‘My husband refuses to pay my student loans.’ I took out the loans before we were together.

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This is the same as “my wife refuses to sleep with me” divorce is the answer :yeshrug:
 

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Nah, that isn't what you're doing.

When someone's playing devil's advocate, there is an understanding that what they're arguing for isn't likely, reasonable, plausible etc.

When you say shyt like "there is obviously a reason why she doesn’t work" and "she obviously got her degree with the intention of working", you're letting me that is your thoughts on the matter, not embracing a set of conditions for the sake of argument.

Don't be so spineless. If you're going to put on a cape, do it with some dignity.

There appears to be a lot of anger and bitterness in your response. Why is that? Are you someone who regularly gets used by women?
 

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Lmao. Why yall mad that I support my wife and her debts? This is marriage. I been married for 15 years. I would put anything above her, maybe that's how we still happily married tho...yall miserable?


A lot of folk in this thread are going to end up alone based on not wanting to appear like simps.. A girlfriend is not a wife, and folk need to understand that.


We don’t know why the wife hasn’t worked for many years, but obviously the husband is ok with it if they have been married for so long. That is the real question that needs to be answered.
 

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I'm married, my wife has student loans and I do not.

I will not and have not put a dime towards her student loans :hubie:
If she’s working and earning her own money then you are not obligated to unless maybe she asks. However, if you both decided that she would stay at home and take care of the house and kids etc, would you help her?
 

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All these simps in the red remind me why women are the way they are in the West. They LEGIT CANT TAKE Ls, because simpin' dudes reach back farther than 1-3 to snatch the L away for themselves. Reminds me why I largely watch, and stay out the game.

Simps fundamentally stunt the maturation of women as full fledged people and keep them stuck as overgrown kids in their

 

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There appears to be a lot of anger and bitterness in your response. Why is that? Are you someone who regularly gets used by women?

Go to response when people can't handle someone drawing a line in the sand.

"You must be angry", "who hurt you".

:unimpressed:

Put the cape down and grow a backbone.
 

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Go to response when people can't handle someone drawing a line in the sand.

"You must be angry", "who hurt you".

:unimpressed:

Put the cape down and grow a backbone.

What cape? Because I’m not posting something you agree with?
I’m really curious, why is your response full of negativity and bitterness?
By the way I’m not really bothered by negs :umad:
 

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Still think that bytch should be paying her that loan
 

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She can't get him to pay the loans so you know whats next: The house, car, child custody, and false allegations:francis:Vet your woman properly before marriage brehs
 

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Truth be told she needs to get a job if that's the case.

Also I don't like the phrase she can't get him to pay the loans. She should be divorced already if you ask me.
 
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