Most Single People over 30 are Sad, Broken, Broke and Lonely, but we put up a good front.

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Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.

We single people put up a front online and on social media, like our lives are great, it's not. We have fun on weekends and have a few good dates, but all this unsuccessful dating wears you out. I'm a playa, but I miss my old relationship before i ruined it. I rather that than 100 leftover women.

A lot of us would rather die lying than to be honest and say my life isn't tht great, I want a life partner. Most will lie and say "I choose to be single or I could've been married" Lying like a Mfer.

Women lie the most. They hoist their career, degrees and travels up in the air as if that's all they need. But after the brunches and happy hours and social / networking events are over and after the last like of the pics she posted on the gram, they have to take it back to that cold ass house and bed. You ever wonder why these women have to be doing something everyday and every weekend? For them to chill at home is like a prison sentence, they need some adventure. This is why. A house is not a home, we it's one person in it.

Single people out here struggling with student loans, trying to look successful with a nice car and crib. Mortgage alone beating our azz. You know we got to travel and dine out for IG too.

Single life is cool for about a year.

Take it from an old dog like me, if you got a good mate make it work. You don't want to be back out here in this dating game.




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Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.

We single people put up a front online and on social media, like our lives are great, it's not. We have fun on weekends and have a few good dates, but all this unsuccessful dating wears you out. I'm a playa, but I miss my old relationship before i ruined it. I rather that than 100 leftover women.

A lot of us would rather die lying than to be honest and say my life isn't tht great, I want a life partner. Most will lie and say "I choose to be single or I could've been married" Lying like a Mfer.

Women lie the most. They hoist their career, degrees and travels up in the air as if that's all they need. But after the brunches and happy hours and social / networking events are over and after the last like of the pics she posted on the gram, they have to take it back to that cold ass house and bed. You ever wonder why these women have to be doing something everyday and every weekend? For them to chill at home is like a prison sentence, they need some adventure. This is why. A house is not a home, we it's one person in it.

Single people out here struggling with student loans, trying to look successful with a nice car and crib. Mortgage alone beating our azz. You know we got to travel and dine out for IG too.

Single life is cool for about a year.

Take it from an old dog like me, if you got a good mate make it work. You don't want to be back out here in this dating game.




:mjcry:


Nothing like having a beautiful woman at home that can cook and sleep next too every night fukk that single life shyt it's trash and all a facade because I use to live it.
 

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Nothing is better than love. :yeshrug:



As soon as people get money they start looking for a mate and that's when it's hardest to find someone that's truly loves you.

Of course love is important, but you making it seem like all single people are in this depressed mood because they can't find anyone and they have nothing going for themselves, neither is true.

There's single people who're enjoying life right now, not dependent on another person, and they are likely to find a good spouse. You can't put that washed playa mindset on everybody.
 

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Nothing like having a beautiful woman at home that can cook and sleep next too every night fukk that single life shyt it's trash and all a facade because I use to live it.


Exactly.

Like I said, single life is cool for about 6 months to a year, than it sucks.
 

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Of course love is important, but you making it seem like all single people are in this depressed mood because they can't find anyone and they have nothing going for themselves, neither is true.

There's single people who're enjoying life right now, not dependent on another person, and they are likely to find a good spouse. You can't put that washed playa mindset on everybody.


Bullshyt.

All that got something going on is just a front. Most of people aren't making no real money to say they got something going on. We lie and front so hard and the Black community.

Only 10% of men making 100k and most of them are White and/or married. So how is everybody got something going on or building wealth.

How can you be happy being a side piece or just smashing chicks with no real connection?
 

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a bad relationship is worse than being alone. A relationship is only worth it if you have a good partner.

Also being single means that you can dedicate more time to your health and wealth. You can spend your money how you want to.

Dating sucks yes but you can focus on yourself
 

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Bullshyt.

All that got something going on is just a front. Most of people aren't making no real money to say they got something going on. We lie and front so hard and the Black community.

Only 10% of men making 100k and most of them are White and/or married. So how is everybody got something going on or building wealth.

How can you be happy being a side piece or just smashing chicks with no real connection?

Because you have more control of your spending if you make 60k you pay off any debt and start investing in mutual funds and do a 401k if you are single you should t really be spending much money
 

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Bullshyt.

All that got something going on is just a front. Most of people aren't making no real money to say they got something going on. We lie and front so hard and the Black community.

Only 10% of men making 100k and most of them are White and/or married. So how is everybody got something going on or building wealth.

How can you be happy being a side piece or just smashing chicks with no real connection?

You keep saying "we". You making an assumption about people you don't know.

Who says you need $100k if you're single and childless?

Who says you need to smash random women?

It sounds like depressed single people need something to be passionate about, because not all single people have that lonely mindset.
 

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Nothing is better than love. :yeshrug:

And what do you know love?


Bullshyt.

All that got something going on is just a front. Most of people aren't making no real money to say they got something going on. We lie and front so hard and the Black community.

Only 10% of men making 100k and most of them are White and/or married. So how is everybody got something going on or building wealth.

How can you be happy being a side piece or just smashing chicks with no real connection?


Why do you care? Build your life up to how you want to live it.
 

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a bad relationship is worse than being alone. A relationship is only worth it if you have a good partner.

Also being single means that you can dedicate more time to your health and wealth. You can spend your money how you want to.

Dating sucks yes but you can focus on yourself

"Statistics" says different.
 
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