Need some advice from you men

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I'll reply to what I remember.

I don't come from a fatherless home. My parents are married and have been so for over 25 years.

To all yall calling me crazy, I told him the day we met that I was crazy!! So he was forewarned. He's lucky he doesn't have a car at the moment, cuz them windows would be all types of smashed.

Crazy for no reason :merchant:

Peace
 

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The go-to line :obama:

Its crazy how that line works even months later......and chicks will be on some "oh ok....that makes sense" i.e. "I know you telling me some bullsh#t but I like you, so I'll act like it makes sense" :mjlol:

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EXACTLY :mjlol: its not even that she's hitting me up...its that its a weak ass excuse that she can see through and she still wants me :banderas:
 

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Well, if you are imagining that a woman has had sex with other men, you are thinking about what other dikks have been in her right? It's not like it's a topic of conversation between you two. It's just you speculating about where other men have been.

And no, your post didn't respond to anything in my post. My post is about REALITY. Your post is about SPECULATION. I could see if you said you asked her and she told you she did that all the time, but you literally just said that after you get some p*ssy, you think about other nikkas.

I am saying that you have to be thinking about other men here because the only other alternative is that you don't think you have enough personality, looks, etc. to make a woman want to have sex with you. I did not want to insult your self image, but if you think a woman is a hoe for having sex with you, you can't see yourself as much of catch, correct? For her to be a "hoe" or whatever, you'd have to think you got over on her, played her, and are somehow not "worthy" of her p*ssy. Essentially, you put the p*ssy on a pedestal and put yourself below it.

Either those two things or you're reading "Think Like A Man" and on your Steve Harvey game.

How did i "literally" do that when i clearly said I could be her first time fukking a nikka on the first day and in my mind she still a ho....its simple mathematics to me "fukk on first day=ho)...its automatic to me,dikks aint part of the equation...you asked me a dumb question about "how do i factually know" as if a chick being a ho has ever been fact based:childplease:...ho's is cool people but she is what she is in my eyes....a chick who get a train ran on her is automatically a ho to me to but you might feel different:snoop:...if yall cant handle other people having a different opinion on what a ho is i don't know what to tell yall....im sure yall got your own ideas of what a ho is and guess what?it aint fact based:shaq:...You could ask her how many guys she slept with and she tell you 20,some people would see her as a ho when others wouldn't...But do you breh,you can date all the women i personally consider ho's that you want:whoa:,nikkas do it everyday....Seems like some of yall deal with these types of women and dont appreciate the fact we view them as ho's:pachaha:...SPin it how you want like i got a self esteem problem:mjlol:...and dudes who wife women who are considered ho's are the brave ones:rudy:....but my mind aint changing,i just got an opinion sound like you got an agenda to make yourself feel better:mjpls:...But im the one with low self esteem:laff:?
 

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I coulda told you this wasn't going to work before you even fuucked the dude.

  • You met him on okcupid. As you can see from coli threads...90 percent of the dudes go on there just for sex.
  • You had sex with him first night. I dont care what anybody says. Any respectable man would not want to wife if he got to fuuck first night. Most dudes would not admit that because they are keeping the lie alive.
  • Once somebody plays you dont text them asking why....they played you because they dont respect you. So, if they dont respect you then they wont be honest when they answer you. Just cut them off. I know for females its harder because emotions and all that but if it really bothers you when you have to cut someone off, find a distraction to keep your mind off of that person.
Im not saying, do that stupid "Think Like a Man" and wait 90 days nonsense. I am saying...don't have sex with a man until you KNOW him (as best as you can). Know if he cares about his family, know if hes a liar, know if he is not crazy and then let him fuuck.
I disagree about men not wanting women they fukk in 1 night

I'm pretty sure most if the dudes in relationships fukked the girl they're with in the first night

If both adults want to fukk we to old to be beating around the bush and playing games
 

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Breh, Ion really know what your post has to do with my post. All I'm saying is that when I have p*ssy or when I am with a woman, I am not thinking about other men's dikks. I'm not saying that you have to stop thinking about other men's dikks. It's okay if you want to do that. I am just saying that I personally don't care to think about penises when I'm with a woman.

I'd prefer to just keep my thoughts to my dikk and her p*ssy. :obama:
nikka you forgot to mention that this bytch is crazy.

How you going on occupied looking for sex when you got nikkas in real life and the whole instagram culture.

Something is off about this girl
 

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i think u lost him when you spazzed out about him not calling when he was with his daughter. Now, he could have been fukking another girl. Absolutely. But you hit him with the "im not a hoe", accused of fukking other girls, blocked him on mulitple accounts....you should just let that roll off your sleeve, hit him up the next day to kick it or something. If he gets iffy with you consistently, fukk it, move on. I know that's easier said then done. I've gotten irrationally emotional and pulled some hoe shyt my self. But Ive learned you just gotta keep it moving if these people don't appear to be fukking with you like you fukk with them, especially if things aren't clearly defined as far as where y'all stand relationship wise. Don't just assume some shyt. Talk about it. If its about fukking and chilling, let it be about fukking and chilling.Don't worry about what else he got going until its clear that you wanna be on some exclusive shyt. Then let it be known and go from there.Otherwise, yall together when yall together:manny:


you gotta know who you are. you just out for some dikk and a movie, then own that. if you gone feel like shyt because somebody catch ghost after getting the p*ssy then maybe you dont wanna be doing shyt like fukking when u first meet. You might find a dude who aint trippin on when yall fukk and will still be down to rock with you after the fact. But know, there will always be nikkas that will write you off immediately because they got what they wanted quickly. It really depends on whether or not you can accept that reality.
 
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a chick who get a train ran on her is automatically a ho to me to but
You can't seem to get other nikka's dikks off your brain breh. We are talking about a woman choosing to have sex with you and the first thing that comes to your mind, again, is imagining nikkas running a train on her. Why do you keep making up imaginary situations involving other nikkas dikks? You're literally proving my point. You haven't garnered the balls or fortitude to ask her, so yes, you're basically choosing to imagine scenarios involving random men.

You're on your Steve Harvey tip and think it's impossible for a woman to genuinely like you enough to have sex with you the first night unless she's giving it up to everyone. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm not trying to change your opinion of yourself here.

Any woman who chooses fukks you on the first night has to be one dumb ass hoe. If you think that, that's fine. I am just looking at myself, the quality of woman I pull, and how often I pull, I am not surprised that women (especially black women, numbers game hard out here) want to fukk me and I am not on my Steve Harvey like you so I have no reason to judge and wonder why she's not "Thinking Like A Man" or whatever.
 

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You can't seem to get other nikka's dikks off your brain breh. We are talking about a woman choosing to have sex with you and the first thing that comes to your mind, again, is imagining nikkas running a train on her. Why do you keep making up imaginary situations involving other nikkas dikks? You're literally proving my point. You haven't garnered the balls or fortitude to ask her, so yes, you're basically choosing to imagine scenarios involving random men.

You're on your Steve Harvey tip and think it's impossible for a woman to genuinely like you enough to have sex with you the first night unless she's giving it up to everyone. There's nothing wrong with that. I'm not trying to change your opinion of yourself here.

Any woman who chooses fukks you on the first night has to be one dumb ass hoe. If you think that, that's fine. I am just looking at myself, the quality of woman I pull, and how often I pull, I am not surprised that women (especially black women, numbers game hard out here) want to fukk me and I am not on my Steve Harvey like you so I have no reason to judge and wonder why she's not "Thinking Like A Man" or whatever.

you talkin about dikks again,stopped reading after first sentence:camby:...reword it and get back to me:rudy:
 
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