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just be honest with yourself, are you really about that casual sex life? if not then stop fukking strangers

either way, write this dude off and start over
casual can be very dangerous for you ma
 

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I used to have a Inspire 4G that had a weak battery and this girl I had just started talking to knew about it. She was on her Facebook on my phone and said damn I almost killed your battery so she knew it was fukked up. Every night my phone would go dead without warning and when I turned it back on I would have texts saying you're just using me, fukk you, lose my number and multiple voicemails in less than 5 minutes. The puss was fan-fukking tastic but her mental issues killed it for me in less than 2 weeks. She did thank me for the good dikk though.:steviej:

Lmao. :snoop:

Yeah, unfortunately all it takes is one dude to enter a girls' life and treat her shytty to make insecurities strong enough that she assumes the worst of all men that come along in the future. But you've got to work on that and your confidence before you can start interacting with someone emotionally or else you're going to be a hot ass mess, like the girl in your situation. :huhldup:
 

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To me it sounds like this dude is a good guy and you don't deserve him. You are fukking crazy from what i read. You judge too quickly (most likely because of what's happend in this past), you can keep holding that shyt and thinking all guys are the same but it's just gonna hurt you. From how you described this dude he wouldn't fukk you talk to you constantly all day for a few days or a week and then just stop talking to you. If he wanted to just leave you he wouldn't have spent all that time talking to you in the first place.
SMFH
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He's playing you.

He told you everything you wanted to hear, and he stops responding as soon as he is in the presence of the next girl! He is probably a single father simply because he cheated on his babymother in the first place.

fukk him anyway why do you care so much about someone you just literally met? Keep it moving. If he messages you then so be it but if you want to keep chasing he is winning.



This, cause the damn near exact thing happened to me. Just met dude in Miami is the difference..& now he's in japan prolly fuggin every chick out there who's throwing it his way... Sorry that he did it to you.
 

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@Luciphen forget about dude, even if he hits you up, don't respond. The last thing we need on this site is a murder/suicide. You fukked up. You went into something you clearly weren't mentally prepared for and now that you've experienced it and totally fukked it up, you need to chalk up that L and move on. Work on your insecurities and knock the importance of sex to you down a few notches if you plan on going down this road again sometime in the near future. If/when you do, make sure to approach with an open but fixed mind as to what you want out of that situation. Whatever the other party says to you in your encounter shouldn't be able to sway you. If you want to pursue something further it needs to be your decision and on your terms. It's never a good idea to go from one extreme to the next. Good luck in your future endeavors.
 

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What do you guys think, and what should I do?[/QUOTE]
:snoop: come on babe.....obviously hes not a good catch....im so anti simpin but fukk it, im gonna give u some game because i dont u to be scorned and too miss out on a man that really like u


sleeping w/ him on the 1st night wasnt the a great move but also its not a deal breaker for a mature dude....u blocking him that quick probably did give him the creeps tho...that was an hyper emotional response

A. either u seem "crazy" and "clingy" to him he dont wanna deal with

B. or he was using u forp*ssy and was willing to pull u on his roster , but since u got emotional he feel like it ins't worth it to smash u some more without trouble


both r smart from a player perceptive(kudos to him)


but from a "good guy " perceptive he wouldve followed through with yall plans and would stop flaking on u......im tired of typing but long story short...u can do much better.....and if u dont believe that ...u wont ever do better when it comes too men


dont mean too sound harsh, but grow a pair...sitting by the phone for that fool is pathetic...move on too a guy that will treat u w/ mutual respect

*cringes @ what i just typed....feeling simppy*
 
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