Need help with my social skills (especially with females)

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when you see a chick, tell her i hope you having a blessed day. those religious sloots love that shyt

 

[WeDemBoyz]

"Hey, how you doin?"
"Hey, I like your style."
"What are you reading?"
"Are you from around here?"
"Hey, I know you, right?" "Do you go to such-and-such school?"/"Do you know so-and-so?" You look familiar, like I've seen you somewhere..."

"Mmm... That smells delicious/Thats making me hungry. Where'd you get that?"
"Hey, are you (Jamaican, Nigerian, an exotical, a model)? You look beautiful, I mean you really stand out."

 

[EVILRICO]

I don't know what the fukk i am doing wrong i can't attract a female for the life of me. This engineering undergrad lifestyle is fukking up my social skills

- i'm jacked and ight in the face but i can't pull single females, a majority of the females i catch looking at me already have a man.
-i have problems making or starting small talking with strangers like i can hold a conversation but only if the other person starts it, i have no idea how to start small talk with a completely random person (especially females)
-there's this cute barista at starbucks and i have no idea how to approach her

any help would be greatly appreciated

They got this wonder pill you can get from the doctor to help you. They are called xanax

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

at you thinking engineering cost you your social skills. If they weren't there before, just accept it breh. You need to be resigned to the fact that some chick is gonna come up off of you shortly after graduation.

true my social skills were never the best but i feel engineering is keeping me from improving it, like i don't have time to since it's always work work work

Till you stop women on pedestal you always gonna struggle talking to them

i don't infact i never do

I'll be back in a lil bit to give you some info to help you out

please do

Get buzzed with liquor more often. It makes you more and easier to holla at women. Sometimes people acknowledge that school sometimes sets your social skills back.

Also hang out with dudes that get broads easy.

i'm trying to do this sober since i'm going to be sober a majority of the time but yah in party setting i let loose and try and get a couple of shots in

That's what happens at edm concerts ppl act like them true selves on drugs. Should of just started grabbing random bytches. Next step is going to festivals

i plan on it edc vegas, ultra, or tomorrowland in the near future

I could actually give you some real advice, but i'm afraid it'll get lost in here amongst the ramble.

nah man please i'm all area, also you rep boston or just surrounding areas? i'm from the northshore

Son:

The main idea of this is - QUIT BEING A BEEYIYOTCH. Sack the fucc up.

- What good is being "jacked and ight in the face" if you ain't gonna use it?
You know who else does that? Women. The baddest broads be like "nobody ever approaches me..."
Don't be a broad.

- @CinnaSlim gave you some good game. Start small talk about what's going on RIGHT THERE
AT THAT MOMENT. That way, it dosn't sound rehearsed. Broads don't wanna hear some chit that
sounds like you said it to every other chick at the spot. They wanna feel special in the moment.

example: I was at the store the other day, and there was this chick working the register who was aight.
Janet Jackson - "Come Back To Me" comes on over the intercom elevator music. Ol' gurl says "I love this song..."
I say "Yeah - this a top 5 Janet song..." and we start talmbat Janet Jackson music...which gets us into DeBarge...
which gets us into the fact (she brings up) that DeBarge is coming to town in a few weeks. She's thinking of going,
but she won't go unless her brothers go because she doesn't want to go to the venue alone. Boom.

That's how you have a good conversation with someone - they say something, and you say something back based
on what they said. Women are humans, too.

sidebar: nicca - if a brizzoad is letting you touch all on her tizznitties and her man ain't trippin', keep doin' it!

Hell - keep doing it even if he is trippin'! Tell him he needs to check his broad, not you...

some good advice, i like the in moment stuff since that looks like it's a great to strike up a conversation quickly

They got this wonder pill you can get from the doctor to help you. They are called xanax

brah i can't be on xannies all the time i need to learn how to do this sober

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

You shouldn't be worried about this shyt. Education comes first. Get your degree and then fukk as many hoes as you want.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

You shouldn't be worried about this shyt. Education comes first. Get your degree and then fukk as many hoes as you want.

nah be having good social skill is difference between getting hired on the spot or not for 100k/yr job

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

nah be having good social skill is difference between getting hired on the spot or not for 100k/yr job

Where are you from?
Were you raised by a foreign single mother?

