Shyt, I cried the first time I saw my mom with grey hair. She is older and her health isn't the greatest...that is my cute lil' mama I don't know what I'd do October will make 10 years since my grandmother passed and I still feel it. She was a soulmate
I teared up a lil reading this bc I realized the things in life that I take for granted. Losing a parent is probably the hardest thing a person could ever go through in life. Rip, bro. Sending my condolences and prayers to you. If you ever need to talk to someone or to just vent send me a pm. Wishing you the best. I'm going to hug my queen today when she comes home from work. ♥
Only people who have lost they moms will know the sorry and agony of losing her.
People aren't very compassionate and empathetic to your situation because they aren't in your shoes to really feel how distraught you are.
When my mom was bed ridden, i told myself; what's worse, dying a slow, imminent death or an instant one?
For her sake? A quick one. So she doesn't suffer.
The downside is that she won't get to disclose her final thoughts and concerns with you.
I feel lucky that i had the greatest person i've ever known care, coddle and nurture me for 32 years.
Last night i looked at her picture and had a flashback... filled with whimsical memories and experiences that i'm glad i was able to share with a once-living angel.
With that said... and i'm not gonna sugar coat it: this is literally going to be the worst time of your life.
But your mother would want you to continue to prosper and enjoy life, as hard as it will become. Celebrate her life and appreciate the idea that she gave you this life.
Cause and effect. Life and death.
Now how you deal with this adversity and overcome is what separates the men from the mice. The pits from the poodles. The captains from the crunch.
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