It's sad because I'm black, I didn't choose it but I love nearly everything about it. Could do without the racism and shyt directed at us but it has forced me to be a more focused person in my lifetime. I HAVE to be on point when it comes to shyt, no slacking. I hate that I do have a bit of some Uncle Ruckus in me as I get older as well. I'm sorry, I look at nikkas with dreads like 2 chainz and just think that they aren't going to get to do anything that can hold down a family with their lives.
As I said in another thread, it comes down to education and family life. I was talking to my best friend yesterday and his girlfriend was like, I can't be around white people. Not to say that this is desirable but why the fukk not? Not saying that you need to assimilate to them but you will more than likely need to interact with them to be successful in this world. Is it because you don't feel confident in how you speak to them and know that you will be judged? Could be a litany of reasons but most, if not all are bullshyt. We go back to blaming 'the white man' too much because far too many of us want shyt handed to us. He was pissed off at this way of thinking. She does some type of adult day care and complains all the time. My boy hit her with the, you need to wonder how it came to this for you if you are spending your day smelling cat piss and feces. What the fukk when wrong?
Be honest with yourselves, if someone were available at a job, regardless of job type and what you do, friends and family in need of a better position, how many could you trust 100% to put your name and credibility on the line? I know a ton of people but I only need one hand to accomplish this. I grew up in a single parent household in Detroit to get to where I am today. I'm in my office right now and I have a secretary fielding calls for me and putting faxes on my desk in my office.
My point is this, we know how the world is going and if you can't even graduate from what is expected of you (high school) I don't think I can trust you to have the drive for much else in life and I damn sure ain't putting my neck out there like that for you.