My Husband is Ruining My Career (x-post from LSA)

[FluffyCorleone]

bump

 

[Atlrocafella]

What self respecting man let's a woman take care of him

I don't even let females drive me around, whether it's their car or not let alone let them take care of me like I'm some house husband.

 

[Sccit]

SOUND TO ME LIKE SHE SUCKIN THE COWORKER OFF...AND IF SHE DIDNT YET, SHE WILL NOW

 

[Anti-Anime]

I don't think I could live with myself being a stay at home dad. My parents would look at me like "we failed this boy "

 

[BocaRear]

The wife doesn't respect her husband, simple as shyt. She prolly fukkin the co-worker too. When a woman believes she's better than u, she won't respect u. This nikka ain't a real man. He needs to get a job and keep her ass in check. She's obviously looking for people to agree that her infidelity is okay.

 

[Calmye]

Breh my replies are in regards to how the story is told in the OP, you keep adding your own shyt to the story to make your point.

Dude Sounds Like A Loser In The OP Tho

 

[Sharp]

His problem is being faithful. He needs to get him a side chick, maybe 2 or 3. Since she's always at work, he should have time to do him.

No need to trip. She's making the money, so let that bytch work. Do you.

 

[SouljaVoy]

Yeah I don't like that shyt either...... That bytch having late night dinners with another nikka?


See thats why you gotta be the bread winner of the relationship.....

 

[Archangel]

@xFrazier

 

[beenz]

the husband is an insecure bytch

husband need to get a job. cuz u gotta pay the cost to be the boss.

if he starts making bread, then he'll have more confidence and be attractive to other women besides not including his wife.

its one thing for ur woman to make more than you, but its a WHOLE other thing when u ain't working and u totally dependent on her for your livelihood.

 

[Tim Dripcan]

That's how I plan to do things. Let's say I got married at 23 and my spouse and I are making $55,000 a year separately. I would want us to live on one income, and put the other income into savings and invest to produce residual income. So I would want us to wait until I am 26 to start having kids. Hopefully my spouse would make enough for me to be a stay at home mom up until the child is 5 and then when they start kindergarten I start working part time.

sometimes a one income shared between both spouses is not always the answer if both spouses don't come to a mutual respect with each other ( meaning 50/50). trust me the divorce rates in america is horrendous.

 

[Jhoon]

It depends on where my head was. If it was in the clouds with no regards for practical matters as it pertains to my life goals, then why not?

If it was based in reality, then knowing that my desire was to build up a business, stay at home with my kids, and homeschool them; would it have made sense to marry a man who would not be able to provide that?

I didn't have a job when I got married. I had a father who provided me with a certain lifestyle and a business I was trying to grow. So if my husband would have made less than I did....that wouldn't have worked out as far as marriage. I take my goals very seriously; so just as my looks factored into my husbands desire to marry me, his income potential factored into my fathers acceptance of his proposal, and my acceptance as well.

It is what it is.

Would you now like to argue that all black women share my sentiments?

This is where men, just like the women at the turn of the century, start to sleep with the milk woman, mailman, etc. If she is cheating, take her ass to court and get alimony.

 

[Sunalmighty]

He needs a job 1st of all. 2nd, this bytch having dinner and shyt with a male co worker and she acts like the dude not supposed to be pissed. She should be glad she has her life. She feels disrespected because the nicca aint workin though. I couldn't have that.

 

[Sunalmighty]

Nicca a Mr. Mom haha

 

[Arithmetic]

Be insecure brehs

Be a stay at home dad and don't trap out the house brehs