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

nah be having good social skill is difference between getting hired on the spot or not for 100k/yr job

You don't talk to broads like you talk to potential employers. There is no correlation.

 

[EVILRICO]

Or you can just skip all the small talk and go to the whip it out technique .

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Where are you from?
Were you raised by a foreign single mother?

You don't talk to broads like you talk to potential employers. There is no correlation.

you mf'ers know what know what i'm talking about that last part of the interview where you and the employer start asking questions and what not. that very end is crucial between them hiring you or another candidate with the same qualifications

and no i have both my parents

 

[Wild self]

Sad that STEM education can cost you your humanity and the ability to relate to people. IF you are not natually good at a subject and you doing it for only the money, you going to have a hard life ahead of you, people wise.

 

[Kenny West]

You thinking waaaay too much. Just be present and stop worrying about outcomes. Your fukking it up for yourself

THIS. Seriously the bolded is some of the most important game you could get. Shut off the internal dialogue, root yourself in the moment, don't think ahead, don't second guess yourself and don't worry about the outcome. This was a hurdle for me honestly. You start thinking about what to say, the perfect way to approach, will she even fukk with you and before you realize it you're caught up in your head, and then the moment passes.

You gotta walk into the fire sometimes, just trust yourself and let go. Nowadays if I'm gonna do it I act first and worry about the other shyt later. If I take the first step I just roll with the momentum and somehow the right words come out.

"Hey, how you doin?"
"Hey, I like your style."
"What are you reading?"
"Are you from around here?"
"Hey, I know you, right?" "Do you go to such-and-such school?"/"Do you know so-and-so?" You look familiar, like I've seen you somewhere..."

"Mmm... That smells delicious/Thats making me hungry. Where'd you get that?"
"Hey, are you (Jamaican, Nigerian, an exotical, a model)? You look beautiful, I mean you really stand out."

The bold is a real good one. Especially if the girl has swag.

Son:

The main idea of this is - QUIT BEING A BEEYIYOTCH. Sack the fucc up.

- What good is being "jacked and ight in the face" if you ain't gonna use it?
You know who else does that? Women. The baddest broads be like "nobody ever approaches me..."
Don't be a broad.

- @CinnaSlim gave you some good game. Start small talk about what's going on RIGHT THERE
AT THAT MOMENT. That way, it dosn't sound rehearsed. Broads don't wanna hear some chit that
sounds like you said it to every other chick at the spot. They wanna feel special in the moment.

example: I was at the store the other day, and there was this chick working the register who was aight.
Janet Jackson - "Come Back To Me" comes on over the intercom elevator music. Ol' gurl says "I love this song..."
I say "Yeah - this a top 5 Janet song..." and we start talmbat Janet Jackson music...which gets us into DeBarge...
which gets us into the fact (she brings up) that DeBarge is coming to town in a few weeks. She's thinking of going,
but she won't go unless her brothers go because she doesn't want to go to the venue alone. Boom.

That's how you have a good conversation with someone - they say something, and you say something back based
on what they said. Women are humans, too.

sidebar: nicca - if a brizzoad is letting you touch all on her tizznitties and her man ain't trippin', keep doin' it!

Hell - keep doing it even if he is trippin'! Tell him he needs to check his broad, not you...

 

[DIMES]

you still in undergrad.

Just go at chicks. Go for broke and try to learn something in the process


chicks with lame dudes at their side do the most innocuous flirting in public. no one does more public eyefukking with strangers than a chick with a dude she don't respect

aint nothing more true than this! These chicks always cheat eventually

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

you mf'ers know what know what i'm talking about that last part of the interview where you and the employer start asking questions and what not. that very end is crucial between them hiring you or another candidate with the same qualifications

and no i have both my parents

WHERE...ARE...YOU...FROM?

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

WHERE...ARE...YOU...FROM?

boston damn