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Sorry for your loss....I just got the news she was rear ended on vacation and it was a hit and run. Brehs I'm balling my eyes out I can't handle this right now. How do I cope until I see her?
Sorry for your loss....I just got the news she was rear ended on vacation and it was a hit and run. Brehs I'm balling my eyes out I can't handle this right now. How do I cope until I see her?



Speaking from experience breh:
REFRAIN from heavy drinking, being in dark places (lights off in the crib, clubs or bars, ect), indulging in ANY drugs whatsoever, anything remotely negative via social media (that includes here too unfortunately), and seclusion...
You need to be surrounded by GOOD people who simply know how to shut up and allow you to mourn, let it out, scream, cuss, pray, ect...
This journey you are about to embark on is like no other breh...
6 years later, I still have moments...My mother died suddenly as well...
Just last week, I was mad at my wife cause she did some sucker ish...I drove to my mom's grave site (got pulled over en route but got off with a warning...I feel like it was her doing that), arrived in a cold dark cemetery at 2 am and bawled my eyeballs out...Screaming to the top of my lungs because she was the only person who "got me" and had the game for me...I'm married and STILL seek my mother's guiding hand
Don't be like me fam..I've got issues like nobodies business and I'm FINALLY looking into therapy as we speak....Shyt hurts but if handled in a REAL and healthy way, you will be better as time passes...
I'm deeply sorry for your loss and sincerely pray that you can weather this storm breth...Much peace to you and yours...

Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.
People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.
When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?
For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.
The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.
I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.
Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.
With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.
But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.
Cause and effect. Life and death.
Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.
Stay strong my brotha. Be resilient.
Do it for her....
Do it for you.



Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.
People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.
When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?
For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.
The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.
I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.
Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.
With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.
But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.
Cause and effect. Life and death.
Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.
Stay strong my brotha. Be resilient.
Do it for her....
Do it for you.
Rest In Perfection.
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