My Homeboy lives a swinger lifestyle and these are some of the problems associated with it.

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This is the same breh telling :duck: about knowing 2pacs people in the booth and posting stolen stories about them

People can evolve but there's no reason to believe these out-of-the-ordinary situations from a known:duck:
 

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Women are naturally hypergamist. Men created Monogamy to keep the coochie to themselves because of this. The avg woman would be ok with sharing if presented right
 

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I've been in open relationships slash getting three somes with certain girls..and the issue always is doing something without the other person's knowledge cause it makes them look dumb. But because most people about that life have multiple interests some of whom wouldn't be appreciated by the other.. end up showing discretion and not say anything then get busted.

You can either be very truthful with your partner or you can agree to not be in your feelings and look away. Mine was easier cause she was smashing mostly chicks. But I didn't appreciate it when the girls were scheming on doing it with her without me knowing. Also she started bringing me not so hot girls :mjcry:
I dated a bi chick before, and it was the most stressful relationship in my life filled with turmoil......It's one thing to slick worry about what random dude trying to holla at your girl, but it's a whole nother level of stress and mind games when you have to worry about dudes and chicks trying to get at your girl, esp when you know she is already naturally attracted to both sexes. We dated a long time ago and I told myself I would never be in another serious relationship with a Woman who was Bi

I'm just not built for that life
 

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Not swing related but more of the "situation" we met in..


Had a shorty I met.. foine asf :banderas:


She was on the "outs" with her baby daddy but they still lived together.. so "technically" still together..

Fell for shorty HARD :noah:


She kept it a buck..

Was like.. you knw we can't be together right... look at how we met.. you wouldn't trust me if we got into a fight .. and I would think (she saying this) you are cheating on me because you think im cheating on you..

:jbhmm::patrice:


She was right :manny:
 

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My Homeboy got married, had a beautiful family, beautiful home, and everthing that comes with it. Him and his wife were "Swingers". And he always tell me the issues about his relationship, good or bad.

During their marriage, he started having sex with a "Unicorn" as he called her, without his Wife's knowledge, now this unicorn was also having sex with my Homie and his Wife pretty regularly....My Homie and his wife stated having marital problems, wife eventually found out he was banging ole' girl on the side and she didn't know about it....so that was kinda the last straw for her and they divorced.

After getting divorced, my Homie jumped right into a serious relationship with the Unicorn....and when he told me this, I must admit, I thought he was a foul ni99a for that LOL...i didnt tell him that but thats what im thinking in my head.

All the while he telling me these stories about how him and his girl be swinging, they met up with other couples, they may hang out, go to a social event, bowling or something, and then at the end of the night, they all swap partners yada yada yada.

Now recently he has been very concerned that his newer chick is now "cheating" on him, and we talked about it in detail, and all the lies he has caught her in , and how she has disappeared for extended amounts of time....and again I'm thinking to myself "Brehh of course she cheating, yall Mfz are swingers, and y'all got together on some foul chit, so of course, she aint gonna be loyal to you"


After hearing all his stories....I know I'm not built for that Swinger life. I just couldn't hand my Woman that i married to another Man to fk and then send her back to me
I have a relative that does the swingers/mansion party life

Their logic never makes sense. Especially as it pertains to commitment lol
 

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He lost me at “unicorn”.

This made me flash back to the thread the other day ago talmbat
“men don’t have a lot of close friends”; maybe this is why in my case.
I got a lot of homies, but we don’t be talmbat our sex lives and chit like this
with each other - some chit is okay to keep to yourself.
I would tell this dude to get a journal like Doug Funnie out dis bytch...
 

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Im not really that into that shyt .Its kinda big here in my city though.Its to thr point were if Im alone at a bar in a mixed environment Im very cautious if a couple starts a convo.
I live in the pacific northwest where it is rampant. Had to learn very quickly when I moved here that if a couple engages me at a bar and the wife is flirting like crazy and the husband is partially aware, there is some kind of swinging/cuckoldry going on. It is nothing but a tease in the end.
 

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fukked some white housewife few months ago who husband use to “cuck” her and got in his feelings and stopped but she still had that itch matched on tinder and before I cracked told me the truth how she was married and use to be “swinger/cuck” but husband cut it off so now she going behind his back..for what its worth after I fukked she said she felt guilty and fell back :yeshrug::pachaha:
Did the same thing a few summers ago. It sucked too bc she was not good in bed imo, maybe bc she was so nervous. Oh and she wasn't going behind his back. It was her first time stepping out and her husband was some really nice Indian engineer who went to Michigan. I met him once by accident after me.and the girl messed around. I shouldn't have did that :snoop:. Nothing bad happened other than a few very awkward moments seeing her a few times afterwards at random events in the city I was living in at the time. God that sucked.
 

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Did the same thing a few summers ago. It sucked too bc she was not good in bed imo, maybe bc she was so nervous. Oh and she wasn't going behind his back. It was her first time stepping out and her husband was some really nice Indian engineer who went to Michigan. I met him once by accident after me.and the girl messed around. I shouldn't have did that :snoop:. Nothing bad happened other than a few very awkward moments seeing her a few times afterwards at random events in the city I was living in at the time. God that sucked.
she was pawg or Indian?
 
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