will ever admit to being a cheater or a side chick. It's always y'all friend, cousin, sister, mama. Every woman is innocent out her mouth then you get around women where you feel your secrets are safe and the truth comes out.
*it didn't count though when i cheated on him because he called me out my name*
Yall quick to throw your people under the bus though huh?
Incorrect.
I have been nothing but honest on this site. I have spoken about my boyfriend, and even admitted to a fling where I could have been a side chick in this very thread.
WTF I look like lying to yall for? Who are yall? Why would I be trying to impress you?
Im not scared of "the coli". I have no reason to lie to you.
I AM NOT CURRENTLY A SIDE CHICK, NOR HAVE I EVER WILLINGLY ACCEPTED THE ROLE AS SIDE CHICK.
Any casual situation I had with a man he claimed to be single.
I am speaking on things I am seeing around me, and have seen growing up. Believe what you want about me. I could careless, but try to stay on topic.
Now, where were we?
What else is there to say men have had siside hicks since the dawn of time. It's hard for an attractive man to stay faithful in 2015 with women's proclivity to get fat, complain and not give oral sex on a regular basis. Some woman will supplement that void when the main chick isn't doing her job. Even the lamest man on the planet will step out if the basic needs are not met. Its tough for women to accept but regular head will save your relationship and being wrong and strong will ruin it
Incorrect.
I have been nothing but honest on this site. I have spoken about my boyfriend, and even admitted to a fling where I could have been a side chick in this very thread.
WTF I look like lying to yall for? Who are yall? Why would I be trying to impress you?
Im not scared of "the coli". I have no reason to lie to you.
I AM NOT CURRENTLY A SIDE CHICK, NOR HAVE I EVER WILLINGLY ACCEPTED THE ROLE AS SIDE CHICK.
Any casual situation I had with a man he claimed to be single.
I am speaking on things I am seeing around me, and have seen growing up. Believe what you want about me. I could careless, but try to stay on topic.
Now, where were we?
BlackFruitPunch
Banned
Damn that's an unfortunate looking rat faced ho.Thanks for your honesty.
Now, why is she a side chick for 6 years, and not your girl?
What made her the side chick?
Do you love her?
Do you get jealous when she see's other men?
Who do you love?
If it went down... who do you chose?
Big Daddy
Fight or die fighting, no surrender.
Code cracked.
She's the side chick
Yooo, you're right
And it was right in front of my face all along
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
You're right...
So, when men stop giving enough head and get fat... Is it okay for us to load up on side nikkas too?
Tropical Fantasy
Superstar
Donald Sterling, Bill Clinton, and George Bush(Condelezza Rice was his side bytch, its what Scandal is based off of) got em too. Everybody needs a wifey and a mistress. Its just the way men are. My side chick is 6 years older than me. It is what it is
-Main chick is like your best friend, you actually care/think about her, she's more than just p*ssy
-Side chick is mostly just for p*ssy, but she might be a cool chick too. You might smoke with her too or something like that
-Your not supposed to fall in love with the side chick, but human emotion is complicated, so sometimes thats easier said than done. You don't choose who you fall in love with/care about
-& for the how can you love your girl, but still have side chicks question:
The side chick is just p*ssy. We could fukk a bytch we hate because we like p*ssy (especially new p*ssy) that much
. It doesn't reflect how much we love you. It reflects our integrity as a man and how well we can resist temptation.
Every guy wants side chicks we can just fukk, even tho we might love our s/o. We don't want to be monogamous, we just want you to
-Side chick is mostly just for p*ssy, but she might be a cool chick too. You might smoke with her too or something like that
-Your not supposed to fall in love with the side chick, but human emotion is complicated, so sometimes thats easier said than done. You don't choose who you fall in love with/care about
-& for the how can you love your girl, but still have side chicks question:
The side chick is just p*ssy. We could fukk a bytch we hate because we like p*ssy (especially new p*ssy) that much
. It doesn't reflect how much we love you. It reflects our integrity as a man and how well we can resist temptation. Every guy wants side chicks we can just fukk, even tho we might love our s/o. We don't want to be monogamous, we just want you to
You're right...
So, when men stop giving enough head and get fat... Is it okay for us to load up on side nikkas too?
Is it ok? Meaning what? is the man giong to stay with you if he finds out. I doubt it seriously.
ScoopNScore
8man
The main gets the most attention (dates, deep convos, the whole nine) and the side just gets the cordial visit and some dikkin, and that's as far as it goes. A rather sordid business , but until they get to the age where they feel like they gotta settle down,
Just be responsible.
Gotta admit it's true
, they wanna be playas but weren't put on to game like that, or they just don't lay it down on the line with the ladies they deal with.
, but until they get to the age where they feel like they gotta settle down,
Just be responsible.
Gotta admit it's true
, they wanna be playas but weren't put on to game like that, or they just don't lay it down on the line with the ladies they deal with.
Can't relate to this phenomenon but
I will say that most of it has got to stem from self-esteem issues on account of the women..particularly the mains since they're putting up with all that shyt.
Lies. It's the cheater's fault. The person who is getting cheated on (or the "main") usually doesn't know. Sometimes the side person doesn't know either, but most of the times (especially these days) the side person does know. If both know, then one could say that both have issues. But after they find out, the cheater usually lies to them to get them to stay. The cheater is the one with the most issues.
LOL So, you really believe that thots can't be career oriented? Thots go to college too.
If you know that you are a side person or if you are a cheater, then you are considered a thot.
To your first point I don't know where you get that I'm excusing dudes from their infidelity. The premise of the thread is that main chicks and side chicks are aware of their status...you're implying an ignorance that is indicative of infidelity...two different situations lmao. As far as dude having issues..I already addressed that earlier so you should probably go through the thread.
To your second point I agree...my post wasn't clear but I was implying that there are career oriented thots as well
@A Woman's Opinion what about women who have side dikk, how do u feel about them??