My mom just passed away brehs

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My condolences fam. I can't even imagine how you're feeling right now. All I can say from what some of my close friends have told me that went through this is to not be afraid to grieve & if you have a close circle of friends to talk & lean on them to get you through. Don't be afraid to look for professional help if you feel you need that
 

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Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.


People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.


When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?


For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.


The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.



I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.



Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.



With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.



But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.



Cause and effect. Life and death.



Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.


Stay strong my brotha. Be resilient.



Do it for her....



Do it for you.




Rest In Perfection.







.



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Sorry to hear that op, my condolences and may she rest in peace. I'm sure it's hard for you to deal right now and I have no words that can take away the pain.
 

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Speaking from experience breh:

REFRAIN from heavy drinking, being in dark places (lights off in the crib, clubs or bars, ect), indulging in ANY drugs whatsoever, anything remotely negative via social media (that includes here too unfortunately), and seclusion...

You need to be surrounded by GOOD people who simply know how to shut up and allow you to mourn, let it out, scream, cuss, pray, ect...

This journey you are about to embark on is like no other breh...

6 years later, I still have moments...My mother died suddenly as well...

Just last week, I was mad at my wife cause she did some sucker ish...I drove to my mom's grave site (got pulled over en route but got off with a warning...I feel like it was her doing that), arrived in a cold dark cemetery at 2 am and bawled my eyeballs out...Screaming to the top of my lungs because she was the only person who "got me" and had the game for me...I'm married and STILL seek my mother's guiding hand :mjcry:

Don't be like me fam..I've got issues like nobodies business and I'm FINALLY looking into therapy as we speak....Shyt hurts but if handled in a REAL and healthy way, you will be better as time passes...

I'm deeply sorry for your loss and sincerely pray that you can weather this storm breth...Much peace to you and yours...

that was my mistake. I drank myself stupid for 3 years. Got kicked out of school. generally just became a loser. didnt feel right till about 3 years later.

she was my best friend. :mjcry:

Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.


People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.


When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?


For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.


The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.



I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.



Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.



With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.



But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.



Cause and effect. Life and death.



Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.


Stay strong my brotha. Be resilient.



Do it for her....



Do it for you.



people will try to empathize but yeah, no one can relate unless it happened to them.

i saw my mother shrivel and die over the course of 4 years.

by the end, the cancer had spread to her brain and she couldnt really communicate.

the worst day of my live: i came home from the park to find my mom home alone.
i laid down next to her like i always did and just sat there watching tv. by this point the cancer was spreading to her brain but she was still lucid.

my aunt calls her phone and theyre talking. im not paying attention.

then i hear her say, "wavemolecules? nah hes not home yet."

i was laying right next to her. :to::to:

the cancer was fukking with her perception of reality. i started freaking out, crying, and shaking. grabbed the phone and pleaded with my aunt to come quick that i was here and she wasnt normal.

she came to soon after but it was the first of many incidents like that.

i have never recovered.

cherish your mothers :mjcry:
 

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Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.


People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.


When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?


For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.


The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.



I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.



Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.



With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.



But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.



Cause and effect. Life and death.



Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.


Stay strong my brotha. Be resilient.



Do it for her....



Do it for you.




Rest In Perfection.







.



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Thanks you brother
 
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