Most Single People over 30 are Sad, Broken, Broke and Lonely, but we put up a good front.

[Ezekiel 25:17]

a bad relationship is worse than being alone. A relationship is only worth it if you have a good partner.

Also being single means that you can dedicate more time to your health and wealth. You can spend your money how you want to.

Dating sucks yes but you can focus on yourself

There's pros and cons to both. A bad relationship can be devastating. How many dudes are eating Ketchup sandwiches because of child support?

Lose your kids, lose your house, and lose your 1/3 of your income. Not to be paranoid, but what are the downsides of being single? Maybe become an alcoholic and still run the streets because of no responsibilities?

 

[Wildhundreds]

The majority of the population do not care about data or statistics.

Data and statistics aren't etched in stone. You can actually move the needle of you choose too. Did you know that?

 

[Top Left]

Inshallah I’ll have 3 wives and 12 children. This the dream

 

[rabbid]

"I've carried the weight of my loneliness for long enough. Now I must push this negativity off onto others to lighten the load."

smh

 

[Robbie3000]

@Stuntone What do you mean we? I thought you were happily married with kids?

 

[Stuntone]

Be old and lonely. Get sick and have to beg your siblings and friends to come help whip your azz.

 

[Stuntone]

The only happy single people are the ones that just got out of a bad relationship. But usually after being in the dating game a few month, they realize their relationship wasn't so bad.

 

[The Radiant One]

"Statistics" says different.

Because most people so I don’t think statistics mean anything about good financial habits you do know the avg black family has a net worth ( so subtracting credit card debt and student debt)

Single Black men's median wealth was $10,100, compared to Single Black women's median wealth of $1,700.

If you a childless breh and not on child support you should be trying to save up for a house and bam you are on a fast track to wealth

 

[Wildhundreds]

Be old and lonely. Get sick and have to beg your siblings and friends to come help whip your azz.

And from what im currently seeing, they don't help much. Parents raising little kids to be demons, not knowing those same kids will be the ones who maybe looking out for you when youre old. And as far as siblings, depending on how your relationship was with them growing up, they may sh*t on you when you need them most. How people conduct themselves from day to day, will play a large factor on how they'll be treated when they begin to need other people..

 

[Houston911]

You can look at a title alone and know it’s from stuntone

 

[The Radiant One]

Be old and lonely. Get sick and have to beg your siblings and friends to come help whip your azz.

I’m a doctor and I work with a lot of nursing homes if you think how the economy is going that your kids or wife can take care of you when you’re demented you are in for a rude awakening

You better be exercising three times a week get your blood pressure under control and have a group that you can hang out with

 

[desjardins]

You can tell they are miserable just off the stuff they argue about online. Both sides, men and women, lowkey tell on themselves and how bad they are in relationships constantly talking down on the other gender

Funny thing is people will act like they're so happy being single and constantly hate on the opposite gender and all that shyt goes out the window when they fall in love and get booed up .

In real life I don't be in people business that much to see them hating necessarily but seen how down bad women are doing by the level of excitement they show when I start talking to them. Begging me to meet family and friends damn near on the second date like sis you really been missing companionship out here and just getting all that pent up stress out the moment you meet a quality dude

 

[Wildhundreds]

Because most people so I don’t think statistics mean anything about good financial habits you do know the avg black family has a net worth ( so subtracting credit card debt and student debt)

Single Black men's median wealth was $10,100, compared to Single Black women's median wealth of $1,700.

If you a childless breh and not on child support you should be trying to save up for a house and bam you are on a fast track to wealth

Do single people talk about these things when dating? And if they do, are they discussing solutions?

 

[Micky Mikey]

No surprise. Us humans need each other. We're meant to have flourishing romantic relationships. With that said being in a bad and toxic marriage/relationship is worse than the loneliest days you'll have as single person. Being with the wrong person can wear you down emotionally and mentally to the point where you no longer know who you are anymore.

I've been in a toxic relationship and it significantly aged me. I lost all my hair and now have a permanent tired look to my face.

 

[The Radiant One]

Do single people talk about these things when dating? And if they do, are they discussing solutions?

I talk about finances after a few dates. You live different not having a car payment and not paying credit cards.

Yes I lived like a college student and I forwent dating for some time but I came back to the dating scene with my ish together