My Homeboy lives a swinger lifestyle and these are some of the problems associated with it.

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Yea man.

every couple I know who’ve gotten involved with that swinger lifestyle it never last and always ends on some sloppy shyt.

I’m not built for sharing / swapping…:scust:


Being naked in a room with another grown ass man is gay as fukk to me anyway. I don’t care how
Many women are In the room.

Im ALWAYS the only man…


And I’m never compromising on that shyt:usure:
I like to fukk em in the ass while he beat up the p*ssy- BIRDMAN :birdman:
 

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Your homeboy got in it for all the wrong reasons and had no idea how to handle it. A swinger/poly relationship is not a convenient replacement for a monogamous relationship with benefits. These relationships require even more unbridled trust, transparency and honesty than monogamous ones. Being a swinger is not a clever excuse to cheat. He had a woman who was down for all types of shyt while still providing a relationship to just him and he couldn't just respect that. Did exactly what all women who are open to this are scared of, snuck around with one of their "partners." Both of whome she trusted. Pathetic. Homeboy ain't look for a swinger relationship he just don't wanna be alone and don't wanna seek help for his real issues. He can have the sex life he wants without committing to a relationship--swinging or otherwise--and then cheating anyway.
 
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What’s the point in getting married if you’re going to swing?

Exactly.

Swinging would be fun if you're young 20-somethings just dating and it's not that serious. Y'all ain't getting married but the guy and girl have good sexual chemistry.

Breh can use the fine broad to attract other fine swinger broads. His gf can go smash whoever while he smashes some swinger milfs and shyt.

Once you get married, that shyt won't hit the same. Gets too risky.

Also.....you gotta make sure ol girl is protecting herself because if she turns up pregnant :francis::picard:....gon be on some Maury shyt.

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Yea man.

every couple I know who’ve gotten involved with that swinger lifestyle it never last and always ends on some sloppy shyt.

I’m not built for sharing / swapping…:scust:


Being naked in a room with another grown ass man is gay as fukk to me anyway. I don’t care how
Many women are In the room.

Im ALWAYS the only man…


And I’m never compromising on that shyt:usure:
Insecure of your little teeny weeny PeePee.. Oh Dear.

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My Homeboy got married, had a beautiful family, beautiful home, and everthing that comes with it. Him and his wife were "Swingers". And he always tell me the issues about his relationship, good or bad.

During their marriage, he started having sex with a "Unicorn" as he called her, without his Wife's knowledge, now this unicorn was also having sex with my Homie and his Wife pretty regularly....My Homie and his wife stated having marital problems, wife eventually found out he was banging ole' girl on the side and she didn't know about it....so that was kinda the last straw for her and they divorced.

After getting divorced, my Homie jumped right into a serious relationship with the Unicorn....and when he told me this, I must admit, I thought he was a foul ni99a for that LOL...i didnt tell him that but thats what im thinking in my head.

All the while he telling me these stories about how him and his girl be swinging, they met up with other couples, they may hang out, go to a social event, bowling or something, and then at the end of the night, they all swap partners yada yada yada.

Now recently he has been very concerned that his newer chick is now "cheating" on him, and we talked about it in detail, and all the lies he has caught her in , and how she has disappeared for extended amounts of time....and again I'm thinking to myself "Brehh of course she cheating, yall Mfz are swingers, and y'all got together on some foul chit, so of course, she aint gonna be loyal to you"


After hearing all his stories....I know I'm not built for that Swinger life. I just couldn't hand my Woman that i married to another Man to fk and then send her back to me
Breh is not a swinger and is not living the swinger life.

First off, if you're sleeping with someone else and not 100% honest with your partner, you're just a cheater. You're not swinging. Even if you are swinging but cheating also, you're still just a cheater. Every other move after that, is the result and actions of a being a cheater. Wifing up a unicorn? Her being nothing more than a cheater. No stories about actual swing events and parties..


Real swinging is about honesty. You can come home and tell your wife about fukking 3 hoes at the same time and she want to pull out the vibrator and cum to the thought. She show you pics of her other man and how he bottoms out in her p*ssy and you kiss her on the cheek and tell her show you the video.

Not hiding and lying and sneaking and cheating.
 
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