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I think you already know the answer sis. It's not necessarily an attitude it's more of entitlement thing. Most have never seen real men before. Most families are hard on women and expect them to amount to something whereas they kinda lax on the boys and jus let them do whatever. So they are nurtured more but still feel they have to live up to some fictional idea of what a black woman is. Then throw other women in the mix as their friends with different upbringing and you have a perfect storm. I judge women like I judge people, on an individual basis. There are plenty of soft and gentle black women. I just suck at picking them because they all start out az nice and gentle. You eventually either have to swallow ur pride and put up with bullshyt or be an ain't shyt naga for them to love you. Again I suck at picking them the fault isn't on them it's my judgement. I am the last person that makes generalizations on wide swaths of people. Most jus have an issue with accepting blame and working on themselves to attract what they lookin for.
 

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yeah yall do

10+ page thread...
No one cares about you and those other annoying ass, whiny ass, better, black feminists who just come here because they are angry at the world because someone picked your light-skinned cousin over you. It's not my fault get over it already. Now this topic itself is a whole other story.
 

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I got some rep for you when im off 10s tho.
You're like an enhanced female version of courtdog. You come up with these little scenarios in your head and convince yourself that they are true, post them on here with little to no research on said subject, and when asked to provide facts you turn to personal or made up anecdotal evidence. Even when provided with facts you just casually dismiss them. At this point you're either trolling or you're just really really dumb, for real.
 

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Meh this isn't solely a blk male issue if u wanna be really honest about it. Of course neither blk men OR blk women can take any responsibility for ANYTHING, so it's always gonna be somebody else's fault.

But the average blk man and blk women have lost the ability to choose good mates.

Media has hyped men up too much injecting these fantasies that they deserve a 10 even if they fail at every area of their manhood. Meanwhile women are fed the same bullshyt where they expect quality for giving the bare minimum.

These unrealistic expectations have cause men and women to feel entitled to their own unreasonable preferences in a mate, while resenting the opposite sex for any standards they may have.

It's craziness. But u can't tell a blk man this b/c he'll give u all kinds of fingerpointing and deflection. And u can't tell a blk woman this b/c she'll have all types of excuses and blame games.

Meanwhile u put two average blk people in a room and they'll want everything EXCEPT each other and have a list of excuses ready if you call em on it.
 
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