No career
No car
No house
No dog
No brunch / happy hour
No travels
No degree
Can't compare to coming home to a beautiful peaceful wife cooking you dinner or a good solid man that has the cars wash, grass cut, screen door closing correctly.
We single people put up a front online and on social media, like our lives are great, it's not. We have fun on weekends and have a few good dates, but all this unsuccessful dating wears you out. I'm a playa, but I miss my old relationship before i ruined it. I rather that than 100 leftover women.
A lot of us would rather die lying than to be honest and say my life isn't tht great, I want a life partner. Most will lie and say "I choose to be single or I could've been married" Lying like a Mfer.
Women lie the most. They hoist their career, degrees and travels up in the air as if that's all they need. But after the brunches and happy hours and social / networking events are over and after the last like of the pics she posted on the gram, they have to take it back to that cold ass house and bed. You ever wonder why these women have to be doing something everyday and every weekend? For them to chill at home is like a prison sentence, they need some adventure. This is why. A house is not a home, we it's one person in it.
Single people out here struggling with student loans, trying to look successful with a nice car and crib. Mortgage alone beating our azz. You know we got to travel and dine out for IG too.
Single life is cool for about a year.
Take it from an old dog like me, if you got a good mate make it work. You don't want to be back out here in this dating game.
There a river a block from me .. I go fishing every morning.. so peacefulman...yall gotta get some hobbies.....
porn and video games is not enough
get outside into the sun and do something
Yeah no need to get married to find the right person for you. Although, my girl makes more money than me, so it would even be more riskier for her to get married to me, just how I like itfukk this negative shyt. I had a fukked up marriage and was counting down the days until my divorce was finalized like a prisoner waiting for his release date
I enjoy and prioritize my freedom now, peace of mind is priceless
I choose the single life with its bullshyt and ups and downs over being yoked to a toxic partner 100% of the time.
Also I'm an introvert and keep to myself. Just this past Friday I went to see Air by myself, not giving a single fukk.
I don't know about anyone else but I actually enjoy my company and doing what I want for dolo. I like being me.
Point and laugh at the dude minding his business enjoying a movie? Whatever.
I have a girlfriend, we're good. We're also both divorced and on the same GMB page.
Dudes cape for marriage not realizing marrying the wrong woman will take years off your life and fukk your mental, physical, and financial health. D
Hard pass, FOH.
good shyt...There a river a block from me .. I go fishing every morning.. so peaceful
Gotdamn you make it sound like people over 30 and single are sentenced to death…
Their are good women.. thecoli is only social media I have no fb/twitter/ig etcgood shyt...
these cats gotta stop taking women so serious..99% of them arent worth the hastle