My Father Passed and Left Us Nothing
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Smokin Rider
I been official
My aunt passed in January without a will. I didnt expect nothing or want nothing, what I didnt expect was for my grandma and mom to give my bum of an older brother her 400k house and the rest of us nothing. Funny thing is I offered to take over the mortgage put myself and them on the deed for when it sells. Now Im irritated cause I'm the only one of my siblings who has been independent, my older brother 45 years old and still lives with my mother while making 10k a month living rent free at my mom's house cause he a weirdo.
My wife did not receive anything after her father passed either. Though, I warned her that would be the case since he felt she was already well off compared to her younger siblings. Sometimes people hand off inheritances not to those who deserve it the most, or would do the best with it, but to those who they deem need it the most.
"It is what it is"
If he was dealing with an estate, I don't think he'd mistake the two words.
My instincts are telling me that it is one of those stories someone trying to kick knowledge creates.
He said he never has done it before, so yes he could mix up the words. You can't assume he has the vocabulary fully understood, just because the position was handed to him. He also could have mixed up being the beneficiary of the policy he purchased on his father too.
Edit: I will state clearly why I see it being possible. It is because I have seen it for myself, multiple times. Similar situations, similar arguments, similar payouts. The requirements the father had are novel, but not unique at all.
Smokin Rider
I been official
That "is what it is" hits cause when I told people about it they felt bad but I don't know if Im entitled to feel any type of way but I tell them the same phrase. I dont want to profit off death of those I love. It just hurts cause in the last year I seen my cousin get paid 250k off my grandma's death when he aint show to the funeral, and my auntie was close so that stung. I live paycheck to paycheck, barely surviving in this climate. My older brother been a golden child and is doing well, especially living at home so long as a grown man. My sister told me that auntie always said when she passed that she was giving all of her money to her sisters kids(us 4 siblings), I told her auntie never wrote a will so don't expect nothing, I don't expect a red cent. But I didn't expect this. It is what it is indeed bro
Nah. People throw that line out to cover up anything they're trying to bullshyt their way through. Like who even feels the need to specify that they haven't handled a trust before. Unless it is their profession, it is what most people would expect.
People do shyt like that to handwave the inconsistencies in their story. And it is not the story I find unbelievable, it is him.
Yapdatfool
Superstar
My dad died and left with no will and no life insurance, but left me with a pension to dish out to his other kids.
I cant title my video 'my father passed and left us nothing' cause he did.
He got a will and was left as a trustee on a life insurance policy, that is not 'my father passed and left us nothing' type activity.
His dad left directions on who gets what and a insurance policy to do it with.
My kids get the money, that's not 'my father passed and left us nothing' to me.
Video title and video content are 2 different things.
I cant title my video 'my father passed and left us nothing' cause he did.
He got a will and was left as a trustee on a life insurance policy, that is not 'my father passed and left us nothing' type activity.
His dad left directions on who gets what and a insurance policy to do it with.
My kids get the money, that's not 'my father passed and left us nothing' to me.
Video title and video content are 2 different things.
Why do you find him unbelievable and not the story? Is it his appearance or misuse of vocabulary?
I told you why I find him unbelievable. I am not going to repeat myself, but I will add to it.
The sensationalist title is another reason. "My father put his legacy in a trust with terms" is accurate but he didn't go with that because it catches less eyes than the inaccurate "My father left us with nothing". Right off the bat, he's shown himself to be a dishonest attention seeker.
I disagree, because he and his siblings were left with nothing, then he explained why. Instead, the money would go to their children if they meet his father's requirements. It is pretty simple in my opinion. Also him taking out a policy on his father, and his siblings being upset he is not going to share the payout with them is also very much a normal occurrence.
As they say, a sucker is born every minute.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
How's your brother a bum if he's making $10k/month? Thats more than 80% of the country. Him still living with mom is weird but that's really it.
You went to this insult, just because I disagree with you? How pitiful of you. Maybe you can't believe it, because you have no experience seeing it. I have seen this play out, multiple times.
Givethanks
Superstar
I gotta relative that did that to their kids, didn't leave nothing. One child needed a car, their spouse said nah kept it. Another wanted their jewelery, their spouse said it was pawned because they needed money and the next one, said fukk it when they heard about the death.
Stop pushing people to have kids, because God knows enough people shouldn't have them
Stop pushing people to have kids, because God knows enough people shouldn't have them