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This. Imagine putting in all that work just to give another random nikka a head startSwinging is a raw deal for man
How am I gonna spend time courting this girl, proving my worth... just to give her a way to another man to fukk her... and risk her catching feelings![]()
Yet you didn't have the confidence to tell him he was moving like a clown?that's my lifelong boy tho, He can talk to me about anything and vice versa
I know what your talking about. a homie i know used to be in something like that. its like a secret sexual shadow world type thingI’m too selfish to be a swinger. But I hear from some of my more successful associates that they have these clubs for men of means (basically discrete sex club). I’d join one of those. But I’m not a man of means yet. Honestly it seems like they determine the “means” by age and position. Most of them seem to have some type of government position of influence. Not talking about the F&M Masonic lodge but something a bit different. But a lot of brothers of “influence”. Not necessarily wealthy
But they go to it and like discrete escorts and women who are discrete come through no phones cameras etc. And you have to be “interviewed”. I guess it’s really just a sex club but you can’t just bring anyone there. But they have men and women involved. And switch locations.
It’s not the masons and eastern stars it’s a different organization but they “donate” to local events and do different things for the city and area.
waiting for somebody from swingerforum.com to come thru and say this man ran off with his whole threaddo yall not know who op is....?![]()
I feel what you saying, but I've learned people in that "lifestyle" are completely good with swapping off their Wife/girlfriend.Yet you didn't have the confidence to tell him he was moving like a clown?
do yall not know who op is....?![]()
I think it's coo if you got a fukk buddy but that's like your fukk buddy gf and yall go out n swing. I'm down with that. WIFES ARE OFF LIMITS AND THAT WAS A STUPID MOVEMy Homeboy got married, had a beautiful family, beautiful home, and everthing that comes with it. Him and his wife were "Swingers". And he always tell me the issues about his relationship, good or bad.
During their marriage, he started having sex with a "Unicorn" as he called her, without his Wife's knowledge, now this unicorn was also having sex with my Homie and his Wife pretty regularly....My Homie and his wife stated having marital problems, wife eventually found out he was banging ole' girl on the side and she didn't know about it....so that was kinda the last straw for her and they divorced.
After getting divorced, my Homie jumped right into a serious relationship with the Unicorn....and when he told me this, I must admit, I thought he was a foul ni99a for that LOL...i didnt tell him that but thats what im thinking in my head.
All the while he telling me these stories about how him and his girl be swinging, they met up with other couples, they may hang out, go to a social event, bowling or something, and then at the end of the night, they all swap partners yada yada yada.
Now recently he has been very concerned that his newer chick is now "cheating" on him, and we talked about it in detail, and all the lies he has caught her in , and how she has disappeared for extended amounts of time....and again I'm thinking to myself "Brehh of course she cheating, yall Mfz are swingers, and y'all got together on some foul chit, so of course, she aint gonna be loyal to you"
After hearing all his stories....I know I'm not built for that Swinger life. I just couldn't hand my Woman that i married to another Man to fk and then send her back to me