Need help with my social skills (especially with females)

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Generally speaking, I like starting conversations based on the setting we're in or whatever task they're doing.
 

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I thought you were a white boy or the sheltered son of a single Nigerian mom, breh. I can tell you're a swagless mark by your posts if you're not trolling.
since when have fatherless nigerians been a stereotype, most nigerians have their parents together including mine
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no swag?:heh: ok then
 
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A;right, here are a few thing to do. This is a rubric and progression of sentences to get you through. " Hello or hey (some form of greeting), my name is insert name here, I saw you from X and I thought that you had a very unique style, or looked very pretty,or were reading an interesting book ( this is done to let her know why you came over and that you noticed her. " Would you mind me asking you your age." ( this lets her know that you are selective about who you pursue and that you are not a r-kelly type). Since you are in Boston, you might also ask her if she is in school. Then ask her if she wouldn't mind exchanging phone numbers to get to know each other better. If there is an exchange then you are on your way. If she declines giving hers and says that she will take yours you have to decide if you are willing to do that. In my single days I always declined and stated that an exchange was the only option for me ( say it more tactfully of course)

This second part is training for you. Write a list of two interesting questions on a sheet of paper-one silly such as Five guys or Four Burger and say that you are conducting an experiment to see if aesthetics match food patronage. And a second more technical question pertaining to your expertise. You will then stop and ask 2 sets of 5 women either one of those questions. Not to get the number but to practice talking to strangers and engaging their attention. Soon you will lose your fear. If the convos go great, then proceed to asking fo an exchange of numbers. If not, so what, you are still doing some desensatising training.
 

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A;right, here are a few thing to do. This is a rubric and progression of sentences to get you through. " Hello or hey (some form of greeting), my name is insert name here, I saw you from X and I thought that you had a very unique style, or looked very pretty,or were reading an interesting book ( this is done to let her know why you came over and that you noticed her. " Would you mind me asking you your age." ( this lets her know that you are selective about who you pursue and that you are not a r-kelly type). Since you are in Boston, you might also ask her if she is in school. Then ask her if she wouldn't mind exchanging phone numbers to get to know each other better. If there is an exchange then you are on your way. If she declines giving hers and says that she will take yours you have to decide if you are willing to do that. In my single days I always declined and stated that an exchange was the only option for me ( say it more tactfully of course)

This second part is training for you. Write a list of two interesting questions on a sheet of paper-one silly such as Five guys or Four Burger and say that you are conducting an experiment to see if aesthetics match food patronage. And a second more technical question pertaining to your expertise. You will then stop and ask 2 sets of 5 women either one of those questions. Not to get the number but to practice talking to strangers and engaging their attention. Soon you will lose your fear. If the convos go great, then proceed to asking fo an exchange of numbers. If not, so what, you are still doing some desensatising training.
damn b lol i'm good, i only needed a reason to strike up a conversation from there i'm good.

Stop trying to help this lame ass nikka.
:wtb::stopitslime::rudy:
 
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damn b lol i'm good, i only needed a reason to strike up a conversation from there i'm good.


:wtb::stopitslime::rudy:
You're still sitting there with no holla...no females. It's good you're getting an education. Focus on that and break off your bread to the first piece of p*ssy that gives you a chance...like a good lame.
 

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You're still sitting there with no holla...no females. It's good you're getting an education. Focus on that and break off your bread to the first piece of p*ssy that gives you a chance...like a good lame.
i only break bread with people i starved with
 
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