My mom just passed away brehs

[puppetmaster]

i know exactly how you feel brother.

1. try to be with friends and family right now.
2. GRIEVE. allow it to happen. cry, yell, scream, whatever you need to do. DO NOT BOTTLE UP YOUR EMOTIONS. youll regret it.
3. try to emphasize the good times.
4. live for her moving forward. use this as motivation.
5. console the rest of your family who i am sure are also suffering and allow yourself to be consoled.


mine died 11 years ago due to cancer. it was sudden but i know the feeling bro. PM me if you want to chat.

From personal experience I can't stress enough how important this one is @Anti-Anime . ..Please allow yourself to do this.


My condolences losing a parent is a traumatic experience, deal with it how you need to but like others have said. Stay away from the bottle, there's no answers at the bottom of it.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Sorry for you loss, breh. My friend lost his mom last year and he still struggles with the loss. Allow yourself to grieve but please don't indulge is self destructive behavior during this time. It's not going to be an easy road- surround yourself with those that love her but give yourself space to reflect and grieve in private

 

[DaRealness]

RIP man. Sorry for your loss.

 

[Anti-Anime]

thanks for the comfort everyone. appreciate it

 

[MaccabeanRebel]

Sorry for your loss breh. I know your in a dark space but don't give up. Your mom would not want that. The next few months/years will be tough but thecoli brehs and brehettes got u

 

[ynwa25]

My condolences to you & your family. Please try to take it easy.

 

[Soundbwoy]

My condolences

 

[levitate]

She lives on in you.

 

[Mastamimd]

Sorry man...hold ya head kid

 

[Y2Dre]

Condolences to your family.

Make sure you grieve and cry it out man, don't let that kind of emotion sit in the pit of your stomach and psyche. It will manifest in other unhealthy ways if you don't allow yourself to mourn. Trust me, I know from personal experience.

Surround yourself with people that love you, and don't let the darkness overcome you. It's easy to let that happen if you don't check it.

 

[Athenna]

I'm so sorry breh.. May your mother rest in peace.

 

[Fatboi1]

So sorry to hear that. Rip

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

Speaking from experience breh:

REFRAIN from heavy drinking, being in dark places (lights off in the crib, clubs or bars, ect), indulging in ANY drugs whatsoever, anything remotely negative via social media (that includes here too unfortunately), and seclusion...

You need to be surrounded by GOOD people who simply know how to shut up and allow you to mourn, let it out, scream, cuss, pray, ect...

This journey you are about to embark on is like no other breh...

6 years later, I still have moments...My mother died suddenly as well...

Just last week, I was mad at my wife cause she did some sucker ish...I drove to my mom's grave site (got pulled over en route but got off with a warning...I feel like it was her doing that), arrived in a cold dark cemetery at 2 am and bawled my eyeballs out...Screaming to the top of my lungs because she was the only person who "got me" and had the game for me...I'm married and STILL seek my mother's guiding hand

Don't be like me fam..I've got issues like nobodies business and I'm FINALLY looking into therapy as we speak....Shyt hurts but if handled in a REAL and healthy way, you will be better as time passes...

I'm deeply sorry for your loss and sincerely pray that you can weather this storm breth...Much peace to you and yours...

 

[BiggWebb79]

Wow sorry to hear that, condolences to you and the rest of your family.

 

[FSP]

R.I.P and to the life of your moms