My friends are all moving in with their gf's... We're only 23

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Settling down is a large part of adulthood and many people choose to do so in their 20s (nothing wrong with doing it in your 30s either). You have to also understand that the longer you wait the more people tend to have baggage (divorces, children, ect) and the pickins are slim. Whereas in your 20s everybody is still learning and growing and the baggage is usually less or nonexistant.


Now, about this party lifestyle you speak about. Some people dont care to be out there like that. They party when they party and then dont when they dont. They give no fukks about it. Now I partied for years and then I stopped. :manny: shyt got old after a while.

Maybe you and ya boys can try to do some of the same shyt (minus slay females) that ya'll used to even if it is at a lower frequency. :yeshrug:

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marriage rates are dropping to an all time low, even the age most people get married is nearly 30 for a male and 26 for a female now.

there are countless of women out there who are single and childless,stop condoning ratchetness and trying to make men think damn i gotta wife this divorcee single mom with 3 kids cuz there are no single women out there with no kids.
 

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marriage rates are dropping to an all time low, even the age most people get married is nearly 30 for a male and 26 for a female now.

there are countless of women out there who are single and childless,stop condoning ratchetness and trying to make men think damn i gotta wife this divorcee single mom with 3 kids cuz there are no single women out there with no kids.

I dont condone shyt. People should do what they want and marriage or being in a relationship isn't always on their list of things to do. :manny:. However, in pertains to OP's friends, they are clearly about that life.
 

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What is the typical male response?:mjpls:

Typical male response should be: Different people do different things, because people are different.



It's baffling how some of you nikkas claim to "live your lives", yet you obsess over analyzing other nikkas lives so much. Just do you and let that, non p*ssy getting, fat boy, who's gonna want to divorce his chick once he hits 35+, do him.

Some of you nikkas act like bytches. Complaining and shyt.

:smh:
 

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Settling down is a large part of adulthood and many people choose to do so in their 20s (nothing wrong with doing it in your 30s either). You have to also understand that the longer you wait the more people tend to have baggage (divorces, children, ect) and the pickins are slim. Whereas in your 20s everybody is still learning and growing and the baggage is usually less or nonexistant.


Now, about this party lifestyle you speak about. Some people dont care to be out there like that. They party when they party and then dont when they dont. They give no fukks about it. Now I partied for years and then I stopped. :manny: shyt got old after a while.

Maybe you and ya boys can try to do some of the same shyt (minus slay females) that ya'll used to even if it is at a lower frequency. :yeshrug:

Getting married at 35, my chick will be around 24.
 

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Typical male response should be: Different people do different things, because people are different.



It's baffling how some of you nikkas claim to "live your lives", yet you obsess over analyzing other nikkas lives so much. Do you and let that, non p*ssy getting, fat boy, who's gonna want to divorce his chick once he hits 35+, do him.

Some of you nikkas act like bytches. Complaining and shyt.

:smh:
Im complaining because I want my friends to do blow and get into trouble with me
 

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yup

the girl im marrying in the future is probably in grade 8 now


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Many young men feel so lucky the first time a halfway-decent chick pays any attention to them and they try to lock her in without considering what will happen if they just wait a few years. Can you do this without my looking over your shoulder all the time? Do you need a rule of thumb that will make it easy for you to know when, if ever, you can finally "settle down" with one of these broads? I'll keep it simple:

Your future ex-wife hasn't even been born yet.

That's right. If you are 21, you are too young to get married or move in with anyone because when you have more money and success (no matter how much or how little money and success you end up with, it will be more than you have today), the younger, hotter chicks that you can't get now will be coming your way. And today's hot chicks who ignore you are tomorrow's dried-up has-beens. You want to get with their daughters, not them. Your goal is to be 42 and be with a 20-year-old. And, you see? If you are 21, you have to wait until she is conceived, born, and grows up, and that process hasn't even begun for the chick you want to end up with yet.

Don't marry or move in with anything or anyone until then because living with chicks costs you money and time. They usually want to have children which will require you to pay (or hide from the law) forever. If you insist on having children, you have years of fukking around and building up your career and traveling to get in before you do that. And, unlike chicks who, if they wait too long, can produce nothing but tards (think Sarah Palin) and then run out of eggs around your mom's age, you can start having kids any time you like. We are living until an average of 82 these days, so what's the rush to begin procreating or having unnecessary responsibilities?

What will you do in the meantime? You will bang chicks your own age when they're available, but you will avoid commitment or emotional feelings. When you feel yourself starting to care about a chick, you will have the discipline to ice her and move on to the next victim. You will bang older chicks who, in some delusional way, think of themselves as cougars or such. You will avoid having anyone move into your place, even as a temporary measure while they "look for a place," etc. You will only pay for things that improve your own standing such as college tuition, books, savings and investments. You will not buy gifts, flowers, teddy bears, cars, cell phones, clothing, or anything for a chick that improves her standing at the expense of yours.

Today is the day you will start. Keep Your Professor informed on your progress.
 

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maybe this is what they want. it'd be pretty gay of them to go out and have sex with different women when they don't want to all in the name of pleasing you. some people, men included, prefer relationships.
 

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My homies the same. I'm 24, my homie 24, another two are 23 and the last two are 26. Out of the two oldest ones, one is engaged and a step daddy to some 32 year old broad's kid and the other is engaged with a kid on the way.


I'm happy for them but, they bagged way badder broads growing up. fukk it, them bytches is beat :huhldup: but, they my brothers. I love em. Maybe they happy, I dont know :manny: Just seems like they settled because its the best they could get because they aint really doing that well out here. I could never tell them that without losing a friendship but, I wished they took their 20s to build themselves, their career, saw the world, enjoyed being free.......like normal muthafukkas are supposed to do......then find the woman for you when you 29, 30, 31 and got your shyt all the way together :jawalrus:
 
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