Mfs feeling like you're OBLIGATED to lend them money because they KNOW you got it

[Elvira Sol]

Thread is so true. Nobody asked me for shyt until I had shyt.

I need to be cold like my oldest brother.

When people ask him for money, makes them submit a letter to him detailing:
-what its for
-how it is the best use of the money
-and a timeline in which it will be payed back.

And he requires it typed and signed.

He even does this to extended family

This is funny as hell. I might start doing this.

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

Help them manager there budget only help you get from me

 

[unit321]

Save as must as you can now. Then, one day.... just move out of town.

Start a new life.






The other option is to just say no. Stay in town. Tell them you are aren't their ATM. You need a big pair of balls to do that. Kobe Bryant sized balls.

 

[Ahsha]

My family used to do the same to me. Since I started using "No" a lot more, I don't here from them at all really. Sad shyt, but .

 

[GunRanger]

The worst is when they think you don't need it. Like saving is unheard of to them

 

[Pacni99a12]

Luckily I don't have to deal with that shyt. My mom is the opposite. Never wants me to get her anything. I'll pick up some food for me and her and she talking about "how much do I owe you?" I always hit her with the

 

[MalikX]

Save as must as you can now. Then, one day.... just move out of town.

Start a new life.






The other option is to just say no. Stay in town. Tell them you are aren't their ATM. You need a big pair of balls to do that. Kobe Bryant sized balls.

How far?

 

[Skeletor666]

Be a man, tell them to go fukk themselves and actually be adults and work.

Broke fukks always wanting a hand out, get off ur ass

 

[Heafcliffe]

nikkas in my family already know the deal. I got it but I'm not giving it to you

This works for me! More importantly, my family and friends have no knowledge of my monetary deposits and salary, pleighboi.

The less you know......

 

[The M.I.C.]

I'm constantly writing checks for my sister to prevent my little niece and nephews from suffering from their dumbass parents decision making. My younger sister refuses to force her baby's daddy to pay to take care of their child cause she's afraid he'll stop fukking with her . shyt, I'm in Charlotte right now getting my nephew and niece righteous for back to school because she ain't making much at Wal-Mart and I'm not letting them go to school half steppin.

She gonna call me yesterday talking about just send me the money for their stuff, save yourself a trip she says..

Me:

Her: You don't trust me, Gaff?

Me:

Her: I know how to properly take care of my kids, nikka.

Me:

Her: Can I get a couple hundred to get my car's oil changed?

Me:

If I didn't care so much about the little ones, I'd probably stop fukking with her completely sad to say.

 

[Rawtid]

at "smho"
I only let one person borrow money at this point and she will only ask if it's a true emergency. Like the last time the state held daycare voucher money without notice because they said they didn't get paperwork so she was short on her payroll. She got it situated and had my money back to me that same week. Anyone else I say I don't have it or if it's a small enough amount I just let them have it.

 

[Trajan]

Thread is so true. Nobody asked me for shyt until I had shyt.

I need to be cold like my oldest brother.

When people ask him for money, makes them submit a letter to him detailing:
-what its for
-how it is the best use of the money
-and a timeline in which it will be payed back.

And he requires it typed and signed.

He even does this to extended family

 

[Geek Nasty]

Her: Can I get a couple hundred to get my car's oil changed?

Me:

 

[GreenGrass]

I feel you. I feel like my family and friends, hold me back from achieving such greatness. It is sad.

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Be a man, tell them to go fukk themselves and actually be adults and work.

Broke fukks always wanting a hand out, get off ur ass

fukked up part is they do work n ima woman by the way