Most Single People over 30 are Sad, Broken, Broke and Lonely, but we put up a good front.

[Chrishaune]

I’m a doctor and I work with a lot of nursing homes if you think how the economy is going that your kids or wife can take care of you when you’re demented you are in for a rude awakening

You better be exercising three times a week get your blood pressure under control and have a group that you can hang out with

I was just about to say, a lot of these people who think they have somebody they can depend on are going to be surprised.

A lot of women only want the kids so they can manipulate them into taking care of them later.

Most men find out that woman doesn't really care about you like that. She's using you for resources. She will also turn on you and look to daddy government when she feels it's convenient.

 

[The Radiant One]

I was just about to say, a lot of these people who think they have somebody they can depend on are going to be surprised.

A lot of women only want the kids so they can manipulate them into taking care of them later.

Most men find out that woman doesn't really care about you like that. She's using you for resources. She will also turn on you and look to daddy government when she feels it's convenient.

Yep girl gets pregnant and then acts a certain way. I have seen a lot of my friends divorced paying alimony and being weekend dads and they make six figs

Women just need their mothers to help raise a child or their sister. If you fight a lot or don’t do a lot of the house work a woman will leave you.

A woman wants a wedding and a man to improve her social standing and kids.

With most women’s they view children as their own so they don’t want half custody in a divorce and will make any accusation for them to get majority custody

The OP isn’t thinking about divorce. Singe never married people are happier than divorced people

 

[Stuntone]

Yep girl gets pregnant and then acts a certain way. I have seen a lot of my friends divorced paying alimony and being weekend dads and they make six figs

Women just need their mothers to help raise a child or their sister. If you fight a lot or don’t do a lot of the house work a woman will leave you.

A woman wants a wedding and a man to improve her social standing and kids.

With most women’s they view children as their own so they don’t want half custody in a divorce and will make any accusation for them to get majority custody

The OP isn’t thinking about divorce. Singe never married people are happier than divorced people

I dont think that's true.

If you were married, there had to be a lot of great times.

A lot of single people have never dated they person they really wanted. Never fault real love. They only chased people that only wanted to smash or use them. That's not happiness, especially after 30.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Yep girl gets pregnant and then acts a certain way. I have seen a lot of my friends divorced paying alimony and being weekend dads and they make six figs

Women just need their mothers to help raise a child or their sister. If you fight a lot or don’t do a lot of the house work a woman will leave you.

A woman wants a wedding and a man to improve her social standing and kids.

With most women’s they view children as their own so they don’t want half custody in a divorce and will make any accusation for them to get majority custody

The OP isn’t thinking about divorce. Singe never married people are happier than divorced people

Or maybe they were not compatible to begin with and only got married and became parents because of societies expectation. Op is basing his opinions on red pill generalizations which are exaggerated and linear.

 

[Digital Omen]

fukk this negative shyt. I had a fukked up marriage and was counting down the days until my divorce was finalized like a prisoner waiting for his release date
I enjoy and prioritize my freedom now, peace of mind is priceless
I choose the single life with its bullshyt and ups and downs over being yoked to a toxic partner 100% of the time.
Also I'm an introvert and keep to myself. Just this past Friday I went to see Air by myself, not giving a single fukk.
I don't know about anyone else but I actually enjoy my company and doing what I want for dolo. I like being me.
Point and laugh at the dude minding his business enjoying a movie? Whatever.
I have a girlfriend, we're good. We're also both divorced and on the same GMB page.
Dudes cape for marriage not realizing marrying the wrong woman will take years off your life and fukk your mental, physical, and financial health.
Hard pass, FOH.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

it’s a pirate’s life for me

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

DOUBLE

 

[Ɀoᥱɣ]

a bad relationship is worse than being alone. A relationship is only worth it if you have a good partner.

Also being single means that you can dedicate more time to your health and wealth. You can spend your money how you want to.

Dating sucks yes but you can focus on yourself

Bolded is all that needs to be said, if you have a mindset like OP then you will literally put up with anything and anyone just to not be alone that seems like a terrible way to be.

 

[humminbird]

I know people hate Mondays but this is a little too depressing
you woke up today be happy

 

[Heafcliffe]

Ayo, such a polarizing thread title, b.

screen door closing correctly

Not sure why but this made me

 

[The Radiant One]

I dont think that's true.

If you were married, there had to be a lot of great times.

A lot of single people have never dated they person they really wanted. Never fault real love. They only chased people that only wanted to smash or use them. That's not happiness, especially after 30.

Have you been around divorced people?

Marriage has health benefits there is no denying but being divorced is a cardiovascular risk factor

Marriage and Men's Health - Harvard Health Publishing - Harvard Health

Statistics on marriage and health show that married men are healthier than unmarried or divorced men, and are also more likely to live longer. However, marital stress has a negative effect on physi...

www.health.harvard.edu

 

[4-Rin]

My guy said "we" in his post. Did you forget you're posting on the coli? Nothing but 6 figure brehs posting round here

 

[analog]

Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.

Do you know any couples living like that (both happy) cause I personally don't.

The folks still together are holding on by a thread with usually one of them carrying an uneven load. The ones courageous enough to have parted ways swear to never do it again.

Married or single, most are miserable

 

[Shadow King]

No career
No car
No house
No dog
No brunch / happy hour
No travels
No degree


Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.

We single people put up a front online and on social media, like our lives are great, it's not. We have fun on weekends and have a few good dates, but all this unsuccessful dating wears you out. I'm a playa, but I miss my old relationship before i ruined it. I rather that than 100 leftover women.

A lot of us would rather die lying than to be honest and say my life isn't tht great, I want a life partner. Most will lie and say "I choose to be single or I could've been married" Lying like a Mfer.

Women lie the most. They hoist their career, degrees and travels up in the air as if that's all they need. But after the brunches and happy hours and social / networking events are over and after the last like of the pics she posted on the gram, they have to take it back to that cold ass house and bed. You ever wonder why these women have to be doing something everyday and every weekend? For them to chill at home is like a prison sentence, they need some adventure. This is why. A house is not a home, we it's one person in it.

Single people out here struggling with student loans, trying to look successful with a nice car and crib. Mortgage alone beating our azz. You know we got to travel and dine out for IG too.

Single life is cool for about a year.

Take it from an old dog like me, if you got a good mate make it work. You don't want to be back out here in this dating game.

Any person with NONE of this is going to be miserable regardless.

 

[Ahadi]

No career
No car
No house
No dog
No brunch / happy hour
No travels
No degree


Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.

We single people put up a front online and on social media, like our lives are great, it's not. We have fun on weekends and have a few good dates, but all this unsuccessful dating wears you out. I'm a playa, but I miss my old relationship before i ruined it. I rather that than 100 leftover women.

A lot of us would rather die lying than to be honest and say my life isn't tht great, I want a life partner. Most will lie and say "I choose to be single or I could've been married" Lying like a Mfer.

Women lie the most. They hoist their career, degrees and travels up in the air as if that's all they need. But after the brunches and happy hours and social / networking events are over and after the last like of the pics she posted on the gram, they have to take it back to that cold ass house and bed. You ever wonder why these women have to be doing something everyday and every weekend? For them to chill at home is like a prison sentence, they need some adventure. This is why. A house is not a home, we it's one person in it.

Single people out here struggling with student loans, trying to look successful with a nice car and crib. Mortgage alone beating our azz. You know we got to travel and dine out for IG too.

Single life is cool for about a year.

Take it from an old dog like me, if you got a good mate make it work. You don't want to be back out here in this dating game.

Covid showed you that