Mfs feeling like you're OBLIGATED to lend them money because they KNOW you got it

[The M.I.C.]

She must think you stupid.

Obviously you aren't. Let that be known to her.

She knows...the problem is that the kids are my achilles and she knows that.

I absolutely refuse to allow ANYTHING to happen to those kids that may negatively impair them, now or in the future. She doesn't know it but they'll be set once they turn 18 and eventually... the chickens will come home to roost once she realizes that she'll need to rely on the very children she's neglected,to in turn, show mercy and take care of her not too far down the line. At that point, I won't give a fukk. I'm willing to sacrifice and be patient because I already know how the narrative will end. I'm only concerned with promoting successes within the next generation since mines has, not lived up to the family name and legacy..their success will ultimately be mines so I don't care about costs, emotionally or economically, at this time.

 

[EndDomination]

 

[EndDomination]

I have a few friends like that though, and its honestly a bit tiring.
Thankfully my parents have been fairly financially stable my whole life, and none of them have ever asked to borrow money from me, or really any family member.
Next year I leave and get to cut off every person who's not good for me

 

[Geek Nasty]

Im from the DIRTY South my old man grew up in the swamps. Go back home all these broke down old men asking him for chump change. I'm not talking bums i'm talking people he grew up with. I'm talking $5 and shyt. Nothing more pathetic than seeing an old ass man asking another for what you give to a 8 year old for allowance

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Didnt read all of it, i will say that i can relate.

It's to the point where certain people barely hit me up unless they want money.

My homie is the #1 offender... Ive lost THOUSANDS fukking with him and never see shyt back because he's never in a solid position to give and he still asks me for shyt from time to time. Like he caught a flat but didnt have any money to pay for new tire AND i had to get out of bed to help him deal with it... Then he needed some more money the next week for shyt i dont even remember.

My sister is next... Put herself and her family in a shytty situations so if shes not borrowing money shes borrowing my whip.

My mom is next but thats because she gambles... But she hasnt asked me for nothing in awhile.

My other homies are next. One was going out of town but asked me for some cash on the last day.. Which confused me because im like why are you going out of town if you dont have money but it was minor... My other homie asks but not really... Then a brother and a few people asks but they usually get it right back.


The thing is i barely ask anyone for shyt. I'm not talking about money either. I barely ask them to do simple shyt, and I feel like I couldn't rely on anyone to do that. Now i do everything pretty much alone when it comes to handling business... I either cant rely on them or wait on them.

And its like i dont receive any respect about this shyt either... Everything is still about everyone else. Ive kinda fallen back from my circle lately. I dont ask for shyt and barely even go anywhere or answer my phone.

My other homie called me earlier and wants to talk but im almost certain its about me spending money

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Update:

1500$ loan to my sister incoming

 

[The M.I.C.]

I'm constantly writing checks for my sister to prevent my little niece and nephews from suffering from their dumbass parents decision making. My younger sister refuses to force her baby's daddy to pay to take care of their child cause she's afraid he'll stop fukking with her . shyt, I'm in Charlotte right now getting my nephew and niece righteous for back to school because she ain't making much at Wal-Mart and I'm not letting them go to school half steppin.

She gonna call me yesterday talking about just send me the money for their stuff, save yourself a trip she says..

Me:

Her: You don't trust me, Gaff?

Me:

Her: I know how to properly take care of my kids, nikka.

Me:

Her: Can I get a couple hundred to get my car's oil changed?

Me:

If I didn't care so much about the little ones, I'd probably stop fukking with her completely sad to say.

Nearly seven years later and this still applies.