My Husband is Ruining My Career (x-post from LSA)

[Tenchi Ryu]

Flip the script and sounds like a typical Tyler Perry flick.

 

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

If she loses her job because of him..............

 

[agnosticlady]

*takes sip of this Henn*

Look mayne...I have no qualms lettin' a lady know when she gone left.


But I gotsta ride with Sistuh Girl on this one, yo!
Her husband is actin' like a li'l BEEYIYOTCH!

She told him it's only gonna be for a little bit, you gotta ride that mugg out.
Don't be comin' up to the job throwin' a hissy fit, fuccin' up the breadwinners' bread!
What he gonna do if she lose that job?

...and, had the nerve after that to not have washed ALL THESE DAMN DISHES??
Hell naw.

Y'all kill me lol

 

[Queen]

If she loses her job because of him..............

If she loses her job it will be because of her inability to conduct things properly. He didn't just walk in there like a fool for no reason. That's something that builds up based on previous actions and behaviors.

Furthermore, when he did walk in there, instead of dismissing her husband and allowing another man to tell him when he'd be done with his wife, she should have put a smile on her face, said "I'm so glad to see you, we are almost done, do you want some food? Come on, sit down." Instead of allowing it to get to a level of embarrassment.

If your spouse is complaining about you having lunch and dinner with the same person on the regular, then you need to evaluate if it is actually necessary to do so. And afterwards, adjust your behavior accordingly. Your behaviors should not give your spouse any reasons to feel uncomfortable or jealous.

People need to check themselves before they try to blame someone else.

 

[Flay Mayweather]

If the roles were switched it would be okay for the husband to be the main breadwinner

 

[Numpsay]

Are we supposed to assume there isn't more going on with the coworker? She never explicitly said their wasn't. And 9/10 at my job if a male and female at my job are constantly having lunch together they are likely fukking, never fails

 

[Flay Mayweather]

Real talk, this chick is cheating on her husband.

The stay at home dad thing she's furious about is her trying to use him as an excuse for her infidelity

He's a stay at home dad, him being confrontational is for a reason. You dont go to someone's work place without the facts.

Why is a married women having dinner with her coworker?

 

[mcdivit85]

I could never be a stay at home husband! I love making my own money. She works, I work, we cook and clean equally. Two separate accounts and one joint account.

 

[mcdivit85]

It depends on where my head was. If it was in the clouds with no regards for practical matters as it pertains to my life goals, then why not?

If it was based in reality, then knowing that my desire was to build up a business, stay at home with my kids, and homeschool them; would it have made sense to marry a man who would not be able to provide that?

I didn't have a job when I got married. I had a father who provided me with a certain lifestyle and a business I was trying to grow. So if my husband would have made less than I did....that wouldn't have worked out as far as marriage. I take my goals very seriously; so just as my looks factored into my husbands desire to marry me, his income potential factored into my fathers acceptance of his proposal, and my acceptance as well.

It is what it is.

Would you now like to argue that all black women share my sentiments?

No money

Being financed to live a "certain lifestyle" with no means of providing said lifestyle for oneself


Dude set himself for a life full of

Smart move on your part though

Peace

 

[the cac mamba]

I was almost worried this thread wouldn't get racial.

 

[mcdivit85]

I had to go back and give you dap bruh. No one acknowledges this. Black women think they get this job over men because they're smarter and work harder.

Don't open a can of worms breh

Peace

 

[Queen]

No money

Being financed to live a "certain lifestyle" with no means of providing said lifestyle for oneself


Dude set himself for a life full of

Smart move on your part though

Peace

I am very smart.

I'm not sure if you are though as I don't see how you equate building a business with not having a way to eventually provide for myself.

Also, the "no money" thing doesn't even make sense, but I suppose you were raised differently than I was. I didn't say I didn't have money, I said I didn't have a job when I got married.

 

[agnosticlady]

If she loses her job it will be because of her inability to conduct things properly. He didn't just walk in there like a fool for no reason. That's something that builds up based on previous actions and behaviors.

Furthermore, when he did walk in there, instead of dismissing her husband and allowing another man to tell him when he'd be done with his wife, she should have put a smile on her face, said "I'm so glad to see you, we are almost done, do you want some food? Come on, sit down." Instead of allowing it to get to a level of embarrassment.

If your spouse is complaining about you having lunch and dinner with the same person on the regular, then you need to evaluate if it is actually necessary to do so. And afterwards, adjust your behavior accordingly. Your behaviors should not give your spouse any reasons to feel uncomfortable or jealous.

People need to check themselves before they try to blame someone else.

Exactly, she knows what's up

 

[Calmye]

If dude is going to be the female in the relationship he needs to maintain that roll. Storming into an office is fukking retarded and just put any promotion she was going to get on hold for years. This guy is a bytch. Actually any man that feels okay being at home all day cleaning dishes is a bytch.

 

[Numpsay]

If dude is going to be the female in the relationship he needs to maintain that roll. Storming into an office is fukking retarded and just put any promotion she was going to get on hold for years. This guy is a bytch. Actually any man that feels okay being at home all day cleaning dishes is a bytch.

But isn't that exactly what most females would do in this situation?

In fact they would probably do much, much worse.

And everyone should keep in mind we are only hearing one side of this story.