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MY HOMIE JUST GOT 6 MONTHS FOR NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT
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even after reading this horrific thread, nikkas still ain't trying to marry/move in with/be serious with their baby momma's
It's sad isn't it?
That's what this "phucked up system" they complain about is designed to encourage.
Yet still... Niccas are bussin in anything, and running from commitment like its the KKK.
I Stop reading after this. Bet you give a pass to the female that puts her kid in the room while sucking a nikka off right... The shyt I've seen single moms get away with
The problem with this is... Dead beats don't want to spend more holidays and time with the kids.
They pick the kid up, and drop them off over their mothers house (the grand mother) and run the streets.
Deadbeats... Not good fathers. I'm not downing GOOD FATHERS who may fall on hard times.
The problem is usually communication a lot of times.
And most mothers don't go to court out of spite, or whatever you said.
They go to court, because they baby father is being INCONSISTENT and are making their job as a mother more difficult, because they never know when he's gonna come through, so she can't make any plans. Her bills get outta whack, because her baby father contributes when It's convenient for him.
So they go to court to get something in writing that says what he is supposed to give, on what specific date so she doesn't have to argue with him anymore. Because she's tired of arguing with him and having to BEG him to do what he is SUPPOSED to do.
Now, instead of fighting him, he's fighting the courts! Which he will never beat. EVER. It's harder for him, but easier for HER.
That's why it's best to try to maintain a good relationship with your baby mother. AND BE CONSISTENT!
Keep communication open! If you have a hard time. Tell her! Say, I can't give you $50 this week, but I will keep him for you a couple extra days. Sorry.
Something like that...
But dead beats don't do that!
Some of yall may not believe this, but their are some men who stop paying child support cause they are mad at the mother. Notice some of the speak in this THREAD.
"You have to pay HER or else"
You are paying for your child!
They look at it as paying a girl they used to phuck, and not child support! That is THE problem.
Then the men who stop paying child support cause the mother won't fukk them anymore. (Lots of them) Or gets a new boyfriend. They baby father acts like the new boyfriend is supposed to take care of his kids!
Meanwhile, they don't date single mothers cause they don't take care of other nikkas kids.
... that post was meant for brothers that want to be involved but get discouraged for having to jump through so many hoops and having the woman you loved run your name through the dirt and strip you of having any type of a happy life just for the "privilege" to see your own kids. Obviously I wouldn't expect you to understand that.
so if a breh loses his job he deserves to go to jail? I have three kids by the same woman and have been married since I was 19 (im 30 yo) . I thank God everyday I found a black woman that doesn't think like you
Exactly.... If JAIL doesn't scare a bum into being consistent, then nothing else will!
To jail you go.
I don't understand how and good father who pays child support and takes care of their children can have sympathy for men who evade the responsibility.
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I Stop reading after this. Bet you give a pass to the female that puts her kid in the room while sucking a nikka off right... The shyt I've seen single moms get away with
Actually, I do.I said clearly From the beginning, I am talking about dead beat fathers.
Not good fathers who fall on hard times
BIG DIFFERENCE!
And no, I don't support dead beat mothers.
However, I see nothing wrong with a single mother having a personal life!
If the single mother sends the kid to her mothers house, so she can have a date, she's shamed.
If she has company with the kid in the house, she is shamed.
I guess single mothers should STAY single until the child is grown?
Meanwhile the baby father doesn't have to sacrifice his love life, or be judged for having one because he has a kid.
He can date and phuck as much as he wants.
But wants the world to feel sorry for him cause he doesn't want to pay child support for a kid he only has to deal with every other weekend. And every other holiday.
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so if a breh loses his job he deserves to go to jail? I have three kids by the same woman and have been married since I was 19 (im 30 yo) . I thank God everyday I found a black woman that doesn't think like you
Do you fools read post, or just skim through them?
I said clearly.... There is a difference between a dead beat father who evades child support, and a GOOD FATHER WHO HAS FALLIN ON HARD TIMES!
No, I do NOT think a father who lost his job should go to jail.
Child support is according to his income. If he loses his income he should contact the courts and get it changed.
Is it more difficult than that? If so, let me know.
I'm sway. I don't have all the answers for GOOD fathers.
Dead beats can suck a dikk sideways though.
I skimmed through you post just like I ignore yall In real life. My post was obviously for men that want to be involved so why even quote me with that man hate dead beat dad babel? I lI've yall but a real breh takes everything yall say with a grain of salt. And when I say yall i mean women with your mindset not black women
Do you fools read post, or just skim through them?
I said clearly.... There is a difference between a dead beat father who evades child support, and a GOOD FATHER WHO HAS FALLIN ON HARD TIMES!
No, I do NOT think a father who lost his job should go to jail.
Child support is according to his income. If he loses his income he should contact the courts and get it changed.
Is it more difficult than that? If so, let me know.
I'm sway. I don't have all the answers for GOOD fathers.
Dead beats can suck a dikk sideways though.
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i remember back in 2012 when i was at the car wash, N*ggaz seen me with a Mercedes benz,
they was trynna come at me wantin me to go to a party with them, so i could get a female preganant, 1 was askin if i had kids...he was like we ridin with you...
they was trynna come at me wantin me to go to a party with them, so i could get a female preganant, 1 was askin if i had kids...he was like we ridin with you...
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i remember back in 2012 when i was at the car wash, N*ggaz seen me with a benz,
they was trynna come at me wantin me to go to a party with them, so i could get a female preganant, 1 was askin if i had kids...he was like we ridin with you...
what city does shyt like this?
riverside county